{"id":53823,"date":"2020-02-28T08:02:41","date_gmt":"2020-02-28T08:02:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53823"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:33:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:33:12","slug":"10-formas-de-reconocer-el-amor-verdadero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-formas-de-reconocer-el-amor-verdadero\/","title":{"rendered":"10 maneras infalibles de reconocer el amor verdadero despu\u00e9s de haber sido herido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tras numerosas decepciones, pierdes tu capacidad de juicio.<\/p>\n

You become paranoid that all guys just want to break your heart and you\u2019re convinced that every relationship you get yourself into will leave you devastated and even more damaged.<\/p>\n

After everything you\u2019ve been through, you lose the ability to differentiate between right and wrong.<\/p>\n

Despite all of your attempts, after being hurt more than once, you don\u2019t know how to recognize real love even if it\u2019s standing right in front of your face.<\/p>\n

And that is why we\u2019re here\u2014to give you the bulletproof signs that this is the real deal and that it is safe to put your baja la guardia.<\/a><\/p>\n

1. You think it\u2019s too good to be true<\/h2>\n

\"caf\u00e9<\/p>\n

At first, after numerous douchebags, when you finally meet a man who truly loves you, you can\u2019t believe what is happening.<\/p>\n

Asumes que todo esto es parte de su enga\u00f1o y falsas pretensiones.<\/p>\n

He is obviously just lying to get in your pants and under your skin and he\u2019ll end up hurting you the way everyone else before him did.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, todos los hombres son iguales, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 \u00e9ste iba a ser diferente?<\/p>\n

Piensas que este chico es demasiado bueno para ser verdad, que es literalmente imposible que un chico sea sincero contigo desde el primer d\u00eda y te muestre tanto amor sin intenciones ocultas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que sigue buscando pistas.<\/p>\n

You focus on his imperfections and you look for validation that you were right all along and you\u2019re trying to prepare yourself for what must come next.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la decepci\u00f3n que espera no est\u00e1 a la vista.<\/p>\n

No matter how deep you dig, you can\u2019t find anything that proves this guy is a douchebag and just like one of your exes.<\/p>\n

2. It doesn\u2019t bring drama<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

En todas tus relaciones anteriores, todo era una monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones.<\/p>\n

El drama era constante y nunca se sab\u00eda lo que pod\u00eda ocurrir al d\u00eda siguiente.<\/p>\n

Lo peor es que, al cabo de un tiempo, empiezas a creer que as\u00ed es como deben ser las cosas.<\/p>\n

You saw it in romantic movies and you read about it\u2014the protagonists who actually love each other deeply keep stumbling on different problems, there is always some action going on and everything around them is wild and crazy.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you won\u2019t fight in this relationship.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, incluso vuestras discusiones ser\u00e1n m\u00e1s pac\u00edficas y ninguno de los dos armar\u00e1 jaleo por cosas peque\u00f1as e irrelevantes.<\/p>\n

No todos los desacuerdos se sentir\u00e1n como el fin del mundo y no todas las peleas llevar\u00e1n a un ruptura. <\/a><\/p>\n

No existe la tensi\u00f3n innecesaria que siempre te persigui\u00f3 en tus relaciones pasadas.<\/p>\n

Esta vez, todo parece resoluble.<\/p>\n

Sabes que incluso en los peores escenarios, las cosas saldr\u00e1n bien.<\/p>\n

3. Se siente como en casa<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando eras m\u00e1s joven, asociabas el amor verdadero con mariposas en el est\u00f3mago.<\/p>\n

Pensabas que estar nervioso cerca de alguien y que el coraz\u00f3n te latiera locamente cada vez que lo ve\u00edas o escuchabas su voz era se\u00f1al suficiente de que se trataba de alguien de verdad.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la verdad es que hay una gran diferencia entre estar enamorado y amar a alguien.<\/p>\n

Y \u00e9sta es la diferencia que s\u00f3lo consigues ver cuando conoces el amor verdadero despu\u00e9s de haber sido herido.<\/p>\n

Este amor es pac\u00edfico y se siente como en casa.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make you hysterical, it doesn\u2019t give you sleepless nights, anxiety or endless worries and instead, it makes you calm.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t live in constant fear that you\u2019ll lose this person and you don\u2019t think you couldn\u2019t make it without them.<\/p>\n

De hecho, sabes muy bien que sobrevivir\u00edas a su ausencia, pero eliges conscientemente tenerlos en tu vida.<\/p>\n

4. Commitment isn\u2019t an issue<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Another sure-fire sign that you\u2019ve met your forever person after all those failures you had to go through is the fact that things like compromiso<\/a>La lealtad y la fidelidad nunca se ponen en duda.<\/p>\n

Yes, these things should be normal in a relationship but sadly, in today\u2019s world, they have become things you need to fight for and things you should consider yourself lucky to get.<\/p>\n

The difference between this man and everyone else is that you don\u2019t have to wait for him to make up his mind about you, to choose you from all the other girls in his life or to realize you\u2019re the one for him.<\/p>\n

Once you find this man, he won\u2019t have trouble labeling your relationship and he\u2019ll immediately give you the title of his girlfriend.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t waste your time and lead you on for years, without ever telling you honestly where you two stand or without ever talking about your future together.<\/p>\n

