You asked yourself: What did I do to deserve this? Why can\u2019t I just have a normal, loving relationship, full of trust?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s the only thing you ever wanted. It should be so simple.<\/p>\n
After some time, you realized it wasn\u2019t about you or what you wanted.<\/p>\n
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No hab\u00eda espacio para sus necesidades.<\/p>\n
It was always about him and you didn\u2019t even mind it until he violated your boundaries and transformed your whole world into such a lonely place.<\/strong><\/p>\n Te esforzaste mucho para volver a ser vulnerable porque sab\u00edas que era la \u00fanica forma de que una relaci\u00f3n funcionara.<\/p>\n Te enfrentabas a tus miedos uno a uno, quer\u00edas que esto fuera puro. Un nuevo comienzo.<\/p>\n You tried to understand. You didn\u2019t think it would be easy to deal with all your fears and insecurities.<\/p>\n Mir\u00e1ndolo ahora, te das cuenta de que s\u00f3lo intentabas justificar sus comportamientos ego\u00edstas.<\/p>\n It\u2019s crazy how love can blind you. You didn\u2019t have anyone to reach out to\u2014because he was all you knew.<\/p>\n Te volcaste en \u00e9l. La persona que adorabas se convirti\u00f3 en tu peor pesadilla.<\/p>\n Todo lo que compart\u00edais se convirti\u00f3 en recuerdos dolorosos y m\u00e1s dolor. Te sent\u00edas tan solo.<\/p>\n \u00bfHay algo peor que compartir todos tus miedos y esperanzas con alguien s\u00f3lo para ver c\u00f3mo los utiliza en tu contra, c\u00f3mo los utiliza para hacerte m\u00e1s da\u00f1o?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfC\u00f3mo es posible? Dijo que le importaba muchas veces.<\/p>\n Dijo que nadie se te acercaba. Dijo que nadie pod\u00eda hacerte da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n There\u2019s nothing scarier than thinking those words were straight-up lies and he was the one who hurt you the most.<\/p>\n The worst thing is, you stopped trusting yourself and this is because you couldn\u2019t believe you fell for the same thing again.<\/p>\n Te hizo sentir muy inseguro. Perdiste toda tu confianza.<\/p>\n A voice in your head kept saying it was all your fault and it wouldn\u2019t go away.<\/p>\n Todos los d\u00edas te despertabas con miedo, con un peso en el pecho e incredulidad de que esa fuera ahora tu realidad.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo quer\u00edas volver a dormirte porque era el \u00fanico momento en que el dolor desaparec\u00eda.<\/p>\n Rezaste para volver a ser t\u00fa mismo alg\u00fan d\u00eda. Te llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo hacer cosas normales.<\/p>\n You wanted to enjoy the small things again, so you started with everything that didn\u2019t remind you of him.<\/p>\n I want you to know that there\u2019s life after this.<\/p>\n S\u00e9 que esto te ha puesto en guardia, pero debes saber que hay gente que te comprende y que est\u00e1 pasando por lo mismo.<\/p>\n Poco a poco, empezar\u00e1s a escuchar lo que usted<\/em> quieres, lo que te hace sentir c\u00f3modo y seguro.<\/p>\n Decidir\u00e1s que quieres conocerte mejor.<\/p>\n Empezar\u00e1s a conocerte a ti mismo fuera de tu dolor.<\/strong><\/p>\n En primer lugar, puedes empezar por aceptar tu dolor y perdonarte por no haber sabido hacerlo mejor.<\/p>\n En segundo lugar, puedes tomarte en serio todos tus objetivos vitales y empezar a progresar para volver a ser t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n D\u00e9jate enamorar por todo lo que puedes hacer y todo lo que puedes ser.<\/p>\n Decide ver todo lo que has pasado como una motivaci\u00f3n y una curva de aprendizaje.<\/p>\n Learn to accept that everything in life happens for a reason, one you don\u2019t know in advance.<\/p>\n This realization will make you at peace with yourself. There\u2019s no other way than to let go and try again.<\/p>\n Tu fuerza est\u00e1 en la historia de tu vida. Tu sensaci\u00f3n de poder proviene de creer siempre, intentarlo y seguir adelante, a pesar del dolor que la gente te ha causado.<\/p>\n Once you realize that no person can take your power if you don\u2019t let them, you\u2019re invincible. Stand in your power.<\/p>\n This life is yours and yours only and it\u2019s you who gets to decide what you\u2019re going to do with it.<\/p>\n It\u2019s never too late. It\u2019s just one decision away.<\/p>\n Do it all not to prove yourself to anyone but yourself because you\u2019re the one who deserves it all.<\/p>\n You know that someday he\u2019s going to wake up overwhelmed by sadness and betrayal and ask himself: Is this how she felt? Yes. Even worse, it\u2019s how you felt so many times in life that you almost lost all your hope. You forgot what safe felt like. 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