{"id":52743,"date":"2020-02-12T14:50:18","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T14:50:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=52743"},"modified":"2022-10-18T12:06:09","modified_gmt":"2022-10-18T12:06:09","slug":"como-dejar-de-perseguir-a-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-dejar-de-perseguir-a-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo dejar de perseguir a los hombres y recuperar tu poder"},"content":{"rendered":"

Comienza un nuevo a\u00f1o. El nuevo a\u00f1o viene acompa\u00f1ado de muchos prop\u00f3sitos de A\u00f1o Nuevo.<\/p>\n

Para las solteras, los prop\u00f3sitos suelen incluir la b\u00fasqueda de pareja. Una resoluci\u00f3n es un buen punto de partida, pero a menos que est\u00e9s dispuesta a hacer algo diferente este a\u00f1o, tus patrones de relaci\u00f3n no cambiar\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Como mujeres, a menudo culpamos a los hombres de nuestros fracasos en las relaciones. Como casamentera y entrenadora de citas, he aprendido que nuestras disfunciones en las relaciones comienzan con nosotras mismas.<\/p>\n

Si no consigues lo que quieres de los hombres, prueba estos pasos:<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be the communication lead<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t the Dark Ages. Their messages to you did not go missing. This is also not Harry Potter; the owls didn\u2019t lose their letters to you.<\/p>\n

This is 2020, so if you don\u2019t hear from them, they don\u2019t want to talk to you.<\/p>\n

Si el hombre en cuesti\u00f3n tiene tu n\u00famero, sabe d\u00f3nde encontrarte. Nunca debes ser t\u00fa quien inicie los mensajes o las llamadas.<\/p>\n

The initiation of every conversation speaks volumes about who is most interested. Don\u2019t be more interested in someone than they are interested in you.<\/p>\n

You should be the person being pursued. I don\u2019t agree with many of the damsel in distress values promoted by the classic Disney movies but Cinderella got the art of pursuit down to a T. You should be treated like the prince treated Cinderella.<\/p>\n

El pr\u00edncipe hizo todo lo posible por encontrar a la due\u00f1a leg\u00edtima del zapatito de cristal. La quer\u00eda y se esforz\u00f3.<\/p>\n

A little distance goes a long way. If you\u2019re reading this and you have fallen prey to being the communication lead, there is still hope.<\/p>\n

Puedes cambiar r\u00e1pidamente la din\u00e1mica dejando de iniciar la conversaci\u00f3n. Si \u00e9l no inicia la conversaci\u00f3n, no habr\u00e1 m\u00e1s comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si te encuentras respondiendo a su mensaje de inmediato cuando te deja esperando una respuesta<\/a>Para.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t save your valuable time<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

As you know, there are only 24 hours in a day. No, that\u2019s not a lot of hours. It\u2019s true, it is nearly impossible to get anything done. All true facts.<\/p>\n

Si alguien te diera prioridad, encajar\u00edas en sus 24 horas de alguna manera.<\/p>\n

Si no lo hizo, tenga en cuenta que fue una elecci\u00f3n consciente por su parte. A menudo, las palabras que no se dicen son m\u00e1s importantes que las que s\u00ed se dicen. Si un hombre est\u00e1 interesado, encontrar\u00e1 tiempo para verte, llamarte y hacerte saber que eres importante para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t need you to make all of the plans. He won\u2019t need you to figure out how he might be able to \u2018squeeze\u2019 you into his hectic schedule.<\/p>\n

When a man values you, it won\u2019t be mistaken. You won\u2019t need your girlfriends to validate what his intentions are.<\/p>\n

When you value your time, you won\u2019t need to ask him when he is next available. He will ask you out with enough notice to make it clear that you are not his \u2018backup\u2019 plan.<\/p>\n

En caso de que reciba un mensaje de \u00faltima hora y lo acepte, habr\u00e1 iniciado la persecuci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Como mujeres solteras, a menudo malgastamos nuestro tiempo libre en estar disponibles para citas y socializar. Una de las mejores cosas que las mujeres solteras pueden hacer para proteger su valioso tiempo es planificar sus semanas con antelaci\u00f3n y ce\u00f1irse a un horario. Tu vida y tus planes son lo primero porque te valoras.<\/p>\n

Deja de disminuir tu autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

We all deserve to have people in our lives who want us there. They make the effort to be there for us. It\u2019s reciprocated with our efforts to be there for them.<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas cuando aprendiste en la clase de educaci\u00f3n c\u00edvica sobre los frenos y contrapesos del gobierno federal?<\/p>\n

En una relaci\u00f3n ideal, cada persona tiene un trabajo en la relaci\u00f3n y s\u00f3lo hace su trabajo. El efecto de que cada persona haga s\u00f3lo su trabajo es que crea espacio para que la otra parte haga el suyo.<\/p>\n

Los esfuerzos son iguales y nadie se excede, por lo que la relaci\u00f3n es equilibrada.<\/p>\n

Proper balanced relationships are exciting. They leave us feeling good about ourselves because the other person\u2019s effort shows they value us.<\/p>\n

Cuando cometes el error de hacerlo todo en la relaci\u00f3n, da\u00f1as tu confianza en ti mismo y mermas temporalmente tu autoestima.<\/p>\n

These diminishments occur because you begin wondering why you weren\u2019t good enough. If you find yourself already questioning this, there is something you can do today to change it. Start listing three amazing qualities about yourself every day.<\/p>\n

I always advise my clients to do this in the mirror each morning. It sounds silly but it feels so good and validates your worth by the most important person in your life\u2014you!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t miss out on the right people<\/h2>\n

\"Silueta<\/p>\n

When your tunnel vision is on those you have to chase, you can\u2019t focus on the people waiting to value you. If those people are already present in your life, you can\u2019t see them because you\u2019re not giving them a chance to be seen.<\/p>\n

If the people who value you are not in your life yet, you won\u2019t be able to receive them because your heart and eyes will be elsewhere.<\/p>\n

A 29 de octubre de 2019, hab\u00eda 7.700 millones de personas en el planeta. Vaya. Ese n\u00famero es asombroso para tu sentido del valor.<\/p>\n

Si hay tanta gente en el planeta, hay al menos una persona que estar\u00e1 encantada con lo que tienes que ofrecer. La probabilidad de que haya m\u00e1s de una persona que te valore es de una probabilidad astron\u00f3mica.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., deja de perseguirlo y ver\u00e1s lo que pasa<\/a>. Start making a note of the people in your life who value you. Don\u2019t hesitate to diversify your focus.<\/p>\n

If you have done a self-assessment and can honestly say you\u2019re fixated on one person, look at your other options. Some of you are thinking that a certain someone in your life will change. Maybe they will and maybe they won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you have no control over anyone else but life is too short to be lived with rose-colored glasses when viewing your relationships. There is someone who will very clearly accept, appreciate and adore you but you\u2019ll have to readjust your focus.<\/p>\n

Hey girl, I\u2019m no Ryan Gosling but you are worth the chase, the pursuit and the adoration of love. Put an end to your chasing days and realize your worth.<\/p>\n

X,
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