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Sometimes it is impossible to keep your word, and you don\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s reasonable for situations like this to happen.<\/p>\n
But how many times has he failed you and broken his promises. How many times hasn\u2019t he kept his word?<\/strong><\/p>\n Try to count and if the number is big, then you should try to make some changes or have a \u2018serious talk\u2019 with him.<\/p>\n Te prometi\u00f3 algo pero no cumpli\u00f3 la promesa tantas veces.<\/p>\n You always hoped he’d change. That he\u2019d be more honest and try to keep his word or the promise he made.<\/p>\n If a man in love makes a promise, he\u2019ll try to keep his word even if it kills him.<\/strong><\/p>\n But he didn\u2019t even try.<\/p>\n He didn\u2019t bother because he thought that you\u2019d be there forever to believe him and forgive him every time he broke a promise.<\/p>\n Ahora puede ver que estaba equivocado.<\/p>\n He thought that they were little things and that it wasn\u2019t a big deal if he didn\u2019t honor them.<\/p>\n Pero ese fue su mayor error, porque fall\u00f3 incluso en esas peque\u00f1as cosas.<\/p>\n Las peque\u00f1as cosas son las que importan en la vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n Todo lo que le ped\u00edas o le hac\u00edas prometer era por tu felicidad y una vida mejor.<\/p>\n Nunca fuiste ego\u00edsta. S\u00f3lo quer\u00edas asegurarte de que ambos fueran felices.<\/p>\n But he didn\u2019t care for your feelings and that\u2019s why he didn\u2019t want to make you happy.<\/p>\n He couldn\u2019t do what you asked him to do, because to him it wasn\u2019t important. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n Siempre que hablabais de vuestro futuro \u00e9l intentaba cambiar de tema o posponer la conversaci\u00f3n para otro momento, aunque siempre prometiendo que hablar\u00edais de ello.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pero, por supuesto, nunca lo hicisteis. Porque, para empezar, nunca tuvisteis ning\u00fan futuro juntos.<\/p>\n Ahora has empezado a estar harto de palabras y promesas. Quieres alguna prueba de que lo que dice va en serio.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t stand his sugar-coated words anymore. <\/strong>Habla, pero nunca hace nada para demostrar que lo que dice va en serio.<\/strong><\/p>\n Do you remember how many times he promised that he\u2019d put you at the top of his priority list?<\/p>\n That he\u2019d try to spend more time with you?<\/p>\n How many times did he promise that he\u2019d be more romantic, more creative, more adventurous for you?<\/p>\n Desde el primer d\u00eda que os enamorasteis, ten\u00edas que ser su prioridad, igual que \u00e9l era la tuya.<\/p>\n But you weren’t.<\/p>\n \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tuviste que esperar para convertirte en la persona m\u00e1s importante de su vida? <\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c9l ocup\u00f3 ese lugar en tu vida durante tantos a\u00f1os, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 tuviste que esperar?<\/strong><\/p>\n He said that he loved you more than anything and that he wouldn\u2019t allow anything bad to happen to you.<\/p>\n That he wouldn\u2019t allow anyone to hurt you.<\/p>\n Eran \u00e9l y t\u00fa contra el mundo, \u00bfverdad? Pero s\u00f3lo eran palabras. Palabras sin sentido.<\/p>\n Minti\u00f3.<\/a> y tienes que ser consciente de ello.<\/p>\n Why didn\u2019t he stop himself from hurting you? Why didn\u2019t he stop lying? He let himself hurt you so many times.<\/p>\n Te ha decepcionado muchas veces. \u00c9l es la raz\u00f3n por la que la chispa en su relaci\u00f3n se desvaneci\u00f3.<\/p>\n Un hombre que te quiere nunca pensar\u00e1 en herirte emocionalmente ni en decepcionarte a prop\u00f3sito.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se desvivir\u00e1 para que est\u00e9s sano y salvo en todo lo posible y cuando alguien te haga da\u00f1o, se asegurar\u00e1 de que lo pague de una forma u otra.<\/p>\n Los hombres saben muy bien lo que las mujeres quieren o\u00edr.<\/p>\n Saben que es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil decirle a una mujer lo que le gusta o\u00edr.<\/p>\n Prometerle algo que quiere sin ninguna intenci\u00f3n de cumplir esa promesa.<\/p>\n Saben que una mentira lleva a la acci\u00f3n, y desaparecer\u00e1 ante tu reacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n \u00bfNunca mostr\u00f3 signos de remordimiento? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 iba a hacerlo? No es un hombre honesto y veraz<\/a>. No es tan valiente.<\/p>\n Accepting and admitting your mistakes requires courage and integrity – both traits he didn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n Un hombre sin car\u00e1cter nunca aceptar\u00e1 la culpa y que hicieron algo mal.<\/p>\n Siempre est\u00e1 dispuesto a culpar a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Todos somos humanos y no pasa nada por cometer errores. Todos los cometemos.<\/p>\n Pero si amas a alguien te sientes culpable cada vez que haces algo mal y pides perd\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n You were convinced that it was your fault that he wasn\u2019t keeping his word the way you wanted him to.<\/p>\n Pensabas que el problema estaba dentro de ti y que ten\u00edas que cambiar algo si quer\u00edas que se quedara.<\/p>\n Do you remember all those times you looked at yourself in the mirror trying to figure out why you weren’t good enough?<\/p>\n Do you remember how many times you cried yourself to sleep because he\u2019d broken his promise again? And he did it countless times.<\/p>\n And believe me, he would have continued to do it if you hadn\u2019t stopped him.<\/p>\n When you realize you can\u2019t change him, that not even 100 ‘second chances’ or closing your eyes would make him love you and be a better man for you, that is when you\u2019ll finally be free and start loving yourself more.<\/p>\n Recuerda c\u00f3mo intentaste convencerte de que ser\u00eda mejor estar con \u00e9l aunque te hiciera da\u00f1o, que estar completamente sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Recuerda el d\u00eda en que por fin decidiste que ten\u00edas que liberarte de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Dejarlo ir ser\u00e1 lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de tu vida, pero valdr\u00e1 la pena.<\/p>\n One day someone else will come into your life and he\u2019ll show you that you deserve a man who will stand behind his words and that you deserve someone who will keep his promises.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s why you should be thankful to him. He\u2019s made you realize what you deserve.<\/p>\n Te has hecho m\u00e1s fuerte gracias a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Every time he let you down, you searched for comfort in yourself, you found a strength you didn\u2019t even know you had and empez\u00f3 a quererse m\u00e1s a s\u00ed mismo.<\/a><\/p>\n Val\u00f3rate lo suficiente como para evitarte m\u00e1s dolor.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve already tried so hard to change him and to make him realize how miserable he is making you with all of his false promises.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t do more than you have already done. You are also exhausted.<\/p>\n![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/couple-sitting-bed-hugging.jpg\")
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