{"id":53676,"date":"2020-03-20T23:03:09","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T23:03:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53676"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:36:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:36:37","slug":"solo-era-tu-leccion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/solo-era-tu-leccion\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9l fue tu lecci\u00f3n, no una condena a cadena perpetua: d\u00e9jalo en el pasado"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve all been there. We know how much it hurts. But please be brave. Life shouldn’t stop just because he left you.<\/p>\n

Recoge los pedazos de tu coraz\u00f3n. P\u00e9galos de nuevo. Sanar\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Choose to learn from the past, not to regret it. If you focus too much on it, you’ll miss out on a beautiful future.<\/p>\n

The experience will leave scars. They’ll be there all your life just to remind you to choose yourself more often.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll mold you to become a better person in every possible way. They won’t let you go back to that man ever again.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La ciencia ha demostrado que el amor activa en nuestro cerebro los mismos mecanismos que algunas drogas. En otras palabras, el amor es adictivo.<\/p>\n

Y si de repente te privan de ella, tienes que pasar por un s\u00edndrome de abstinencia.<\/p>\n

Be stronger than that. Don’t get high. Think about the long-term side effects.<\/p>\n

But don’t ever let that past define you. You aren’t una chica con el coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> who can’t trust and love anymore. No, you are not.<\/p>\n

Remember, you will love again. And more importantly, you’ll be loved as you never have before.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to finish a relationship with someone you would have done anything for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s hard, and it may get harder\u2014but it will pay off. All the pain and tear-soaked nights will pay off. You’ll be free and happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Don’t give him more power over your life than he deserves. He is now just an ex, and that’s all.<\/p>\n

Maybe you’ll say hello to him when you see him on the street. Maybe you won’t.<\/p>\n

He’ll surely suggest that you two stay friends. Don’t do that. Don\u2019t even respond.<\/p>\n

He’ll move on much faster than you, and if you keep in touch with him, you’ll have to see him with his new girlfriends.<\/p>\n

Tal vez pidi\u00f3 que fueran amigos para tenerte disponible de vez en cuando cuando te echa de menos.<\/p>\n

If you show him you\u2019re okay with that arrangement, he’ll enjoy those little make-up-and-cuddle sessions, and before you know it, you\u2019ll be so far in that you won’t be able to stop.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t call him\u2014not even to return his things or ask for yours. Be fair and give back what\u2019s his, but send it via someone else.<\/p>\n

Si un d\u00eda llegas a casa y te encuentras una caja con tus cosas en la puerta, debes deshacerte de ella inmediatamente.<\/p>\n

Throw it away\u2014no matter what’s inside. Whatever it is, it will slow your healing process.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jalo en el pasado. Don’t look back<\/a>. \u00bfY si Cenicienta hubiera vuelto a por su zapato? Nunca habr\u00eda conocido a su pr\u00edncipe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

An ending doesn\u2019t have to be a bad thing. An ending simply means that something else is about to begin.<\/p>\n

Lo mejor que puedes hacer es idear algunos mecanismos para afrontar tu nueva situaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, puedes escribirle una carta y prenderle fuego, junto con tus recuerdos y fotograf\u00edas.<\/p>\n

\"\u00c9l<\/p>\n

Si cree que su salud mental se est\u00e1 resintiendo, debe buscar el apoyo de un terapeuta..<\/p>\n

Y procura rodearte de la gente que te quiere y ve lo mejor de ti. Mantenerse socialmente activo es muy importante para evitar sentirse deprimido.<\/p>\n

Nunca niegues que la ruptura ocurri\u00f3 o que te hizo da\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re afraid of being alone. Maybe you think he is the only man you’ll ever love.<\/p>\n

You’re in shock, and you can’t think straight now, but you\u2019ll feel better\u2014you just need time.<\/p>\n

If you are still hoping that he’ll come back, that means you are stuck in the past. That unhealthy, negative energy will kill your soul.<\/p>\n

Life is a journey, and it\u2019s just taking you somewhere else. Buckle your seat belt and enjoy the ride.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

El tiempo lo curar\u00e1 todo si se lo permites.. Pasa tiempo haciendo lo que te relaja.<\/p>\n

Lee tu libro favorito, ve a la playa, pon tu m\u00fasica preferida o sal de compras. Respira. No pienses demasiado. Qu\u00edtatelo de la cabeza.<\/p>\n

Para curar tus heridas, tienes que dejar de tocarlas. Quer\u00eda irse, as\u00ed que mu\u00e9strale la salida y cierra esa puerta para siempre.<\/p>\n

He is now in the past. Your past is a history of victory. Learn from it. It\u2019s the biggest lesson of your life.<\/p>\n

Rompe tus ilusiones sobre \u00e9l. \u00c9l nunca fue tu para siempre. Deja de coleccionar piedras cuando mereces diamantes. Te mereces el amor m\u00e1s verdadero de todos.<\/p>\n

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