![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-and-crying.jpg\")
<\/p>\n\u00bfHas estado alguna vez en una relaci\u00f3n en la que nada de lo que haces es suficiente?<\/p>\n
Where you\u2019re the only one guilty for all of your problems and where somehow, you always end up taking responsibility even for the things you didn\u2019t do?<\/p>\n
If you can relate your romance with all of the above, you\u2019re probably dealing with a narcissistic boyfriend who constantly puts all the blame on you.<\/p>\n
Naturally, you can\u2019t help but wonder what makes him do that.<\/p>\n
Read on and you\u2019ll find the answers you need!<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014the last thing I\u2019m trying to do is blame you for falling into the hands of a narcissist.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re this awful man\u2019s v\u00edctima<\/span><\/a>, he is the only one responsible for the way he\u2019s treating you and nothing you did makes you guilty for his toxic actions.<\/p>\n However, the fact is that a narcissist won\u2019t attack just anyone and they don\u2019t choose their targets randomly, without any reason whatsoever.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t take this as an insult but a narcissist searches for weak women he can mentally and emotionally abuse without much trouble.<\/p>\n Estas personas son h\u00e1biles manipuladores y tienen habilidades psicol\u00f3gicas extremadamente buenas.<\/p>\n Merodean en busca de la v\u00edctima m\u00e1s adecuada.<\/p>\n It is possible that you\u2019re dealing with some deeply rooted emotional traumas even you\u2019re not aware of, that you display signos de una mujer insegura<\/a> or that you\u2019ve been taught that you\u2019re always to blame ever since your childhood.<\/p>\n Either way, the point is that this guy would probably never chase a woman he knows he couldn\u2019t manipulate and sadly, you\u2019re not her.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re wondering why narcisistas <\/span><\/a>never take the blame for their behavior, the answer is pretty simple\u2014they can\u2019t admit to anyone that they\u2019re guilty, including themselves.<\/p>\n Of course, this doesn\u2019t justify them because deep down, a narcissist knows exactly what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\n The first thing you need to know about this type of person is that they\u2019re driven by their desire to be flawless.<\/p>\n Su prioridad es que todos los que les rodean les vean lo m\u00e1s perfectos posible.<\/p>\n Por lo tanto, si un narcisista admitiera alguna vez que se equivoca, significar\u00eda que tiene su parte de imperfecciones, como cualquier otra persona del mundo.<\/p>\n In fact, that would make him average and that is something he couldn\u2019t stand.<\/p>\n Este tipo quiere ser percibido como mejor que los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n This is especially the case with his romantic relationships\u2014he wants to convince you that he is above you in every way possible and that it is literally impossible for him to make any kind of a mistake.<\/p>\n You and most people have no trouble admitting that you\u2019re just human beings made of flesh and blood and that you\u2019re prone to making wrong moves from time to time.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, este hombre preferir\u00eda morir antes que permitir que dejes de verle como superior al resto del mundo.<\/p>\n Contrariamente a su comportamiento, lo cierto es que este hombre es perfectamente consciente de que \u00e9l es el culpable de que tu relationship isn\u2019t working<\/span><\/a> and that you\u2019re nothing but his victim.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t think you\u2019re responsible for your relationship problems\u2014he is just doing his best to make you believe that you\u2019re the sinful one.<\/p>\n Por favor, ten esto en mente la pr\u00f3xima vez que empieces a buscar excusas para este hombre.<\/p>\n Stop thinking that he is a poor soul, that his narcissism is stronger than him and that he can\u2019t do anything to successfully control it.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, se trata de un trastorno grave de la personalidad.<\/p>\n However, his mental and emotional conditions don\u2019t make him unaware of his actions.<\/p>\n Otra raz\u00f3n por la que tu pareja narcisista te echa toda la culpa es el hecho de que lo ve como una salida a su sucia conciencia.<\/p>\n He sees all of his wrongdoings and knows that he is responsible for the hell your relationship is in but he chooses to ignore that tiny voice in the back of his head that\u2019s telling him to take responsibility and instead, decides to put all the blame on you.<\/p>\n There is actually not much philosophy needed here; it is way easier to accuse someone else for your own misdeeds than to confront them and admit to yourself and to the rest of the world that you\u2019re the bad guy in the story.<\/p>\n Es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil manipule<\/span><\/a> a la otra persona para que crea que es culpable que enfrentarte a tus patrones de conducta t\u00f3xicos y aceptar el hecho de que tienes un trastorno de personalidad y que necesitas ayuda para tratarlo.<\/p>\n A trait common to all narcissists out there is that they can\u2019t stand being surrounded by people who love and respect themselves.