It might not be easy; it’s a learning process. But it\u2019ll be a much better option for you because that\u2019s how you\u2019ll find your peace.<\/p>\n
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La mayor lucha de la vida es aceptarnos, abrazarnos y querernos a nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n
Recuerda que no importa cu\u00e1ntas veces te caigas o te den un pu\u00f1etazo, tienes que seguir adelante. Respira hondo y sigue adelante.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pero, por suerte, la vida es un oponente justo. Aunque te lance un pu\u00f1etazo infernal, te da la oportunidad de levantarte y recuperarte.<\/p>\n Seguro que te regalan una segunda oportunidad. Entonces todo depender\u00e1 de ti. De nadie m\u00e1s que de ti.<\/p>\n Life gives you lemons. It\u2019s up to you what to do with them.<\/p>\n Your heart finally said, \u201cEnough is enough.\u201d You tried and tried, but now you\u2019re so tired of giving love to someone who doesn’t deserve it. So, give it to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n Empieza a quererte como quer\u00edas que \u00e9l te quisiera. Demu\u00e9strate a ti misma que eres digna de amor. Perdona a tu yo del pasado y c\u00e9ntrate s\u00f3lo en el futuro. Cree en ti y en tus capacidades.<\/p>\n The sky is not the limit, your mind is. When things change inside of you, they change around you too. It’s never too late. Change is always a good idea and its timing is always right.<\/p>\n You have this giant book called \u201cLife\u201d and every year is one chapter in that book. You are the writer of it, of course. So, why shouldn’t you write something different and better in this new chapter?!<\/strong><\/p>\n You can’t start over if you are still holding onto the past. You have to embrace whatever has happened to you and let it go.<\/p>\n Leaving any relationship isn\u2019t easy, but leaving a toxic one is necessary for you.<\/p>\n Te mereces la verdad. Tienes que decirte la verdad, por fea que sea. S\u00e9 sincera contigo misma y admite que tu vida ser\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s feliz sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n I know you love him, but this time you have to choose to love yourself more. If you don\u2019t let him go, you\u2019ll lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n But he isn\u2019t the only obstacle on your journey to self-love. Let go of family members that are only using you. Let go of friends who don’t reciprocate. Let go of all those toxic relationships.<\/p>\n Let go of a boss who doesn’t appreciate you. Let go of all the things that are not good for your health. Live your amends.<\/p>\n Ve a alg\u00fan sitio. Recarga las pilas.<\/p>\n Take one deep breath and say thank you. Thank you Past for every lesson you taught me. And thank you Life for giving me this second chance. Say hello to the Future because that\u2019s your best friend from now on.<\/strong><\/p>\n To be honest, starting all over is not an easy job. You’ll need to have patience. You’ll have to be full of understanding and compassion. This is one of the most challenging moments in your life.<\/p>\n Now you are like a caterpillar. And when you finally let him go and lock him in the past, then you\u2019ll be ready to turn into a beautiful butterfly.<\/p>\n It is a process that demands much courage and confidence. You\u2019ll become a new woman. That\u2019s a whole chapter of your life and you are slowly and carefully entering it.<\/p>\n Lo m\u00e1s importante en este proceso es empezar a quererte tal y como eres. Acabas de darte cuenta de que la vida no es perfecta, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 deber\u00edas serlo t\u00fa?<\/p>\n Lo \u00fanico perfecto de ti deber\u00edan ser tus imperfecciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n Son la prueba de que eres un ser humano y de que sigues vivo. Naciste perfecto, pero la vida te dej\u00f3 muchas cicatrices que dejaron imperfecciones en tu cuerpo y en tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Pero as\u00ed es como debe ser. Aprende a amar cada una de esas cicatrices porque los recuerdos est\u00e1n impresos en cada una de ellas. Acepta todas tus imperfecciones y s\u00e9 imperfecto.<\/p>\n We are often wrong in accepting the love we think we deserve. But what’s the point of being second in someone’s life when you can always be first in your own?<\/strong><\/p>\n Tienes que entender que eres suficiente. Si no eres suficiente para tu pareja, entonces debes serlo para ti mismo.<\/p>\n Self-acceptance is not just a word or concept, it\u2019s an art. Not every man is capable of this kind of love.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pero, naturalmente, tienes que trabajar en ti mismo todos los d\u00edas. Tienes que mantener tu cuerpo, tu mente y tu esp\u00edritu en buena forma. Todo eso necesita alimento, ejercicio y relajaci\u00f3n. El amor propio y el cuidado de uno mismo van de la mano.<\/p>\n Ahora, por favor, lev\u00e1ntate y ve a mirarte al espejo. Pide perd\u00f3n a la persona atrapada ah\u00ed dentro y lib\u00e9rala por fin.<\/p>\n Now say, \u201cElijo amarme a m\u00ed mismo.<\/em>\u201d Say it again. Say it as many times as you need.<\/p>\n Finally, promise yourself that you will love yourself unconditionally and eternally. At that moment you’ll meet a whole new life \u2013 a life you’ll finally enjoy.<\/p>\n La vida te dio limones, \u00a1ahora por favor ve y haz limonada!<\/em><\/p>\n He never knew how to love you. And you? You loved too much, cared too deeply, and invested your whole heart, body, and soul into the relationship. And what did you get in return? You tried so hard, but now you are tired of everything. Tired of giving love and getting nowhere. 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