I\u2019m a grown-ass woman who is done with bulls**t.<\/strong><\/p>\n Aqu\u00ed es donde entras t\u00fa.<\/p>\n Since this piece was inspired by your bullying and your crazy little manipulations, I suggest you take a seat and get comfortable because I’ve just started to take out my frustrations which I’ve been collecting for years.<\/p>\n Casi siento l\u00e1stima de m\u00ed mismo por no haberme dado cuenta de todo antes.<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 casi?<\/em><\/p>\n Well, the reason I\u2019m NOT sorry is that I was fed so much bullshit that I ran out of places to store it, so it eventually started hitting me on the head with an intention to make me realize what an idiot I’ve been this whole time.<\/p>\n I know I would have never reached this blissful stage of complete enlightenment if I\u2019d kept the BS from everyone deep inside, suffering in silence and coping with it when no one was looking.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I\u2019m glad it happened anyway.<\/p>\n Ahora, al menos s\u00e9 que lo di todo. S\u00e9 que lo intent\u00e9 todo, pero nunca recib\u00ed ninguna respuesta positiva por tu parte.<\/p>\n Seguiste viviendo tu vida sin compromiso, como si estuvieras solo en ella.<\/p>\n Seguiste siendo ego\u00edsta a pesar de todas las advertencias que llegaron de un d\u00eda para otro.<\/p>\n Now that I’ve become indifferent, it\u2019s too late for you to fix things. There is no going back.<\/p>\n For the sake of this article and for the sake of people still storing frustrations inside themselves, I\u2019m going to write as many fundamentally stupid things as I can remember and the mistakes you made which slowly drove me away from you.<\/p>\n I know it\u2019s hard to face the truth but bear with me\u2026 it might do you good and help you become a better version of yourself\u2026 IT. JUST. MIGHT.<\/p>\n Over time, I realized that the problem wasn\u2019t me and I shouldn\u2019t take any more BS because I was in no way responsible for the problems coming our way (despite how hard you tried to manipulate me into thinking it WAS all my fault).<\/p>\n The problem was you\u2026 all along, it was you.<\/p>\n You hated yourself for the things you did or better said, for the things you didn\u2019t do and you should have.<\/p>\n Tus remordimientos te cegaban y nunca pod\u00edas superarlos. Necesitabas a alguien con quien desahogarte.<\/p>\n Yo era la fuente de energ\u00eda viva m\u00e1s cercana a la que se pod\u00edan apegar tus venenosas intenciones.<\/p>\n I\u2019m aware of that now and I\u2019m finally putting an end to it\u2014something I should have done a long time ago.<\/p>\n Sonre\u00edr se convirti\u00f3 en algo que hac\u00eda en raras ocasiones. Esas arrugas de felicidad parec\u00edan desvanecerse a medida que pasaba m\u00e1s tiempo contigo.<\/p>\n Me, a girl who was always laughing and in good spirits\u2026 I became unrecognizable.<\/p>\n Hab\u00eda ocasiones en que sonre\u00eda, pero todos los que me conoc\u00edan bien ve\u00edan que lo hac\u00eda a la fuerza.<\/p>\n They all saw it\u2014a big, fake smile to chase off curious snoopers dying to find out something new to gossip about.<\/p>\n En otras palabras, lentamente, me hiciste miserable. Me convertiste en una mujer cansada de la vida.<\/p>\n At the age of thirty, I was tired of life. Isn\u2019t that just sad?<\/p>\n Ahora incluso me pregunto si estabas celoso de m\u00ed. Quiz\u00e1 pensabas que yo hab\u00eda triunfado en la vida y t\u00fa te hab\u00edas quedado atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n But if that is true and it most definitely is not, how could have I achieved the things you wanted instead of you? I could only help you get there. I couldn\u2019t do it for you.<\/p>\n Y nunca tuviste los cojones de levantar el culo y hacer algo con tu vida.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que cuando lo logr\u00e9, quisiste llevarte el m\u00e9rito de mi trabajo. Quer\u00edas ser la raz\u00f3n de mi \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n The truth is I\u2019m successful BECAUSE I had to do it all by myself.<\/p>\n I never could rely on you for anything\u2014from the smallest details to bigger commitments. I guess what I want to say to you now is\u2026 thank you.