{"id":52500,"date":"2020-11-07T20:24:48","date_gmt":"2020-11-07T20:24:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52500"},"modified":"2021-11-03T08:02:06","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T08:02:06","slug":"recordo-quien-era","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/recordo-quien-era\/","title":{"rendered":"Record\u00f3 qui\u00e9n era y el juego cambi\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ella era fuerte, feroz, independiente<\/a>. Nunca pens\u00f3 que perderse a s\u00ed misma por un tipo fuera una opci\u00f3n. Entonces lo conoci\u00f3.<\/p>\n

With every day spent together, she liked him more. With every beautiful gesture he did for her, she fell more and more in love with him. It was perfect… until it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento empez\u00f3 a dar demasiado de s\u00ed misma a la relaci\u00f3n que manten\u00eda con \u00e9l. \u00c9l nunca se lo pidi\u00f3, pero el amor la hab\u00eda cegado ante sus propias necesidades.<\/p>\n

Hab\u00eda empezado a quererle m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed misma.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She started putting his wishes above her needs. She gave in to the weakness of loving someone too much. And that someone wasn\u2019t her.<\/p>\n

El miedo a perderlo ahuyent\u00f3 todo el amor que sent\u00eda por s\u00ed misma.<\/strong>. Dej\u00f3 de hacer cosas que le gustaban y disfrutaba para estar siempre disponible para \u00e9l y sus planes.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 de preocuparse tambi\u00e9n por sus necesidades. Adopt\u00f3 sus propias actitudes sobre s\u00ed misma. Ya no tomaba sus deseos y necesidades como algo relevante.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

She started thinking he was selfish and unappreciative of her. But then, it hit her: No one can love you if you don\u2019t love yourself. <\/strong><\/p>\n

No one can fulfill your needs if you can\u2019t do it on your own.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Record\u00f3 qui\u00e9n era y el juego cambi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Volvi\u00f3 a ser ella misma, volvi\u00f3 a hacer cosas que hac\u00eda antes...se volvi\u00f3 dependiente de \u00e9l<\/a> para hacerla feliz.<\/p>\n

Encontr\u00f3 tiempo para sus amigos y aficiones, y empez\u00f3 a disfrutar de ser quien era para variar.<\/p>\n

Ya no intentaba ser la chica con la que cre\u00eda que \u00e9l quer\u00eda estar. Volvi\u00f3 a ser ella misma. Y eso marc\u00f3 la diferencia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Record\u00f3 que fue de ELLA de quien se enamor\u00f3 en primer lugar. Fue ELLA quien hizo que se sintiera locamente atra\u00eddo por ella y que hiciera todo tipo de maravillosas cosas rom\u00e1nticas que hizo al principio de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Getting her self-esteem back wasn\u2019t easy, but seeing how it affected him and their relationship made her stronger than ever.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9l la miraba como si lo fuera todo en este mundo cuando la conoci\u00f3, pero ella empez\u00f3 a tratarse como si no fuera nada, y pronto \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Estaba muy cansada de no sentirse nada. Necesitaba que \u00e9l volviera a ser como era, pero para que eso ocurriera, ella ten\u00eda que recordar qui\u00e9n era.<\/p>\n

Una vez que ella volvi\u00f3 a su ser original, una vez que empez\u00f3 a preocuparse por su propio bienestar, \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n lo hizo. Dej\u00f3 de ser una chica necesitada que lo asfixiaba.<\/p>\n

Volver a ser como era antes de conocerle hizo que se enamorara de ella de nuevo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She couldn\u2019t have blamed him. If it was so painfully easy for her to forget about herself, it sure must have been much easier for him.<\/p>\n

He never wanted to do her harm nor did she want to harm herself, but that\u2019s exactly what her love for him did to her.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l se convirti\u00f3 en lo m\u00e1s importante de su vida y ella dej\u00f3 de creer que su vida era importante.<\/p>\n

\"fuera<\/p>\n

\u00c9l era lo \u00fanico que le importaba y su obsesi\u00f3n era exactamente lo que le hab\u00eda alejado de \u00e9l en primer lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There was no specific moment that made her realize that this person she seems to be with him is not her true self. It went on for way too long, but luckily she\u2019d had enough one day.<\/p>\n

Estaba encantado de que se encontrara a s\u00ed misma de nuevo. \u00c9l tambi\u00e9n estaba encantado de haberla encontrado.<\/em><\/p>\n

And guess what? It never went back to the way it was at the beginning. It was so, so much better. She knew that she\u2019d never let go of herself for any man or other reason.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, lo amaba profundamente, pero se prometi\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma no dejar que el amor que sent\u00eda por \u00e9l arruinara el amor que sent\u00eda por s\u00ed misma.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vivir su propia vida, alejada de \u00e9l, la hac\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s interesante.<\/p>\n

He saw the way she enjoyed pursuing her own happiness and it made him proud to be with such a woman. That\u2019s what he wanted all along \u2013 to be with someone he can be proud of.<\/p>\n

Record\u00f3 qui\u00e9n era y el juego cambi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

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She was strong, fierce, independent. She never thought losing herself because of some guy was an option. Then she met him. With every day spent together, she liked him more. With every beautiful gesture he did for her, she fell more and more in love with him. It was perfect… until it wasn\u2019t. Somewhere along…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121995,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52500","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Remembered-Who-She-Was-And-The-Game-Changed-1-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52500","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52500"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52500\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52500"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52500"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52500"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}