{"id":52102,"date":"2020-01-27T23:27:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-27T23:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52102"},"modified":"2022-05-09T00:17:31","modified_gmt":"2022-05-09T00:17:31","slug":"ensenale-a-vivir-sin-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ensenale-a-vivir-sin-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando ignoras a una mujer de verdad, le ense\u00f1as a vivir sin ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, te han ense\u00f1ado que necesitas hazte el duro<\/b><\/a> si quieres tener cualquier chica que elijas.<\/strong> You assumed that this was the only way to truly win a girl\u2019s heart, to get in her pants and finally under her skin.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, we all want what and who we can\u2019t have, right? And she is no exception; at least, she shouldn\u2019t be one.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve done this trick like a million times; you acted like you couldn\u2019t care less about the girl you were seeing until she was all yours. And each one of them fell for it.<\/p>\n

So, here is the drill: The more you run from her, the more she\u2019ll chase you. If you make her doubt your feelings every day, she\u2019ll give her best to enter your heart.<\/p>\n

When you treat her coldly, she\u2019ll put an effort into making you love her. When you send her mixed signals, she will spend hours or days thinking about you and trying to decode them.<\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Si te haces el misterioso, su prioridad ser\u00e1 descifrarte y descubrir todas las capas de tu personalidad. Si juegas a juegos mentales fr\u00edos y calientes, har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para llegar al fondo de tus intenciones.<\/p>\n

When you leave her on read, she will double-text you to see what went wrong. When you don\u2019t return her calls, she will panically start stalking you, just to find out where you are and what you\u2019ve been up to.<\/p>\n

If you are seeing other girls, she\u2019ll compete with them until she has you all to herself. If you give her breadcrumbs of your attention, she won\u2019t settle until she gets your wholehearted love.<\/p>\n

When a girl doesn\u2019t know where she stands with you, you automatically become more interesting. You become her prey and she doesn\u2019t give up until she catches you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And by then, it is usually too late\u2014she is already head over heels for you. After all the effort she put into you, she is ready to do whatever it takes to keep you around.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Aprovecha<\/p>\n

En realidad, las cosas son bastante sencillas: Cuanto m\u00e1s ignorar a una mujer<\/a>, the more effort she\u2019ll put into chasing you. The more indifference you show, the bigger her fight will be to win your heart.<\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa: All of this is nothing but a load of crap. Yes, it might be true when it comes to immature girls who don\u2019t know what they want.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este enfoque funciona para las chicas que tienen un problema de inseguridad y que necesitan tu aprobaci\u00f3n para ver su autoestima. Para chicas a las que les va el drama sin sentido y que necesitan un subid\u00f3n de ego en forma de hombre.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todo es diferente cuando se trata de un  <\/b>mujer de verdad<\/b><\/a> because where she is concerned, you\u2019ll only get the opposite effect\u2014you\u2019ll end up chasing her away with this behavior.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You see, this woman isn\u2019t into games. She is not turned on by men who are not sure about her and who have trouble making up their mind about her.<\/p>\n

This girl knows what and who she wants and won\u2019t settle for a man who treats her like one of his options. Besides, she doesn\u2019t have the time or the energy for the chase you so desperately crave.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, a ella le gustan las cosas pasadas de moda; ya sabes, como el amor, el respeto, la honestidad y la atenci\u00f3n incondicional.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que when you ignore this girl, you\u2019re only helping her get used to a life without you. You are giving her a chance to learn how to get by on her own and an opportunity to kick you out of her system.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only distancing yourself from her and you\u2019re helping her get over you while you\u2019re still there. You\u2019re showing her that she is only wasting her time with you and you\u2019re giving yourself a one-way ticket out of her life.<\/p>\n

This woman needs someone who will be a consistent figure in her life. A man she can rely on, without having to constantly worry if he\u2019ll turn his back on her the very next morning after he promised her the world.<\/p>\n

She needs someone to be her life companion and someone who will make her existence more beautiful. However, what she doesn\u2019t need is a guy who will drain her energy and turn her life into a nightmare.<\/p>\n

Una mujer de verdad necesita hombre de verdad<\/b><\/a>. Lo \u00faltimo que quiere es un chico con problemas de autoestima muy arraigados que necesita que ella vaya detr\u00e1s de \u00e9l para sentirse m\u00e1s hombre de lo que en realidad es.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, she is very well aware of her self-worth so she definitely won\u2019t allow you to humiliate her and treat her like your puppy. Yes, she loves you deeply but that doesn\u2019t mean she is ready to lose her dignity just to heal your insecurities.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por mucho que esta mujer se preocupe por ti, she won\u2019t beg you<\/a> to give her what she deserves even if her life depends on it. Most importantly\u2014she won\u2019t sit there patiently waiting for you to come to your senses and realize it\u2019s about time to change your ways.<\/p>\n

\"Conceptos<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, don\u2019t be surprised when se aleja<\/b><\/a> de ti y recuerda que fuiste t\u00fa quien provoc\u00f3 su marcha. Cuando te deje, recuerda que no le dejaste otra opci\u00f3n y que la alejaste con tu comportamiento infantil.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014don\u2019t expect her to come back and understand that this is her final goodbye.<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, she warned you that this day would come and that you\u2019re testing both her limits and her patience. She kept telling you to cut the crap, to start treating her with respect and to make up your mind.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, seguiste con tus patrones t\u00f3xicos. Pensabas que todo era una farsa y estabas seguro de que ella se quedar\u00eda siempre a tu lado, perdiendo el tiempo en esta situaci\u00f3n a la que la hab\u00edas arrastrado.<\/p>\n

Well, guess what? She won\u2019t. Le ense\u00f1aste a vivir sin ti, \u00a1as\u00ed que atente a las consecuencias!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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