{"id":5351,"date":"2020-03-19T20:33:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T20:33:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5351"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:16:40","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:16:40","slug":"7-formas-de-amar-diferentes-para-las-chicas-con-ansiedad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-formas-de-amar-diferentes-para-las-chicas-con-ansiedad\/","title":{"rendered":"7 maneras diferentes de amar de las chicas con ansiedad"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cAnxiety is love’s greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic. <\/i> \u201d~Anais Nin<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like being trapped in a well. Everywhere around you it\u2019s dark, and you are standing in knee-high water.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t fall asleep because if you do, you\u2019ll drown. And you can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s anxiety.<\/a> It traps you and it holds you its captive. And you can\u2019t do anything about it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You can try to escape, but it\u2019s a never-ending battle. It lasts for your whole life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Anxiety becomes you. You can scream for hours in that deep well but no one will hear you. You will just have to manage and try to make it on your own\u2014try to survive.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Debido a ese sentimiento, tenemos la guardia alta todo el tiempo. Siempre estamos preocupados y dudamos de todo.<\/p>\n

And when the people who don\u2019t get what anxiety is do even one wrong move, we feel like we are in that deep well, once again.<\/p>\n

Chicas con ansiedad amar de otra manera<\/a>. Tenemos que amar de forma diferente porque somos diferentes. Pero nuestro amor es el que perdurar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Our love is the one that is pure. Once we feel we can trust you, we will let you into our hearts. And we\u2019re going to let you stay there forever.<\/p>\n

You will be the one who is honored to be loved by a girl with anxiety\u2014differently.<\/p>\n

Necesitamos sentirnos seguros<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Necesitamos un espacio seguro. Somos independientes.<\/a> Don\u2019t get me wrong, we are. But it\u2019s just that in those moments when we are at our lowest, we need someone to feel safe with.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando estamos fuera, odiamos las situaciones que est\u00e1n fuera de nuestra zona de confort.<\/p>\n

So, we need you. We need you to be our safety net and to protect us from the things we are scared of. You don\u2019t even have to protect us. Being there is enough.<\/p>\n

Estamos vigilados<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Protegemos nuestro coraz\u00f3n. Tenemos miedo de que nos hagan da\u00f1o, y nuestra ansiedad nos hace creer que la persona con la que estamos nos har\u00e1 da\u00f1o tarde o temprano.<\/p>\n

Tenemos problemas de confianza<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tardamos mucho tiempo en confiar plenamente en alguien. Lo hacemos porque nuestra ansiedad siempre nos hace ser precavidos.<\/p>\n

Nos hace imaginar cosas que no existen.<\/p>\n

Queremos confiar en ellos, pero la ansiedad se apodera de nosotros.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tenemos que estar seguros<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

We need that feeling of safety. We need to know that you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Whenever we ask you to confirm and prove your love for us, it\u2019s not because we are second-guessing you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because we cannot control our anxiety which makes us doubt even things which we are the most positive about.<\/p>\n

The feeling of knowing everything is fine and that you are by our side gives us calmness. That\u2019s all we need.<\/p>\n

Te necesitamos cerca\"hombre<\/h2>\n

Cada vez que nos ataca la ansiedad, nos lleva a lugares oscuros. Nos lleva a la depresi\u00f3n y a la tristeza.<\/p>\n

Whenever that happens, we need to know that you are by our side. And if you are, we\u2019ll never let you go.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres quien nos ve en nuestro peor momento y cuando somos m\u00e1s vulnerables. Y si te quedas incluso despu\u00e9s de eso, seremos tuyos para siempre.<\/p>\n

Nos aislamos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nos alejamos porque nuestra ansiedad nos hace querer estar solos. Nos hace cerrarnos en banda y construir un enorme muro irrompible a nuestro alrededor.<\/p>\n

Esto es a\u00fan peor cuando nos estamos enamorando debido a todos los problemas de confianza que tenemos. Entonces nuestra ansiedad es m\u00e1xima.<\/p>\n

Te amaremos a nuestra manera, para siempre.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Podemos ser un pu\u00f1ado, lo s\u00e9. Pero lo somos porque respetamos y valoramos el hecho de que hayas encontrado la forma y la fuerza para amarnos.<\/p>\n

We know it\u2019s hard, and you did it. That means tu amor realmente vale algo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Te amamos porque eres t\u00fa quien nos ama incluso cuando te cuestionamos. T\u00fa eres el que nunca se rinde.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres nuestro protector y nuestro puerto seguro en una noche de tormenta.<\/p>\n

Nunca dejaremos que sientas que no te queremos. Incluso cuando m\u00e1s sufrimos, cuando la ansiedad se lleva lo peor de nosotros, nunca dejaremos de demostrarte cu\u00e1nto te queremos.<\/p>\n

Anxiety is real. It consumes you. It takes control over your body and mind. That\u2019s why we freak out at the smallest problem.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we get scared to face the smallest obstacle.<\/p>\n

Te entregaremos nuestros corazones y pondremos nuestra fe en ti. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Si nos haces da\u00f1o, nunca m\u00e1s podremos amar a nadie de esa manera.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"7<\/p>\n

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