{"id":52713,"date":"2020-02-12T13:18:13","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T13:18:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52713"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:03:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:03:04","slug":"el-hombre-se-perdio-en-dms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-hombre-se-perdio-en-dms\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Man Got Lost In My DMs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I heard you found me in your man&#8217;s DMs.<\/p>\n<p>Me alegro de que hayas visto su primer <em>&#8216;Are you free tonight?&#8217;<\/em> a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfHiciste clic en mi foto y le\u00edste todo mi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/entertainment\/instagram-captions-800-frases-mas-epicas-para-tus-fotos\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pies de foto de Instagram<\/span><\/a>?!<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfHas mirado mi biograf\u00eda? \u00bfAcabas de seguirme en Instagram?<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres, puedes agregarme tambi\u00e9n en Facebook porque estoy deseando ver tus habilidades de stalkeador.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre feliz de barba negra con un tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-black-man-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are very much welcome to come and hang out with me and my girls. We can talk about hair, make-up, clothes, movies and food, colors and weather, glitter and rainbows or we can get straight to the point\u2014about men, heartbreaks and cheaters?<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00e9 que probablemente me odias, aunque no hice nada malo. Tu hombre lo hizo. Yo s\u00f3lo fui colateral, una v\u00edctima que se lastim\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n en el proceso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Searching, exploring and analyzing people\u2019s profiles does not necessarily show you who they are. I am not my social media profiles. Nobody is.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52717\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg\" alt=\"mujer alegre sentada en una silla junto a la ventana con las piernas al aire\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/joyful-woman-sitting-in-chair-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Behind pictures, descriptions, likes, comments, shared songs, stories and posts with &#8216;heartbreaking poems&#8217; by famous poets, there is a human with a tangled web of mess and desires, wishes and urges.<\/p>\n<p>That is the place where you found me\u2014among your man&#8217;s cravings and lust.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m wondering how you felt. Was it as bad for you as it was for me when I found out that you exist?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u00bfEs tu rabia mayor que mi decepci\u00f3n al enterarme de que se lo hab\u00edan llevado? \u00bfSon tus celos tan intensos como mi empat\u00eda? \u00bfDuelen tanto tus l\u00e1grimas como mi confianza destrozada?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52719\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de una joven triste que mira por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am wondering about a lot of things I will never get an answer to, and that\u2019s OK. Not everything in life deserves an answer or explanation.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I want you to know that it wasn\u2019t my fault your man got sidetracked.<\/p>\n<p>Soy una mujer, como t\u00fa. En todas mis relaciones anteriores, di tanto como pude tomar.<\/p>\n<p>Among all my desires, dreams, hopes and wishes that I keep hidden behind my perfect pictures, I have to take care of someone else&#8217;s too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00e9 que te acus\u00e9 de acoso al principio, pero yo tambi\u00e9n soy culpable de ello.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52721\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven en una cafeter\u00eda hablando por tel\u00e9fono junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-with-a-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I clicked on your photo, checked your bio and read what you put in the descriptions of your photos. I don\u2019t really know why I did that.<\/p>\n<p>Supongo que esperaba obtener algunas respuestas. Supongo que quer\u00eda encontrar algo de sentido en esta situaci\u00f3n sin sentido.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Supongo que s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda saber c\u00f3mo era su novia. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda saber si sabes que tu hombre perdi\u00f3 el rumbo, te traicion\u00f3 y acab\u00f3 en mis DMs.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quiero que sepas que en cuanto supe de ti, cort\u00e9 todo contacto.<\/p>\n<p>I comfort myself that I&#8217;ve learned about men and will not repeat the same mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Que volver\u00e9 a comprobar si est\u00e1n solteros o cogidos antes de hacerme ilusiones.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En cierto modo, lo siento por los dos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52722\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"silueta de una joven triste junto al oc\u00e9ano al atardecer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-in-the-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por ti porque te estaba apu\u00f1alando por la espalda y por m\u00ed porque me duele no comunicarme m\u00e1s con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Me acostumbr\u00e9. Era agradable tener a alguien que te presta tanta atenci\u00f3n y piensa todo de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora que he descubierto lo que hay debajo, siento todo un espectro de emociones y ninguna de ellas es agradable de sentir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tu hombre hizo un peque\u00f1o l\u00edo en mi vida. Pero supongo que una vez que descubras qui\u00e9n es realmente, va a hacer uno a\u00fan mayor en la tuya.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, his DMs haven\u2019t stopped, even though I stopped replying. I&#8217;ve received 23 more messages in total from your man and I haven\u2019t replied to any of them.<\/p>\n<p>I know he expects me to answer sooner or later, but I don&#8217;t want to. For your sake or for my own.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52723\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Your Man Got Lost In My DMs\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I heard you found me in your man&#8217;s DMs. I am glad you saw his first &#8216;Are you free tonight?&#8217; to me. Did you click on my photo and read all my Instagram captions?! Did you check my bio? Did you just follow me on Instagram?? If you want, you can add me on Facebook&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":52725,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Your-Man-Got-Lost-In-My-DMs.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52725"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}