{"id":53022,"date":"2020-02-17T22:00:03","date_gmt":"2020-02-17T22:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53022"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:35:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:35:41","slug":"dios-dame-lo-que-necesito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dios-dame-lo-que-necesito\/","title":{"rendered":"Querido Dios, no me des lo que quiero, dame lo que necesito"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido Dios,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I wanted a simple man. I was done with cheaters, the ones who think \u2018they can have every girl on this planet\u2019, with los t\u00edmidos<\/a> who don\u2019t know how to speak to me and the ones who play off and on.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda a alguien a quien pudiera contarle c\u00f3mo me hab\u00eda ido el d\u00eda y qu\u00e9 hab\u00eda pasado en mi trabajo.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que alguien me cogiera de la mano cuando ocurriera algo inimaginable y me dijera que todo iba a salir bien.<\/p>\n

A cambio, quise darle todo el amor que llevaba dentro y que sigo d\u00e1ndole suavemente conmigo misma.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Lo quer\u00eda en mi vida para acercarme y crear una conexi\u00f3n, pero entonces tendr\u00eda miedo de que me dejara sola. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I was so afraid that I didn\u2019t realize how easy it would be for him to actually leave.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I thought I had found the one but I didn\u2019t realize that an uncomplicated man doesn\u2019t exist. Or I just didn\u2019t want to see the real him.<\/p>\n

We both know that understanding and support are sometimes hard to find in people. But what drove me crazy was to think that people like him didn\u2019t even want to try.<\/p>\n

Opt\u00f3 por la opci\u00f3n m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil, que era marcharse, y su marcha me destroz\u00f3 el alma a migajas.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You see, my past hasn\u2019t been so easy on me. I created all these walls around me because what I wanted the most was actually what could hurt me the most.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Decid\u00ed dejar a un lado mis dudas, le di la bienvenida a mi vida y abr\u00ed mi coraz\u00f3n y mi mente para enamorarme pero, de alguna manera, mi miedo me lo imped\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Querido Dios, el miedo que sent\u00ed fue casi como una se\u00f1al tuya dici\u00e9ndome que tuviera cuidado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fuiste T\u00fa quien me record\u00f3 c\u00f3mo protegerme.<\/p>\n

Lo siento ahora sol\u00eda rogarte por algo imposible pero quer\u00eda que \u00e9l fuera el indicado para m\u00ed. Lo quer\u00eda tanto que hice lo imposible para que lo nuestro funcionara.<\/p>\n

Lamento haberlo hecho. Ahora lo s\u00e9 mejor.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If he was not the right man for me, I shouldn\u2019t have wasted my prayers on him. <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9l nunca cambiar\u00e1. Nunca ser\u00e1 el hombre que necesito.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que tus planes son m\u00e1s grandes que mis deseos. S\u00e9 que me tienes reservado algo mejor.<\/p>\n

Algo mucho, mucho mejor de lo que nunca imagin\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Querido Dios,<\/em><\/p>\n

I admit that in my past, he and other people from it broke me multiple times but I know that I don\u2019t have to stay broken.<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que me curar\u00e9 mientras te tenga a mi lado.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Caminar\u00e9 con valent\u00eda hacia adelante. Volver\u00e9 a amar porque tener miedo al amor no es algo que T\u00fa quieras de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Pain and fear are only temporary feelings; they don\u2019t last as long as love does.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It was hard saying, \u201cGoodbye,\u201d to the one I cared for but it would be even harder to pass on the feeling of going home and knowing that someone\u2019s waiting for me\u2026 that special someone who cares for me.<\/p>\n

I know he\u2019ll be waiting for me one day when You decide the timing is right, when I am with the one who is meant for me.<\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t the one and You knew that long before I did. Thank you for saving me from my wishes. Thank you for saving me for someone better.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know that there is a lot to learn in this life, so I\u2019m going to start by loving myself.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s funny but when I think about myself, the amount of love that I owe myself is big enough to make the pain go away.<\/p>\n

It makes everything and everyone that I\u2019ve wanted so small. They\u2019re so small that they make loving myself turn into healing and forgiving.<\/p>\n

And I hope I\u2019m going to learn how to give forgiveness to myself so easily and jauntily as I gave to men in my past.<\/em><\/p>\n

Estoy deseando encontrar la felicidad que llevo dentro. Por fin puede salir, viva y gritando todas las risas que he estado escondiendo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It makes me smile that loneliness used to scare me and now I shut the door so loud, so everyone can know that I\u2019m having ME time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Detr\u00e1s de una puerta cerrada y en esta soledad, encuentro comprensi\u00f3n y me acepto como the woman I\u2019ve become<\/a> despu\u00e9s de todos mis deseos aplastados, relaciones destrozadas y hombres que ve\u00edan en dejarme la mejor opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Me hace m\u00e1s grande que cualquier mentira que me haya dicho.<\/p>\n

Accepting that I\u2019m enough and that I don\u2019t have to want \u2018an uncomplicated guy\u2019 makes me need the best version of myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me recuerda que todo lo que quiero puede cambiar f\u00e1cilmente o marcharse, pero todo lo que necesito se queda conmigo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Querido Dios,<\/strong><\/p>\n

No matter how many times I question my faith and no matter how many \u2018what ifs\u2019 or mistakes I make, I know everything comes down to this\u2014needing all the beautiful feelings that You taught me to feel\u2026<\/p>\n

Love, forgiveness, happiness, understanding and accepting myself is what it\u2019s all about.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa, Dios, conoces mi pasado y la raz\u00f3n detr\u00e1s de cada batalla que pierdo y gano.<\/p>\n

Y esta vez, ganar\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\"Querido<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear God, I wanted a simple man. I was done with cheaters, the ones who think \u2018they can have every girl on this planet\u2019, with the shy guys who don\u2019t know how to speak to me and the ones who play off and on. I wanted someone who I could tell how my day went…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":53024,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/dear-god-dont-give-me-what-i-want-give-me-what-i-need.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53024"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}