si merece una segunda oportunidad<\/span><\/a> o no, tal vez las se\u00f1ales que le presentamos a continuaci\u00f3n sean justo lo que necesita para tomar esa decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n1. Es demasiado amable y encantador<\/h2>\n
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There’s nothing wrong with being kind and charming, but if he is being EXTRA kind and charming while apologizing, in most cases, it’s not sincere.<\/p>\n
He does that because he wants your forgiveness ASAP. That’s how he tries to seduce you and make you forget about his mistake.<\/p>\n
Los hombres siempre piensan que todas las mujeres somos iguales, que siempre caemos ante alg\u00fan gesto rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n
Har\u00e1 hincapi\u00e9 en que fue un error suyo y, de paso, le halagar\u00e1 de todas las formas posibles.<\/p>\n
You’ll feel like you are the most beautiful and beloved woman in the world.<\/p>\n
It’ll seem like the only fair thing to do is to forgive him. And that will be his only goal: to make you forget about everything like it never happened.<\/p>\n
But the worst part is that as soon as he gets what we want, he’ll do it again. And again. Do not let yourself be fooled by a person like that.<\/p>\n
2. He gets upset when you can’t forgive him immediately<\/h2>\n
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Esto significa que est\u00e1 acostumbrado a pedirte disculpas y a que t\u00fa lo olvides y lo perdones inmediatamente.<\/p>\n
He is not even thinking about how he should fight for your forgiveness, because he\u2019s never done so before.<\/p>\n
Tu reacci\u00f3n a sus disculpas le sorprendi\u00f3 y eso es una situaci\u00f3n totalmente nueva para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
Maybe he will try to blame you for that mistake, hoping that you’ll fall for it. And then he will wait for YOU to apologize.<\/p>\n
Los hombres as\u00ed son muy inteligentes y es mejor que seas precavida cuando trates con ellos.<\/p>\n
3. He threatens self-harm if you don’t forgive him<\/h2>\n
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You two were emotional partners. Naturally, he’ll know your personality and your weak spots. If you are too emotional and sensitive, then this will be his tactic to get what he wants.<\/p>\n
He knows that you’d never let him harm himself because you\u2019d never forgive yourself if you did.<\/p>\n
He will show\/send you some \u201cevidence\u201d on how he is planning to do himself harm. Don’t pay too much attention to that.<\/p>\n
He is not mentally unstable, just very, very foxy. Don’t become his prey because his threat is just that \u2013 a threat.<\/p>\n
4. Se esfuerza por justificarse<\/h2>\n
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You found out about his mistake and you\u2019re ready to tell him. But as soon as you do, he apologizes and states dozens of reasons for his actions.<\/p>\n
The thing is, he is not stopping. He\u2019s presenting his defense like he is on trial or something.<\/p>\n
Eso significa que lo estaba planeando con antelaci\u00f3n y s\u00f3lo esperaba el momento en que te enteraras.<\/p>\n
And he is doing all this just to confuse you. You won’t be able to think clearly about it because of his well prepared defense. But please, be one of those strict judges and take the final judgment in your favor.<\/p>\n
5. Quiere una disculpa de pago<\/h2>\n
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Your partner is aware of his mistake, but he doesn’t want to apologize without getting anything in return.<\/p>\n
Intentar\u00e1 sacarte algo porque ahora sabe lo importante que es para ti una disculpa.<\/p>\n
He will try to use this again in his favor by asking you to do something that you don\u2019t want to, only to hear him say \u201cI am sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n
Only a very arrogant and inconsiderate man is capable of this. A man who is so sure of your love and thinks that you’ll do whatever it takes just to stay with him. Please prove him wrong.<\/p>\n
It’s never enough just to say those three words. He needs to try to make it right and never repeat it.<\/p>\n
Los peores tipos de hombres son los manipuladores.<\/p>\n
They make you feel that they are superior in your relationship. And it shouldn’t be like that.<\/p>\n
Debes saber lo valiosa que eres. Mereces m\u00e1s que eso de un hombre. Date la oportunidad de ser amada como te mereces.<\/p>\n
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