{"id":51963,"date":"2020-01-23T17:49:42","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T17:49:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51963"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:52:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:52:39","slug":"una-carta-para-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-para-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta para m\u00ed antes de ser madre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oye t\u00fa, \u00bftomar\u00e1s caf\u00e9 esta noche con tus amigos? Disfruta de ese momento. Mantente concentrado y escucha de verdad todo lo que tengan que decirte.<\/p>\n

Escucha la historia sobre el tercer desenga\u00f1o amoroso que ha tenido tu amiga coqueta esta semana y, de verdad, intenta ayudarla a sentirse mejor.<\/p>\n

There will come the time you won\u2019t be able to care for your own heartbreaks and their talks about reckless nights out will annoy you more than anything else.<\/p>\n

Care for them, give them all you\u2019ve got, because when the time comes, they will be there for you, with their hearts and souls, ready to help and raise you up anytime you cave under the pressure.<\/p>\n

They will listen to the endless little troubles you are having with your kiddos and they will constantly praise you for being \u201csuch a good mom.\u201d They are worth absolutely everything you have to offer. Remember that at all times.<\/p>\n

Tal vez esta noche sea noche de cita para ti y tu maridito. S\u00ed, ponte ese vestido rojo ajustado, absofuckinglutely.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Los tacones y el pintalabios tambi\u00e9n. Pasa una noche inolvidable. Id a alg\u00fan sitio y bailad como locos. Haced el amor, apasionadamente, toda la noche.<\/p>\n

In your future, there are many, many sleepless nights that will be a product of a very different kind of love \u2013 you two taking care of your babies.<\/p>\n

Har\u00e1 cualquier cosa por ti y por ellos. Te apoyar\u00e1 durante los partos, acunar\u00e1 a los beb\u00e9s hasta que se duerman y te traer\u00e1 la cena.<\/p>\n

He will work harder than ever, so you can buy all the baby stuff \u2013 and damn, is it expensive!<\/p>\n

Querr\u00e1s demostrarle cu\u00e1nto le quieres, querr\u00e1s d\u00e1rselo todo, pero a veces simplemente no quedar\u00e1 nada que dar. Hazlo ahora.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Go to the movies or cuddle up on the sofa and watch mindless TV shows for hours straight. Don\u2019t go anywhere, just chill out talking to each other. Also, go everywhere; there won\u2019t be much opportunity for that once the babies come.<\/p>\n

Todo se vuelve mucho m\u00e1s complicado.<\/p>\n

Haven\u2019t seen your mother for a while? Well, visit her this instant.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Bonita<\/p>\n

Bring her favorite cookies from that place you once visited together. You know, the one where you were arguing because of something you can\u2019t even remember now?<\/p>\n

Nunca discutas con ella por razones tan tontas.<\/p>\n

Te mantendr\u00e1 con vida. Cocinar\u00e1, limpiar\u00e1 y te ba\u00f1ar\u00e1 despu\u00e9s de que pases por un mal momento al dar a luz a tu primer hijo.<\/p>\n

Nothing anyone does after you\u2019ve had children of your own will be as helpful as the things she does.<\/p>\n

Te conoce y quiere a tus hijos como si fueran suyos. Mu\u00e9strale aprecio cada d\u00eda, en todo lo que digas.<\/p>\n

Nunca faltes al respeto a tu madre. Ella es la que hizo por ti todo lo que t\u00fa haces ahora por tus hijos.<\/strong> Tenlo presente cada segundo de cada d\u00eda. Ella es irremplazable.<\/p>\n

Nunca, jam\u00e1s, a toda costa seas la raz\u00f3n de sus l\u00e1grimas. Cuando tengas a tus beb\u00e9s, te romper\u00e1 darte cuenta de que ya derram\u00f3 tantas l\u00e1grimas por ti.<\/p>\n

Ser madre te parece ahora tan sencillo y hermoso, \u00bfverdad?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Familia<\/p>\n

Te casas, tienes a tus hijos, los ba\u00f1as, les das de comer y esas cosas. S\u00ed, haces esas cosas. Pero debes saber que nada de lo que has hecho se parece a ser madre.<\/p>\n

Es lo m\u00e1s sencillo, lo m\u00e1s natural y, sin embargo, de ello se desprende la m\u00e1s compleja gama de emociones. La maternidad. Te cambiar\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tu cara ser\u00e1 diferente. Esa chispita en los ojos que tienes cuando ocurre algo emocionante estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed todo el tiempo, siempre que tus beb\u00e9s est\u00e9n felices y sanos.<\/p>\n

Se te agarrotar\u00e1 la boca cada vez que quieras gritarles por pintar en el sof\u00e1 o correr por la casa con los pies embarrados.<\/p>\n

Tu frente se arrugar\u00e1 cada d\u00eda m\u00e1s, por toda la preocupaci\u00f3n por ellos que llevas en el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You must also know this: You have never laughed or cried. You think you have, but the moment they hand you your little bundle of joy, everything will become clear. You\u2019ve only felt things half-heartedly up to this point.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Go around and smell everything you love. Smell the grass after the rain, smell those red roses in your grandma\u2019s backyard.<\/p>\n

Go smell Chanel 5 on your mother\u2019s shirt, your favorite chocolate.<\/p>\n

Heck, if you\u2019re up for it, even go and smell the sea. Nothing, and I mean nothing will come close to the smell of your babies’ heads and their little baby-breath mouths.<\/p>\n

\"Bonita<\/p>\n

Cada vez que te sorprendas respirando su aroma llorar\u00e1s al instante.<\/p>\n

You will cry because you will be so happy to have felt such a strong emotion, but also because you\u2019ll become aware that it can\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

And hey! You\u2019ll be amazing. You\u2019ll be so brave. You\u2019ll laugh in the face of any kind of misfortune and do it all for your children.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deja de odiarte. Deja de pensar que eres indigno. Por lo que sea que est\u00e9s haciendo ahora mismo, te doy las gracias.<\/p>\n

It will help you become the person you\u2019ll need to be in order to fill a complex mother role.<\/p>\n

I know you are not going to college right now. Don\u2019t worry. You\u2019ll manage to graduate even with two beautiful little girls driving you nuts.<\/p>\n

After calming a sick baby for an hour, you\u2019re going to sit down and study and pass all your exams on the first try with the highest grades.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll even bring them to exams sometimes, because there won\u2019t be anyone to take care of them for you more times than not.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all going to work out just fine. You can manage. You\u2019ll grow stronger each and every day.<\/p>\n

\"Familia<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t mean to tell you this, but I guess you\u2019ll find out anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tus ni\u00f1as son preciosas. Son como su padre. Fuertes, divertidas, r\u00e1pidas. Nunca descansan, as\u00ed que prep\u00e1rate para eso.<\/p>\n

You will share your heart and soul with them, offering every little piece of you like it\u2019s nothing. And they will take it and love you for it.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll cry when you leave the room and run after you wherever you go. You \u2019ll need time alone, but once you get it, you\u2019ll miss them like crazy.<\/p>\n

Ahora son una parte de ti. Una parte m\u00e1s grande, m\u00e1s fuerte y m\u00e1s bonita. Nada de lo que hagas en este momento impedir\u00e1 que te quieran. Debes saberlo, y recuerda amarte a ti misma tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Buena suerte,
\nYo despu\u00e9s de ser mam\u00e1<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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