Con este tipo, las cosas estar\u00e1n muy claras desde el primer d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

He will be completely devoted to your relationship and he\u2019ll put as much effort in to make it work as you do.<\/p>\n

5. It won\u2019t change you<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

In all of your previous relationships, you were expected to meet someone else\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n

O no eras suficiente o eras demasiado para el hombre que ten\u00edas al lado.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que hiciste todo lo posible para convertirte en la mujer que esos tipos quer\u00edan que fueras.<\/p>\n

Cambiaste de color de pelo, engordaste o adelgazaste, empezaste a vestirte de forma diferente y, lo m\u00e1s importante, modificaste tu personalidad.<\/p>\n

Al final del d\u00eda, te perdiste a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

En un intento por complacerlos y ser mejor para ellos, olvidaste qui\u00e9n eras antes de que todos estos tipos desfilaran por tu vida.<\/p>\n

Well, when you finally meet a man who accepts you for who you really are, you\u2019ll know he is your match made in heaven.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014there will probably be some parts of your character this guy won\u2019t be crazy about but even in that case, he won\u2019t make you change your ways and become someone you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

6. Te curar\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014no man deserves to have a girlfriend who carries loads of emotional baggage into their relationship.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tu nuevo novio lamentablemente tendr\u00e1 que lidiar con tus traumas del pasado.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, he won\u2019t run away when he sees that you\u2019re damaged.<\/p>\n

En cambio, este chico har\u00e1 que su prioridad sea ayudarte a reparar tu coraz\u00f3n destrozado y a devolverte la fe perdida en el amor.<\/p>\n

Because that is what true love does\u2014te cura<\/a>mientras que todos los dem\u00e1s te rompen.<\/p>\n

Hace que desaparezca toda tu tristeza, cura tus inseguridades, enjuga tus l\u00e1grimas, te devuelve la sonrisa y te convierte en la persona m\u00e1s feliz del mundo.<\/p>\n

7. There won\u2019t be excuses<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

How many times have you been involved with a guy whose actions didn\u2019t match his words?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCon un hombre que te prometi\u00f3 el mundo pero acab\u00f3 por no darte nada y que te convenci\u00f3 de que vivir\u00edas un aut\u00e9ntico cuento de hadas a su lado pero convirti\u00f3 tu d\u00eda a d\u00eda en un infierno?<\/p>\n

Bueno, ahora, todo esto forma parte del pasado.<\/p>\n

Se acabaron las falsas promesas y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, las excusas.<\/p>\n

Cuando un hombre te quiere de verdad, siempre est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para ti, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

No est\u00e1 demasiado ocupado para ayudarte y nadie es m\u00e1s importante que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

En lugar de gastar toda su energ\u00eda en buscar excusas, se centra en encontrar soluciones.<\/p>\n

8. \u2026 or blame games<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas que siempre eras culpable de todo lo malo en tus relaciones? \u00bfC\u00f3mo tus ex te echaban la culpa, incluso de sus comportamiento t\u00f3xico<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Esto es otra cosa que deja de pasar una vez que encuentras el amor verdadero despu\u00e9s de muchas decepciones.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, it doesn\u2019t matter who is guilty or who is right or wrong; the only important thing is to come up with a solution.<\/p>\n

There are no more blame games because you\u2019re both mature adults who know when to take responsibility for their actions.<\/p>\n

Ninguno de los dos juega a juegos mentales, y tampoco sirve de nada hacer luz de gas a la otra persona para aumentar tu ego.<\/p>\n

9. Te inspirar\u00e1 para crecer como persona<\/h2>\n

 While you were involved with all those wrong guys, you were constantly insecure and you couldn\u2019t help but wonder whether you were enough.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see your true value as a person and you thought you had self-confidence issues.<\/p>\n

Aunque la \u00faltima parte fuera cierta, lo cierto es que te sent\u00edas as\u00ed porque tus compa\u00f1eros te disminu\u00edan constantemente.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edan la necesidad de menospreciarte porque era la \u00fanica forma de sentirse mejor consigo mismos.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, una vez que el amor verdadero entre en tu vida, te ayudar\u00e1 en tu relaci\u00f3n contigo mismo.<\/p>\n

Cuando el hombre adecuado llegue a quererte, te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 a quererte m\u00e1s a ti misma y eso es lo mejor que puede hacer por ti.<\/p>\n

Este chico te ayudar\u00e1 a crecer como persona y te inspirar\u00e1 para que alcances todo tu potencial.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l te empujar\u00e1 hacia adelante y creer\u00e1 en ti, incluso cuando pierdas la fe.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014a real man will never be intimidated by your achievements.<\/p>\n

En cambio, se sentir\u00e1 orgulloso de ellos y siempre estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed para cubrirles las espaldas mientras suben la escalera del \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n

10. Te sentir\u00e1s parte de una pareja<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Una de las mejores cosas que aporta el amor verdadero y una relaci\u00f3n sana es el sentimiento de pertenencia.<\/p>\n

From the moment it enters your life, you stop feeling like you\u2019re solo<\/a> en este mundo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll lose your individuality in this relationship.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ll just feel much stronger because you know there exist hands which will catch you if you fall; you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re part of a team that can\u2019t lose!<\/p>\n

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