{"id":5301,"date":"2020-03-13T13:46:35","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T13:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5301"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:25:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:25:00","slug":"como-acabar-con-un-narcisista-en-9-poderosos-pasos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-acabar-con-un-narcisista-en-9-poderosos-pasos\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo acabar con un narcisista en 9 poderosos pasos"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re looking for ways and inspiration on how to shut down a narcissist and regain your power, you’re in just the right place!<\/p>\n

Narcisista<\/span> gente<\/span><\/a> are very capable when it comes to taking over somebody\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll use anything and everything to make people do what they want and they\u2019ll be the ones to get the best of it. Summarized, it’s called narcissistic abuse.<\/p>\n

People who suffer from a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) tend to ruin other people’s self-esteem for the sake of becoming dominant.<\/p>\n

The main manipulation tactic they use is gaslighting, aka silent treatment (especially in toxic relationships and other types of abusive relationships), used to gain control over the victim’s emotional responses, which is a form of emotional abuse.<\/p>\n

Narcissists have a delusional sense of self-worth and a lack of empathy, which is their primary tool when it comes to destroying their victim’s self-worth.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Disculparse o decidir dejarte en paz no les interesa.<\/p>\n

Dealing with toxic people and psychopaths can result in severe damage of the victim’s mental health because the victim often doesn\u2019t know how to set boundaries and deal with a narcissist’s bad behavior.<\/p>\n

Esta persona puede ser tu vecino, tu jefe, tu compa\u00f1ero de trabajo, tu pareja narcisista, un padre narcisista, un ex narcisista, uno de tus amigos \u00edntimos o un familiar.<\/p>\n

Aprender a lidiar con sus tendencias narcisistas y a recuperar tu poder es necesario para prevenir da\u00f1os mayores y comenzar con el proceso de curaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ahora bien, todo el mundo lucha contra los narcisistas a su manera, pero las mujeres fuertes consiguen luchar contra ellos hasta el punto de ganarles en su propio juego, \u00a1as\u00ed que sin duda podr\u00edamos aprender un par de cosas de ellas!<\/p>\n

AS\u00cd ES COMO LAS MUJERES FUERTES CIERRAN EL PASO A LOS NARCISISTAS<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Los narcisistas son muy buenos para encontrar gente agradable con el fin de alimentar sus egos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre
\nLos narcisistas necesitan gente agradable a su alrededor, para sentirse mejor consigo mismos.<\/p>\n

Necesitan gente simp\u00e1tica para alimentar su ego. Ver\u00e1s, se rodean de gente as\u00ed enga\u00f1\u00e1ndoles para que piensen que son iguales.<\/p>\n

La diferencia es que las personas agradables s\u00f3lo te dicen cosas agradables cuando las dicen de verdad, mientras que un narcisista utilizar\u00e1 palabras agradables s\u00f3lo para enga\u00f1arte y que seas su amigo.<\/p>\n

Actuar\u00e1n como los extra\u00f1os m\u00e1s amables (sobre todo si necesitas ayuda con algo), te convencer\u00e1n de que son la persona m\u00e1s cari\u00f1osa y atenta del planeta haci\u00e9ndote cumplidos constantemente, mim\u00e1ndote y haci\u00e9ndote sentir especial.<\/p>\n

But they won\u2019t mean any of the nice words they say, their compliments will be fake and the only reason why they would ever want to make someone special is so that they can break them easily later on.<\/p>\n

El problema es que las mujeres fuertes no son tan ingenuas y por eso son maestras en evitar ser un suministro narcisista.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Strong women can easily spot whether somebody truly means what they’re saying or if it\u2019s just a trick.<\/p>\n

Las mujeres fuertes son muy conscientes de c\u00f3mo se ven y tambi\u00e9n de sus otras cualidades, y en cuanto notan que alguien es ingenuo, se desentienden al instante, aplican la regla del no contacto y \u00a1lo echan de sus vidas para siempre!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 4 cosas que pasar\u00e1n cuando te vayas <\/span>Sin contacto<\/span> Con un narcisista<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Los narcisistas son buenos para convencer a los dem\u00e1s de que otra persona es\/era el problema<\/h2>\n

\"hombre
\nA narcissist’s grandiose sense of self makes them feel superior over everyone around them.<\/p>\n

Ignoran sus propios errores y son capaces de echar la culpa a los dem\u00e1s en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/p>\n

They are in constant pursuit of their victim’s weaknesses so they can turn them against them. Accepting they did something wrong is never an option (unless they use it as a tool to manipulate you.)<\/p>\n

