{"id":53247,"date":"2020-02-19T23:21:59","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T23:21:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53247"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:21:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:21:21","slug":"una-mujer-de-verdad-se-convierte-en-lo-que-quiere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-mujer-de-verdad-se-convierte-en-lo-que-quiere\/","title":{"rendered":"Recuerda, una mujer de verdad se convierte en lo que quiera ser"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe parece bien que alguien te diga lo que tienes que hacer? \u00bfTe parece bien que alguien dirija tu vida?<\/p>\n

Since when do people have the idea they can change someone\u2019s life and direct them on a path ELLOS<\/em><\/strong> creen que es el mejor? O, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, \u00bfdesde cu\u00e1ndo las mujeres escuchan esa basura?<\/p>\n

\u00a1Cari\u00f1o, haz lo que te haga feliz!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You are a woman who has been through ups and downs. You\u2019ve seen hell and you\u2019ve tasted happiness.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan as\u00ed, te mantienes firme con un coraz\u00f3n incorrupto y una esperanza interminable. Sigues lleno de amor, feroz y maduro.<\/p>\n

No one \u2013 listen to me\u2026 NO ONE has the right to change who you are. NO ONE has the right to tell you what to do!<\/p>\n

Recibir consejos de alguien es una calle de doble sentido. Por desgracia, la mayor\u00eda de nosotros nos convertimos en blanco de celos y falsas pretensiones.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not uncommon to get stabbed in the back by the persona en la que pensabas que pod\u00edas confiar<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Advice coming from those people \u2013 the ones who pretend to be your friends \u2013 is toxic and dangerous.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, el consejo de alguien que se preocupa sinceramente por ti es una bendici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

Sadly, no one knows for sure when a piece of toxic advice is disguised as a warm and loving one, and when it\u2019s the other way around.<\/p>\n

Dicho esto, supongo que mi punto es: La \u00fanica persona en la que puedes confiar es en ti misma. Una mujer fuerte lo sabe.<\/p>\n

Una mujer fuerte sabe que s\u00f3lo puede confiar en su intuici\u00f3n y en sus actos. Sabe que su juicio es, al final, el m\u00e1s fiable.<\/p>\n

Algunos pueden interpretarlo como terquedad, pero lo cierto es que una mujer fuerte sabe lo que quiere y, por tanto, hace lo que le da la gana.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A strong woman wants to\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ser indefinible para la sociedad.<\/strong> <\/em>She doesn\u2019t want to be a stereotype \u2013 a beautiful, classy, and extremely feminine woman who is supposed to do girly stuff and act according to what society thinks is acceptable.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

No, a strong woman \u2013 a woman who wants to be whatever the hell she wants \u2013 will watch football on Sundays and drink beer with the guys.<\/p>\n

Incluso se emborrachar\u00e1 en un bar y se negar\u00e1 a volver a casa. Y ninguna de estas cosas le parecer\u00e1 rid\u00edcula; nadie la juzgar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

The reason for that is more than simple. She is super confident and she will never force herself to do something she doesn\u2019t feel comfortable doing. And that\u2019s visible from the outside.<\/p>\n

Sea totalmente sincero.<\/strong><\/em> There is no place for mind games in her life. She thinks playing around is a complete waste of time \u2013 and her time is far too precious to waste.<\/p>\n

Ya sea en una amistad o en una relaci\u00f3n, siempre te dir\u00e1 la verdad y nunca se avergonzar\u00e1 de ello.<\/p>\n

Una mujer como ella hace lo que le da la gana. PORQUE<\/strong> ella puede.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

O\u00edrle decir la verdad puede parecer una ducha fr\u00eda, pero esa ducha fr\u00eda es la responsable de devolverte a la realidad, donde los problemas esperan ser resueltos. Dale las gracias por sacudirte.<\/p>\n

Sea tambi\u00e9n completamente sincera consigo misma.<\/strong><\/em> If she\u2019s hurting, she\u2019ll find the strength to accept it and, more importantly, get over it in time.<\/p>\n

She is woman enough to confess what\u2019s going on in her head and what she\u2019s feeling.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t concerned with appearing silly or crazy. The secret to her sanity and healthy spirit is honesty and embracing what she feels.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo mujeres maduras y fuertes<\/span><\/a> est\u00e1n preparados para dar ese paso.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 independiente.<\/em><\/strong> And she is. She doesn\u2019t need anyone really. She doesn\u2019t need your love that badly that it will make her reach the border of the \u201cLand of the Desperate.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

On the contrary, she will accept your move, and then\u2026 Then she will make her own.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t see it coming. She\u2019ll surprise you with the last thing you thought she\u2019d do.<\/p>\n

En estas situaciones, alejarse de la persona que ama y estar rota durante un tiempo es mucho m\u00e1s aceptable que pasar el resto de su vida como una tonta, enga\u00f1ada y controlada.<\/p>\n

Lucha sus propias batallas.<\/em><\/strong> She won\u2019t let you push her around. She won\u2019t let you bully her. Conflict isn\u2019t a strange concept to her.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t like it, but she doesn\u2019t avoid it either. If the situation asks for it, she will fight for what she wants no matter the consequences.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s no doormat and, trust me, she\u2019ll never let you take your frustrations out on her.<\/p>\n

Tiene l\u00edmites<\/span><\/a> y nadie tiene derecho a cruzarlas. Cualquiera que se atreviera era castigado por ello.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Mantener una relaci\u00f3n porque s\u00ed.<\/em><\/strong> She isn\u2019t in it only for the sex. She doesn\u2019t need a casual relationship with you because she can find casual wherever she goes.<\/p>\n

Una cosa de una sola vez no es tan complicada de encontrar. En cambio, una relaci\u00f3n significativa s\u00ed lo es.<\/p>\n

A real relationship doesn\u2019t revolve around sex. It\u2019s definitely a part of it, but it is not a priority.<\/p>\n

Anyone who thinks differently doesn\u2019t stand a chance in the presence of a woman like this. She\u2019s on a completely different level of consciousness.<\/p>\n

Ser responsable de sus propios errores.<\/em><\/strong> Una persona como ella nunca tirar\u00eda a otra debajo del autob\u00fas.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

If she\u2019s wrong, she will come clean without thinking twice about it. Once again, maturity leaves its footprint.<\/p>\n

When it comes to relationships, she\u2019ll own up to her part of screwing up, but also want the same from you.<\/p>\n

Lamentablemente, a veces estas mujeres tienen m\u00e1s cojones a la hora de admitir errores que algunos hombres.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que ella quiere resolver el problema y reconocerlo es la \u00fanica forma de solucionar un problema.<\/p>\n

In the end\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

A strong woman is a woman who\u2019ll walk away when she isn\u2019t happy. A strong woman is a woman who won\u2019t take BS from anyone, under any cost.<\/p>\n

Una mujer fuerte har\u00e1 lo que le d\u00e9 la gana. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque UNA MUJER FUERTE PUEDE.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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