<\/p>\n It became an obsession, really. It wasn\u2019t cute anymore. Instead, it became horrific.<\/p>\n Over time, I felt like I needed to dedicate my life to you only, leaving no room for anyone else\u2014friends or what\u2019s even worse, family.<\/p>\n How could a person be jealous of the other\u2019s mother and their perfectly healthy relationship?<\/p>\n Bueno, lograste entrar en otra esfera de celos, cruzar otro nivel y tristemente, destruy\u00f3 nuestra oportunidad de ser felices.<\/p>\n Perdiste todo el control y me desterraste de tu vida, para siempre.<\/p>\n En serio, se hace viejo despu\u00e9s de un tiempo. Sab\u00eda exactamente cu\u00e1les ser\u00edan tus excusas y qu\u00e9 l\u00edneas usar\u00edas despu\u00e9s de una pelea.<\/p>\n Me las sab\u00eda de memoria porque siempre era la misma historia de siempre.<\/p>\n You were never guilty, it was always someone else\u2019s fault and you just happened to be there to take the blame.<\/p>\n It\u2019s impossible to believe that you\u2019re such a saint while everyone around you is faulty in a way.<\/p>\n It\u2019s even more impossible to believe that everyone else is stupid and wrong, only your opinion matters and only you are right.<\/p>\n C\u2019mon\u2026 seriously?! That is a load of BS listed as No. 5 on my list which I\u2019ve put up for such a long time but even that trace of love I had for you, the familiarity and warmth I used to feel around you couldn\u2019t justify your behavior and your claims.<\/p>\n Todo era demasiado.<\/p>\n It was impossible to \u2018Always Look on the Bright Side of Life\u2019, as sung in \u2018Monty Python\u2019, with you by my side.<\/p>\n It was always about negativity. All you could talk about were some insane conspiracy theories in which every scenario ended up the same\u2014we were all going to die horrible deaths.<\/p>\n You know what?! I don\u2019t give a shit! I\u2019m going to die anyway.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, si Dios quer\u00eda que yo muriera en una muerte horrible, ca\u00f3tica, como la del fin del mundo, \u00a1que as\u00ed sea!<\/p>\n I didn\u2019t want to live my life in fear and regret something that might just happen but which you had no proof that it actually would.<\/p>\n Tu negatividad me cambiaba cada d\u00eda un poco m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Esa gilipollez se ancl\u00f3 en el fondo de mi mente; a medida que se establec\u00eda en mi cerebro, empec\u00e9 a tenerle miedo.<\/p>\n Empec\u00e9 a creer que todas las cosas que dijiste iban a suceder.<\/p>\n Me refiero a d\u00edas mejores contigo. A mitad de nuestra relaci\u00f3n, a\u00fan ten\u00eda la esperanza de que vendr\u00edan d\u00edas mejores.<\/p>\n Needless to say, I couldn\u2019t have been more wrong. That hope slowly vanished as you showed absolutely no intention of changing.<\/p>\n Not just that you refused to change, you didn\u2019t even notice that you had a problem. It was so much easier to blame me or anyone else.<\/p>\n Era mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil decir gilipolleces que ser un hombre, ponerse un par y poner la vida en orden.<\/p>\n There you go\u2026 This is what you got for what you served.<\/p>\n There it is. I finally feel like I’ve got to that point in my life where I can shout from the top of my lungs to everyone who bothers me, loud and clear: \u201cFU!\u201d I’m finally at that stage where I simply don\u2019t give a damn anymore. 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\nSo yes\u2026 it\u2019s going to be a long ride.<\/em><\/p>\n![\"joven](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-by-the-window-3.jpg\")
<\/p>\nBS No. 1 – Your hidden self-loathing was not my problem<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No. 2 – You made me (in one word) MISERABLE<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No. 3 – You lacked any form of support imaginable<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No.4 – Your jealousy was too much to handle<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No.5 – Poor you, you were always the victim<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No.6 – Your negativity drove me insane<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No. 7 – You destroyed my hope of better days<\/h2>\n
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