{"id":54520,"date":"2020-03-09T22:09:08","date_gmt":"2020-03-09T22:09:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54520"},"modified":"2022-07-23T09:31:23","modified_gmt":"2022-07-23T09:31:23","slug":"no-vuelvas-a-acoger-a-alguien-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-vuelvas-a-acoger-a-alguien-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"No vuelvas a dar la bienvenida a alguien t\u00f3xico en tu vida s\u00f3lo porque te sientas solo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has ignorado esa corazonada que te dec\u00eda que no deb\u00edas hacer algo, para hacerlo de todos modos?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfAlgo como contestar cuando te manda un mensaje o te llama sin venir a cuento?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfAlguna vez te has preguntado por qu\u00e9? Despu\u00e9s de todo lo que pas\u00f3, sigues d\u00e1ndole segundas oportunidades.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get comfortable with accepting less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s hard to just stop loving once you have fallen so deeply in love but sometimes the problem is not just that.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, it\u2019s about our relationship with ourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54521\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-blonde-woman-in-sunshine.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia feliz bajo el sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-blonde-woman-in-sunshine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-blonde-woman-in-sunshine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-blonde-woman-in-sunshine-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A menudo se confunde estar solo con <em>estar solo<\/em>cuando, en realidad, se trata de dos t\u00e9rminos totalmente distintos.<\/p>\n<p>Estar solo significa simplemente estar solo y no necesariamente sentirse mal por ello.<\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, sentirse solo es un fuerte sentimiento de tristeza que viene acompa\u00f1ado de la sensaci\u00f3n de no tener compa\u00f1\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>You miss someone to share your life with and that\u2019s a perfectly normal experience.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, el problema es cuando te sientes tan abrumado por la soledad que dejas de ver las cosas objetivamente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you welcome someone toxic back into your life, you\u2019re welcoming back the things that made you feel lonely in the first place.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54522\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-with-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste con novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-with-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-with-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-with-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a vicious circle you can\u2019t escape and you need to remind yourself of the real cause of your current<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-tengo-con-quien-hablar\/\"> sentimiento de soledad<\/a>; it\u2019s the toxic person in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Una pareja t\u00f3xica puede hacernos sentir emocionalmente abandonados.<\/p>\n<p>What that means is we\u2019re stripped of our main emotional needs\u2014for example:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ser escuchado y comprendido.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Intenta recordar todas las veces que te han hecho luz de gas, te han ridiculizado o simplemente te han ignorado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ser apreciado y valorado.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54523\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-hugging-on-beach.jpg\" alt=\"pareja feliz abraz\u00e1ndose en la playa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-hugging-on-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-hugging-on-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-hugging-on-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A healthy partner will always make sure to make you feel worthy and good enough not to question your worth over things that don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sentir afecto y cari\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Demostrar amor abierta y f\u00edsicamente de forma suave es una de las mejores formas de tranquilizar a su pareja y no es ning\u00fan tipo de obligaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You feel abandoned because of someone\u2019s unresolved resentment, emotional abuse or self-centeredness; everything your toxic ex was guilty of.<\/p>\n<p>Abuse can make you feel like no one can really understand you, so you don\u2019t even try talking and you keep isolating yourself until you\u2019re left with the feeling of loneliness.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En lugar de traerlo de vuelta a tu vida, puedes darle la vuelta a las cosas y empezar a aceptar tu soledad como una se\u00f1al de que necesitas una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s fuerte con <em>usted mismo<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54524\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-in-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria sentada al atardecer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-in-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-in-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-in-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a sign that you need to fall in love with yourself first. You need to take time and build confidence and never doubt yourself again.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re not doubting yourself, it\u2019s easy to make the right decisions. It\u2019s easy to cut toxic people out of your life.<\/p>\n<p>You need to give yourself time to fully acknowledge your self-worth and that&#8217;s when you\u2019ll stop being scared.<\/p>\n<p>Sentirse solo puede provocar a menudo una sensaci\u00f3n de p\u00e1nico en las personas porque toman conciencia de que son las \u00fanicas responsables de sus sentimientos y decisiones.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let that happen to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54525\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-on-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-on-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-young-woman-on-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cada d\u00eda puedes tomar una peque\u00f1a decisi\u00f3n que te acerque a la felicidad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Take your loneliness as a time to indulge in the things you truly enjoy, things that don\u2019t have to necessarily be useful, just fun.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tr\u00e1tate como a tu mejor amigo. Decide volver a enamorarte de la vida y empezar\u00e1s a enamorarte de ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, the loneliness will start to cease and what\u2019s interesting is that this is usually the point in life when a healthy relationship appears.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A healthy relationship comes along when we\u2019re at peace with ourself and that\u2019s when your personality fully shines and that\u2019s exactly what brings the right person along.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54527\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-laughing-and-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"pareja feliz riendo y abraz\u00e1ndose\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-laughing-and-hugging.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-laughing-and-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-laughing-and-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hasta que eso ocurra, qu\u00e9date soltera y date una oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p>Date la oportunidad de descubrir todas las cosas que adorar\u00e1 tu pareja perfecta.<\/p>\n<p>Date la oportunidad de experimentar tu vida bas\u00e1ndote en tus reglas y mira a ver qu\u00e9 pasa.<\/p>\n<p>Once we start living how we\u2019re supposed to live, feeling comfortable in our own company, things of the past become just distant memories and our pain dissolves in the happy delight of self-love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54531\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Dont-Welcome-Someone-Toxic-Back-Into-Your-Life-Just-Because-You-Feel-Lonely-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No vuelvas a dar la bienvenida a alguien t\u00f3xico en tu vida s\u00f3lo porque te sientas solo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Dont-Welcome-Someone-Toxic-Back-Into-Your-Life-Just-Because-You-Feel-Lonely-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Dont-Welcome-Someone-Toxic-Back-Into-Your-Life-Just-Because-You-Feel-Lonely-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Dont-Welcome-Someone-Toxic-Back-Into-Your-Life-Just-Because-You-Feel-Lonely-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Dont-Welcome-Someone-Toxic-Back-Into-Your-Life-Just-Because-You-Feel-Lonely-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How many times did you ignore that gut feeling telling you that you shouldn\u2019t do something, only to do it anyway? Something like answering back when he texts you or calls you out of the blue? Did you ever ask yourself why? After everything that happened, you keep giving him second chances. Don\u2019t get comfortable&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":54530,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54520","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Dont-Welcome-Someone-Toxic-Back-Into-Your-Life-Just-Because-You-Feel-Lonely.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54520"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54520\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54520"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}