<\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puede juega<\/span><\/a> con la cabeza si sabes lo digno que eres?<\/p>\n Como ves, este hombre est\u00e1 en constante b\u00fasqueda de admiraci\u00f3n. Necesita sentirse superior a ti para obtener la verificaci\u00f3n de su propio valor.<\/p>\n Por lo tanto, un narcisista siempre har\u00e1 todo lo posible para que pienses menos de ti mismo.<\/p>\n If he manages to convince you that you keep making one mistake after another and that you\u2019re the one ruining your relationship, after a while, you\u2019ll start to think of yourself as good for nothing.<\/p>\n According to this guy, you\u2019re incapable of being a buena novia<\/span><\/a>\u00bfQu\u00e9 m\u00e1s se puede esperar de ti?<\/p>\n No other man would put up with you and your constant failures, so you\u2019re much better next to him\u2014the only guy who would ever agree to love you.<\/p>\n Echarte toda la culpa a ti no es m\u00e1s que su t\u00e9cnica manipuladora con la que intenta devaluarte e impedir que veas tu propia val\u00eda.<\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de todo, s\u00f3lo cuando te menosprecia y s\u00f3lo cuando est\u00e1 por encima de ti puede un narcisista sentirse bien consigo mismo.<\/p>\n \u201cYou\u2019re too weak. You\u2019re overly emotional. You\u2019re exaggerating. It isn\u2019t that big of a deal.\u201d<\/p>\n \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has o\u00eddo estas frases dirigidas a ti por parte de tu novio?<\/p>\n Apuesto a que ha ocurrido m\u00e1s a menudo de lo que te gustar\u00eda admitir.<\/p>\n Even when this guy has the decency to admit that he did something he shouldn\u2019t have, he\u2019ll find a way to turn the tables and accuse you of provoking him and making him do it.<\/p>\n Te suena familiar, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n Bueno, \u00e9l est\u00e1 haciendo todo esto como un intento de minimizar tus sentimientos y, eventualmente, hacerte cuestionar tu propia cordura.<\/p>\n After you spend some time under his influence, you\u2019ll start wondering whether you really are taking everything too personal.<\/p>\n \u00bfTiene raz\u00f3n? \u00bfEst\u00e1s exagerando y haciendo un esc\u00e1ndalo de la nada?<\/p>\n Estos y otros pensamientos similares que tienes en realidad le est\u00e1n dando luz verde para continuar con su comportamiento.<\/p>\n They give him the chance to keep on treating you badly and the best part is that you won\u2019t be saying a word about it anymore.<\/p>\n Every dating expert will advise you to tell your partner about what\u2019s bothering you, to point out the things you don\u2019t like in his behavior and if you two have healthy communication, you\u2019ll sort everything out in no time.<\/p>\n However, when you\u2019re dating a narcissist, this is utterly impossible.<\/p>\n Incluso cuando intentas llamar la atenci\u00f3n a este hombre por sus acciones, convierte la discusi\u00f3n en un juego de culpas y, finalmente, te hace olvidar la raz\u00f3n de la discusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Not only that\u2014when he finds a way to accuse you of being guilty of whatever he did, somehow, you end up being the one who apologizes.<\/p>\n En lugar de resolver el problema inicial, los dos acaban pele\u00e1ndose por qui\u00e9n tiene la culpa.<\/p>\n Por eso, pasado un tiempo, evitas iniciar cualquier tipo de discusi\u00f3n con \u00e9l porque sabes c\u00f3mo acabar\u00e1 todo.<\/p>\n You let him get away with his behavior because you know that if you open up the topic you want to resolve, you\u2019ll just end up trapped in an endless circle of trying to prove who is guilty instead of coming up with the solution to your problem.<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/crying-stressed-woman-with-her-boyfriend-at-the-table.jpg\")
<\/p>\n2. Su necesidad de ser perfecto<\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-pointing-on-girl-and-arguing.jpg\")
<\/p>\n3. Sabe que tiene la culpa<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/thoughtful-man-sitting-in-the-office.jpg\")
<\/p>\n4. Justifica su comportamiento t\u00f3xico<\/h2>\n
![\"chica](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/angry-girl-on-the-couch-with-her-boyfriend.jpg\")
<\/p>\n5. Quiere devaluarte<\/h2>\n
![\"hombres](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/angry-men-yelling-on-the-girl-in-the-house.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-blue-couch-and-thinking.jpg\")
<\/p>\n6. Intenta minimizar tus sentimientos<\/h2>\n
![\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-sitting-at-the-edge-of-the-bed-angry-at-her-boyfriend.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing.jpg\")
<\/p>\n7. Quiere que olvides el motivo inicial de una discusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-on-the-floor-thinking.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"joven](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-apologizing-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\")
<\/p>\n8. Le da poder sobre ti<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-in-blue-shirt-arguing-with-the-girl.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
![\"hombres](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/angry-men-yelling-at-girlfriend-in-the-bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"chica](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-girl-in-the-bed-with-boyfriend.jpg\")
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