{"id":54346,"date":"2020-03-05T21:27:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T21:27:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54346"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:56:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:56:27","slug":"carta-al-hombre-que-no-estaba-preparado-para-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-al-hombre-que-no-estaba-preparado-para-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que no estaba preparado para mi amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After all this time, I&#8217;m still hoping.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m hoping that maybe one day you will explain why you left me.<\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s wrong. I should just leave you in the past and simply move on with my life.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s not easy.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo superar algo que cre\u00edas que iba a durar para siempre?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54349 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de mujer escribiendo una carta en una mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo se puede dejar atr\u00e1s a alguien por quien se sent\u00edan sentimientos tan intensos y a quien se amaba con todo el coraz\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I don\u2019t know how many times I tried to write this letter and I couldn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n<p>Mis emociones estaban a flor de piel.<\/p>\n<p>Todav\u00eda te quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>However, I was also angry because I couldn\u2019t believe it was so easy for you to let me go. To let our love go.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora, estoy enfadada conmigo misma por amar a alguien que nunca fue m\u00edo, que me dej\u00f3 sin palabras.<\/p>\n<p>Me sent\u00ed traicionado porque me mentiste.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54350 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-leter-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer infeliz escribiendo una carta en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-leter-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-leter-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-woman-writing-a-leter-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How many times did you say that you would do anything for me, that there was nothing in this world you wouldn\u2019t have done for me?<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que ten\u00edas que hacer era amarme como yo te amaba. Y fallaste.<\/p>\n<p>I felt sad. That\u2019s it. I felt so profoundly sad.<\/p>\n<p>No hay palabras suficientes para describir esa sensaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Espero que entiendas lo que hiciste y las consecuencias que dej\u00f3 en m\u00ed. Dejaste una marca innegable en mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If you ever cared for me, you wouldn\u2019t have made me feel like this.<\/p>\n<p>I was afraid. I was actually worried about my mental health because I didn\u2019t think I was strong enough to cope with you leaving.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54351 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-lying-in-bed-and-typing-on-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"chica tumbada en la cama y escribiendo en el port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-lying-in-bed-and-typing-on-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-lying-in-bed-and-typing-on-laptop-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-lying-in-bed-and-typing-on-laptop-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Las cicatrices que dejaste me asustaron.<\/p>\n<p>Segu\u00eda temiendo que el hombre que viniera despu\u00e9s de ti fuera tan malo como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>After it all ended, I didn\u2019t want anyone else to take your place.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t want to have someone near me if that wasn\u2019t you.<\/p>\n<p>I was confused. I simply wasn\u2019t able to comprehend what happened.<\/p>\n<p>Nada de eso parec\u00eda tener sentido para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Todo parec\u00eda perfecto en un momento, pero entonces me rompiste el coraz\u00f3n. Me rompiste a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54352 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-letter-at-coffee-bar.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste escribiendo una carta en la barra de un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-letter-at-coffee-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-letter-at-coffee-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-letter-at-coffee-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Y me qued\u00e9 con la sensaci\u00f3n de inseguridad, que tengo incluso ahora.<\/p>\n<p>I thought that I wasn\u2019t enough for you or that maybe I had rushed you into something you didn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I even caught myself thinking that I wouldn\u2019t ever find someone who would be able to love me like I deserve, like I loved you, selfless and pure, without any measure.<\/p>\n<p>But now, after time healed my wounds and after I managed to patch my heart, I know that true love will find me, at the right time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que gracias. Gracias por dejarme ir.<\/p>\n<p>Aprend\u00ed a decir adi\u00f3s. Me ense\u00f1aste a desplegar las alas y a volar libre de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>Guess what? The world didn\u2019t stop with you leaving after all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54353 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-watching-away-while-writing-letter.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando hacia otro lado mientras escribe una carta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-watching-away-while-writing-letter.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-watching-away-while-writing-letter-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-watching-away-while-writing-letter-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hay tantas cosas bonitas esperando a que salga a explorarlas.<\/p>\n<p>Hay alguien que estar\u00e1 listo para mi amor.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien que me mime con su amor. Alguien a quien animar\u00e9 a ser mejor en cada paso del camino.<\/p>\n<p>Hay alguien con quien cumplir\u00e9 mis sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who isn\u2019t afraid to love or commit.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s my fault I gave you all the love you didn&#8217;t deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Te di todo de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54354 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste escribiendo una carta en la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-writing-a-letter-at-table-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am sorry because I didn\u2019t know how to love any less than that&#8230; But you weren&#8217;t ready to love me the same way.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez presion\u00e9 demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>Did I scare you with something I did? I know you didn&#8217;t fake all of that.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t fake emotions as strong as that. You didn&#8217;t fake your love. So, what really happened?<\/p>\n<p>This is a rhetorical question because I don\u2019t want to know the answer.<\/p>\n<p>I am afraid of it. I am afraid you\u2019ll tell me that I rushed you into something serious.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54357 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-lying-on-book-at-table-with-roses-and-candle.jpg\" alt=\"mujer recostada sobre libro en mesa con rosas y vela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-lying-on-book-at-table-with-roses-and-candle.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-lying-on-book-at-table-with-roses-and-candle-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-lying-on-book-at-table-with-roses-and-candle-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want to believe that you weren&#8217;t ready for a serious relationship, that you weren\u2019t ready for the type of love I was giving you.<\/p>\n<p>You weren&#8217;t ready for that \u2018forever type of love\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, it doesn\u2019t matter anymore who was wrong and who was right. It doesn\u2019t matter whether I chased you away or you were the running type.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que importa es que aprend\u00ed algo de nuestra historia.<\/p>\n<p>I learned a thing or two about men and relationships. I learned to let go of the things that weren\u2019t meant for me.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, aprend\u00ed a valorarme m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>He abierto los ojos a nuevas perspectivas y a una nueva vida que puedo tener sin ti.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY t\u00fa?<\/p>\n<p>Te convertiste en parte de mi pasado y quiero dejarte ah\u00ed. Estoy preparado para el futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Take care of yourself and goodbye&#8230; forever!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54347 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Carta al hombre que no estaba preparado para mi amor\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After all this time, I&#8217;m still hoping. I&#8217;m hoping that maybe one day you will explain why you left me. I know it&#8217;s wrong. I should just leave you in the past and simply move on with my life. But that&#8217;s not easy. How do you move on from something you thought was going to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":54348,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Wasnt-Ready-For-My-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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