{"id":5287,"date":"2020-09-19T13:01:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-19T13:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5287"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:43:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:43:53","slug":"queria-que-lucharas-por-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/queria-que-lucharas-por-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Quer\u00eda que lucharas por m\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Querido \"amor de mi vida\",<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>A\u00fan recuerdo aquella noche en la que te dije que se hab\u00eda acabado. Te recuerdo de pie frente a m\u00ed y mir\u00e1ndome como se mira a un extra\u00f1o en la calle.<\/p>\n<p>Todav\u00eda siento esos escalofr\u00edos en el cuerpo cuando acabas de decir, <b><i>\u201cOkay\u201d<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>Sin siquiera intentar luchar por m\u00ed. Sin siquiera intentar hablar conmigo y disculparte por toda la mierda que me hiciste. Aceptaste mi decisi\u00f3n como si fuera lo m\u00e1s normal del mundo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00a1Espera! \u00bfQui\u00e9n est\u00e1 loco aqu\u00ed?&nbsp; <\/i><\/b><b><i>\u00bfDejas ir tan f\u00e1cilmente a la persona que amas?&nbsp; <\/i><\/b><b><i>Don\u2019t you fight for someone who means the world to you?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Those questions kept running through my head while I watched you leave. I didn\u2019t know what you felt inside of you. But I know that I didn\u2019t get the reaction I wanted to see.<\/p>\n<p>You left me like I was never yours. Like we haven\u2019t spent all these years together\u2014dreaming about the house we will buy and our kids that will play in the backyard.<\/p>\n<p>Con una sola palabra, hundiste todos mis barcos. Tu ignorancia me hizo sentir como una tonta. Parec\u00eda que yo era el \u00fanico que estaba enamorado en nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121819\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada sola junto a la mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-by-the-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Parec\u00eda que yo era el \u00fanico dispuesto a luchar cada segundo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY t\u00fa? S\u00f3lo fuiste un cobarde porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-vuelvas-chico-deja-escapar\/\">me dejas ir tan facilmente<\/a>. Como si nunca te hubiera pertenecido. Como si nunca te hubiera importado.<\/p>\n<p>Like I was just a stranger in the street. And that moment, I realized that I don\u2019t want you anymore. I don\u2019t need a man who won\u2019t fight for me.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need an almost relationship. I deserve so much more from my life, and unfortunately, you can\u2019t provide me with that. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b><i><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rania-naim\/2016\/08\/i-admit-it-i-wanted-you-to-fight-for-me\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Quer\u00eda que lucharas por m\u00ed<\/a>, but you couldn\u2019t do even that!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you are such a coward who lets go of the one you love, then I don\u2019t need you either. I want a man who will be there for me in my moments of sorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito un hombre que me apoye en mis decisiones. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-cosas-que-toda-mujer-necesita-en-una-relacion\/\">Necesito un hombre que<\/a> me dar\u00e1 la mano cuando la vida se ponga dura.<\/p>\n<p>Y, cari\u00f1o no eres ese hombre. Y nunca lo fuiste.<\/p>\n<p>I was just blindly in love with you so I couldn\u2019t see other men who were trying to win me over. I trusted you when you said that you want to marry me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121821\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa chica triste y pensativa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-pensive-sad-girl-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Confi\u00e9 en ti cuando dijiste que quer\u00edas que fuera la madre de tus hijos. Y me cre\u00ed toda esa mierda como una idiota mientras t\u00fa ten\u00edas otro plan en mente.<\/p>\n<p>Me hiciste sentir tan segura contigo pero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-obvious-signs-going-dump-take-off-rose-colored-glasses\/\">estabas pensando en buenas maneras de dejarme. <\/a>Y sent\u00ed que algo iba mal.<\/p>\n<p>I saw that in your eyes. Your eyes weren\u2019t the same as before. They weren\u2019t looking at me with the same passion.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, estaban fr\u00edos, como si alguien hubiera apagado esa llama que ard\u00eda en su interior. Y los ojos son el espejo del alma.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how I knew something was wrong. But I never imagined something like this could happen.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca pens\u00e9 que el amor de mi vida me dejar\u00eda ir. S\u00f3lo pens\u00e9 que est\u00e1bamos pasando por un bache en el camino y que resolver\u00edamos todos nuestros problemas hablando.<\/p>\n<p>But I was so wrong. I didn\u2019t see this one coming. And I must admit it knocked me off my feet. I couldn\u2019t believe that this was happening to me.<\/p>\n<p>To us. I thought we were a happy couple\u2014the one that will grow old together. But no, God had a different plan for us. He wanted to see us separated.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121820\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste llev\u00e1ndose las manos a la cabeza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sad-young-woman-holding-hands-on-her-head-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And now, when I look back, I am a happy and a satisfied woman. You want to know why? Because I was saved from a man who didn\u2019t deserve me.<\/p>\n<p>From a man who would sell me for his dreams. From a man who was a coward and couldn\u2019t give his heart. To the man who was afraid to love and to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want a man like that. I wanted a man who would fight for me, but you even couldn\u2019t do that. You didn\u2019t show me any respect. You didn\u2019t say that you were sorry.<\/p>\n<p>You just left me like I was a dog in the street. You didn\u2019t care if I would be okay, if I would scream and have a nervous breakdown.<\/p>\n<p>Te fuiste como si nunca hubiera sido tuya. Y gracias por hacerlo. Ahora, s\u00e9 lo que quiero de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora, s\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-de-alma-bondadosa\/\">qu\u00e9 clase de hombre merezco<\/a>. I know my worth and I know that I won\u2019t give you a second chance.<\/p>\n<p>Because I gave you so much more than you deserved\u2014so many sleepless nights waiting for you to come home.<\/p>\n<p>So many talks late at night, telling you that you shouldn\u2019t be worried about our problems, because if we love each other we will solve them all.<\/p>\n<p>In all that mess, I failed to see that you didn\u2019t want us to solve it all. You wanted to ruin our kingdom that we were building together, so we can\u2019t enjoy it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121822\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en un puente de madera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-a-wooden-bridge-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For some reason, you thought that we can\u2019t work. And I wanted us to work. I really did. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But your words were the last ones. And I couldn\u2019t do anything about that. I can just thank God for saving me from a broken man like you.<\/p>\n<p>Because my life with you would be everything but happy. With a broken man, nothing is easy, and I wasn\u2019t ready for someone like that.<\/p>\n<p>Quer\u00eda que lucharas por m\u00ed y me dijeras que prefer\u00edas estar sola que con otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>But unfortunately, I never heard those words coming out of your mouth. I heard just a simple \u201cOkay\u201d that I will remember until I die.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00f3lo por esa palabra, nunca me permitir\u00e9 tener un <a href=\"http:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/experts\/coach-amy-schoen\/7-ways-tell-if-you-are-almost-relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">casi relaci\u00f3n<\/a> como la que tuve contigo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00bfY t\u00fa? <\/i><\/b><b><i>Espero que alg\u00fan d\u00eda recuerdes lo que tuvimos y te arrepientas de todo lo que hiciste para que se acabara.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Con cero amor,<\/p>\n<p>La chica que se rindi\u00f3<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122017\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Quer\u00eda que lucharas por m\u00ed\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear \u2018love of my life\u2019, I still remember that night when I said it was over. I remember you standing in front of me and looking at me like you are looking at a stranger in the street. I still feel those chills in my body when you just said, \u201cOkay\u201d. Without even trying to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/I-Wanted-You-To-Fight-For-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}