Pase lo que pase, seg\u00fan un narcisista, ha ocurrido por culpa de otra persona y est\u00e1 dispuesto a desvivirse por convencer a su v\u00edctima de que \u00e9l es el culpable de todo.<\/p>\n

El problema es que las mujeres fuertes nunca permiten que nadie las utilice como vertedero.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll admit their part of the guilt but they\u2019ll demand the same from the other side.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t ever allow a narcissist to put the blame on them or anybody else in fact and that\u2019s why narcissists have a tendency to avoid strong women.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: La gu\u00eda definitiva para ignorar a un narcisista (Detecci\u00f3n y consecuencias)<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Narcissists might make many long-term promises to raise the stakes in a relationship and make sure the person they\u2019re dating is highly invested<\/h2>\n

\"pareja
\nNarcissists lure their victims into believing they have a future together and that\u2019s when the victim lets down their guard completely.<\/p>\n

They fool the victim into believing that they have a strong connection, that they have future plans and that they’ll always be there for them no matter what.<\/p>\n

But in reality, the only thing they’re doing is giving fake promises so that they can easily manipulate their victim and make them think that they’re one hundred percent serious and devoted in the relationship.<\/p>\n

In reality, the only thing they’re doing is preparing the terrain for massive manipulation.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re that victim, you\u2019ll start planning your joint future and you won\u2019t be aware that the narcissist is using that open window to use you in any and every possible way.<\/p>\n

If you’re that victim, you’ll be blind to see the narcissist’s real nature because they are so good at hiding their true self.<\/p>\n

The problem is that strong women don\u2019t let down their guard so easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca creen s\u00f3lo en las palabras, siempre esperan que los dem\u00e1s realicen acciones que se ajusten a sus promesas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where their conflict with a narcissist arises because, as you might\u2019ve imagined, narcissistic people never keep their promises.<\/p>\n

Las mujeres fuertes nunca conf\u00edan en las palabras, las promesas o las excusas. Solo creen en los hechos y en lo que pueden ver con sus propios ojos.<\/p>\n

4. Los narcisistas tienen tendencia a manipular a la gente<\/h2>\n

\"hombre
\nNarcisista<\/span> la gente controla a los dem\u00e1s<\/span><\/a> teniendo la capacidad de influir en sus emociones o en sus actos para que las cosas vayan a su favor.<\/p>\n

Tienen tendencia a hacer que creas en cada una de sus palabras sin cuestionar nunca nada.<\/p>\n

And if you ever complain about being mistreated or similar, they will just accuse you of overreacting and being the crazy one, even though you know for a fact that you’re the victim in the whole story.<\/p>\n

But, unfortunately, they’re not interested in hearing any of it. They are only interested in hearing what they want to hear.<\/p>\n

They’re only interested in making you feel less worthy so that they can break you more easily but with strong women, this is not such an easy task.<\/p>\n

El problema es que las mujeres fuertes son extremadamente dif\u00edciles de manipular.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they don\u2019t feel like doing something or if they have a strong opinion about something, it\u2019s highly unlikely that even the strongest manipulators out there, such as narcissistic people, will trick them into doing things they don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

When a strong woman senses that someone is trying to trick her or make her feel like she’s the crazy one, she makes sure to let them know that she will not dance to their tune.<\/p>\n

Una mujer fuerte decide instant\u00e1neamente cortar todo contacto con ellos y borrarlos de su vida para siempre. (Este es uno de los consejos m\u00e1s sabios sobre c\u00f3mo acabar con un narcisista, as\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de memorizarlo).<\/p>\n

5. Narcissists often bring down the people they\u2019re surrounded by<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nPara que un narcisista se sienta superior, todos los dem\u00e1s tienen que estar por debajo de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why narcissistic people often undermine people, bring them down or bring up their flaws at the worst possible moment.<\/p>\n

When a narcissist is feeling down, they\u2019ll use anything and everything they can to bring you down as well, so they can feel better about themself.<\/p>\n

Te humillar\u00e1n en persona, en las redes sociales e incluso en p\u00fablico para sentirse due\u00f1os de ti.<\/p>\n

El problema es que las mujeres fuertes no se doblegan tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Son muy conscientes de las personas que son y saben lo fuertes que son.<\/p>\n

Las mujeres fuertes tambi\u00e9n son conscientes de sus defectos y trabajan en ellos cada d\u00eda, por lo que nunca dejan que nadie se los reproche.<\/p>\n

A los narcisistas siempre les sale el tiro por la culata cuando las usan con mujeres fuertes.<\/p>\n

Intentan atraerlos a su mundo t\u00f3xico, pero fracasan cada vez que lo intentan.<\/p>\n

