{"id":53079,"date":"2020-02-18T20:04:19","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T20:04:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53079"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:26:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:26:19","slug":"senales-para-cambiar-tu-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-para-cambiar-tu-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que necesitas cambiar radicalmente de vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre cuando te das cuenta de que no eres feliz donde est\u00e1s?<\/p>\n

Maybe you should have gone to college but didn\u2019t, maybe you started a family too soon, maybe you\u2019ve driven important people away or even chosen wrong ones to be by your side.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, hay una parte de ti que siente que las cosas no van bien, pero tu mente consciente decide ignorar las se\u00f1ales para evitar el cambio.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s like realizing you have given so much to someone but failed to see how toxic and wrong the<\/em><\/strong>y son para ti.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s just how we humans are. We avoid change at all costs and we\u2019re rarely brave enough to start our lives over (kudos for those who have though!).<\/p>\n

Aunque intentes luchar contra ello, tu yo interior encontrar\u00e1 formas de demostrarte que realmente lo haces necesidad de hacer un cambio<\/span><\/a>No importa lo grande que sea el cambio ni lo dif\u00edcil que sea dar el primer paso.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 son esos cantos? Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n:<\/p>\n

1. Est\u00e1s mirando tu pasado a trav\u00e9s de unas gafas de color de rosa<\/h2>\n

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Para una persona que necesita desesperadamente un cambio, la vida tal y como la conoce, en el presente, parece plana, aburrida y desesperanzada.<\/p>\n

People in these situations tend to look back at their past as something perfect, even though they are aware, deep in their hearts, that things they are remembering weren\u2019t that perfect.<\/p>\n

For example, if you’re unhappy with your current relationship, you may be looking back at the relationship you had with your ex in a very unrealistic way.<\/p>\n

You are probably forgetting about all the bad things that happened between you two and you\u2019re most certainly concentrating on the romantic, fluffy, exciting things you two did together.<\/p>\n

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No matter all the wrongs he\u2019s done to you, you only see the right things and that stops you from realizing you are actually with the wrong man right now.<\/p>\n

If it’s your job you are unhappy with, I guess you are thinking of all the ways the job you had before was better, maybe even regretting quitting (if that was the case).<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, todos revisitamos nuestro pasado de vez en cuando, pero si te sorprendes a ti misma divagando en tu mente sobre cenas a la luz de las velas con tu ex (o aquella vez que te trajo chocolate cuando estabas con la regla), muy a menudo es el momento de cuestionarte qu\u00e9 cosas de tu vida actual te est\u00e1n haciendo infeliz.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re feeling indifferent<\/h2>\n

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Ya nada te hace feliz. Las cosas que antes eran una fuente de entretenimiento ahora son aburridas.<\/p>\n

Las peque\u00f1as cosas cotidianas que te hac\u00edan sonre\u00edr en el pasado, como tomar un helado con tus amigos, simplemente ya no te sirven.<\/p>\n

Desde que te levantas hasta que te acuestas, nada parece sacar la chispa que llevas dentro.<\/p>\n

Ya no te emocionan las cosas, aunque las cosas que te suceden sean o deban ser emocionantes. Parece que no puedes estar ni muy feliz, ni muy triste.<\/p>\n

Parece flotar en el medio, intacto pero generalmente insatisfecho.<\/p>\n

Not being able to feel emotions to the core of your being is a clear sign you are not letting yourself feel something and that can often be your mind’s way of hiding your need for change.<\/p>\n

3. Other people\u2019s lives seem so much better<\/h2>\n

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Every single one of us will sometimes feel as if our life is in a certain way worse than other people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

Pero tambi\u00e9n, en una situaci\u00f3n neutral, hay ocasiones en las que sentimos que nuestra vida es en cierto modo mejor.<\/p>\n

For a person in need of change, almost everyone\u2019s life seems better than their own.<\/p>\n

Puedes ver a una persona hambrienta mendigando dinero y aun as\u00ed encontrar formas de que su vida sea m\u00e1s emocionante o merezca m\u00e1s la pena vivirla que la tuya.<\/p>\n

If this isn\u2019t a clear sign you need change, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n

Yes, the grass is usually greener on the other side but thinking pretty much everyone\u2019s life is more thrilling than your own is a red flag in terms of needing a major change.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ve stopped caring about your appearance and health<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Si llegas a una etapa de tu vida en la que nada de lo que has planeado para el futuro, o incluso para el resto del d\u00eda, te hace sentir entusiasmado o con energ\u00eda, es f\u00e1cil caer en la rutina.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t spend much time picking out clothes, you\u2019ve maybe stopped exercising under some fake excuse or you\u2019ve started eating unhealthily.<\/p>\n

Whatever one of the things above it is, you obviously no longer feel you have a need to prepare for anything, since you feel like you don\u2019t even have a future.<\/p>\n

If you really don\u2019t have anything or anyone in your life to make you feel excited to get ready and go out, you should at least have enough confidence to want to stay happy and healthy.<\/p>\n

If you notice this is no longer the case, it\u2019s time to make changes.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve made some new unhealthy habits or returned to your old ones<\/h2>\n

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If you started smoking, drinking or developing any kind of addiction (even one of the harmless ones, like watching too much TV) or returned to an old lifestyle that was bad for you in the past, that\u2019s probably a sign that you need to make a huge change in your life.<\/p>\n

Tu mente est\u00e1 intentando liberar toda la energ\u00eda negativa<\/span><\/a> enterrado muy dentro de ti y todo ese veneno tiene que encontrar la salida.<\/p>\n

Que vuelvas a caer en tus viejas adicciones o en otras nuevas es tu forma de autocalmarte e intentar ayudarte a olvidar tus problemas en lugar de afrontarlos.<\/p>\n

F. Scott Fitzgerald once wrote: \u2018I hope you live a life you\u2019re proud of, and if you\u2019re not, I hope you have the courage to start over again.\u2019<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Algunas cosas que eliges hacer te marcan para toda la eternidad y, aunque tengas que vivir con tus elecciones, tambi\u00e9n sueles poder elegir de nuevo y empezar tu vida de nuevo si es necesario.<\/p>\n

Yes, you have put a lot into creating a certain kind of scenery for your life, and breaking it seems like a waste but isn’t it a much bigger waste having to spend the rest of your life as a part of something you don’t enjoy?<\/p>\n

Tenlo en cuenta e intenta encontrar la fuerza para reinventarte.<\/p>\n

After all, if you can\u2019t make yourself happy, for sure no one else can do that for you.<\/p>\n

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