6. Los narcisistas tienen tendencia a actuar de forma diferente en p\u00fablico que en privado<\/h2>\n

\"grupo
\nNarcissistic people have many faces or many shades of one face and they pull out the one that\u2019s the most convenient for the situation.<\/p>\n

For example, they\u2019ll agree with your opinion on something when you\u2019re alone together but when you\u2019re out with other people, they\u2019re most likely to change their opinion in order to please others.<\/p>\n

Or they will pretend that they agree with you only when they’re surrounded by other people so that they can see how kind and loving they are.<\/p>\n

And when you’re back to your four walls, they all of a sudden change their mind, telling you that they didn’t really mean what they said in front of others or that they made a mistake.<\/p>\n

You see, narcissists have a tendency to adapt to every possible situation and make it look like they’re just awesome to be with, when in reality they are the complete opposite and strong women know that!<\/p>\n

El problema es que mujeres fuertes<\/b><\/a> nunca tolerar\u00e1 este tipo de comportamiento<\/strong>. They\u2019ll immediately expose the narcissist and confront him in public.<\/p>\n

Esto arruinar\u00e1 su delirante sentido de autoestima y les obligar\u00e1 a dejar de jugar a ser Dios todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

And given that narcissistic people are not accustomed to this unusual behavior, they probably won\u2019t even know what hit them.<\/p>\n

7. Narcissists play by the rule \u2018attack is the best defense\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When you catch a narcissist in a lie or when you discover their masquerade, you\u2019ll fight them for two minutes about their behavior and then you\u2019ll be defending your actions for the next two hours.<\/p>\n

They just throw the ball in your court and keep you so busy with defending yourself that you\u2019ll forget what the fight was about in the first place.
\nIt’s one of their favorite manipulation tactics used when they want to solely focus on you instead of the real problem which is them.<\/p>\n

Te atacan con todas sus armas narcisistas y esperan a que te rindas.<\/p>\n

El problema de las mujeres fuertes es que nunca bajan la voz y nunca permiten que nadie desv\u00ede sus pensamientos de algo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, when a narcissist tries to switch topics, they\u2019ll cut them at the root by saying that isn\u2019t the topic of the conversation and that they can get back to that later but they\u2019ll deal with the original issue first.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t leave them a way out and they\u2019ll have to show their real face, wanted or not.<\/p>\n

And if they still refuse to switch topics, strong women make sure to tell them to go to hell because they’re not worthy of their time.<\/p>\n

If you’re wondering how to shut down a narcissist, this is the way to do it.<\/p>\n

8. Cuando les pillan, los narcisistas se hacen las v\u00edctimas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja
\nWhen their real face is revealed, they\u2019ll try to hide behind the mask of a victim.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll make excuses for being the way they are and blame it on their ‘abusive’ past, by their narcissistic mother or similar.<\/p>\n

Lo hacen para despertar la empat\u00eda de la gente y que te sientas mal por ellos, para que les perdones sus pecados.<\/p>\n

Quieren que tengas remordimientos de conciencia por acusarles porque ellos son la v\u00edctima en toda la situaci\u00f3n y no t\u00fa. (Por supuesto, esto no es cierto en absoluto).<\/p>\n

When busted, a narcissistic person turns into an innocent child just to make you feel guilty about everything you’ve said or everything you’re about to say or do.<\/p>\n

But in reality, they’re still the same manipulative person, ready to do anything for their selfish goals.<\/p>\n

The problem with strong women is that they do have emotions and they do feel empathy toward others but they\u2019re perfectly able to recognize when somebody is playing them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll never be tricked into pitying somebody they should be mad at.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll stand untouched by the puppy eyes that narcissists try to pull and they won\u2019t allow emotions to cloud their judgment.<\/p>\n

Strong women always put reason before their emotions when they feel that something’s utterly wrong.<\/p>\n

They don’t let others take advantage of them because they’re ready to fight till the last breath.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: C\u00f3mo herir emocionalmente a un hombre narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

9. Las mujeres fuertes se enfrentan a sus maltratadores.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nThey don\u2019t dim their voices, they don\u2019t let others pretend to be something that they are really not and they don\u2019t allow others to use them as their puppet or to make them dance to their tune.<\/p>\n

Defienden con orgullo lo que creen y son fieles a s\u00ed mismos pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what they expect from others as well.<\/p>\n

Todos los intentos de un narcisista, todas sus artima\u00f1as, todos sus juegos, nunca funcionan con las mujeres fuertes, porque ellas ven a trav\u00e9s de ellos.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why strong women are so intimidating to narcissistic people.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how strong women shut narcissistic people down!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: V\u00e9ngate de tu narcisista con estos 7 contragolpes eficaces<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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