{"id":54635,"date":"2020-03-12T15:53:20","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T15:53:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54635"},"modified":"2022-01-10T20:59:15","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:59:15","slug":"diferencias-entre-carinoso-y-pegajoso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/diferencias-entre-carinoso-y-pegajoso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 diferencias cruciales entre el comportamiento cari\u00f1oso y el pegajoso"},"content":{"rendered":"

En el citas modernas<\/span><\/a> En todo el mundo, uno de los peores comportamientos que se pueden mostrar en una relaci\u00f3n sentimental es ser pegajoso.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo que quieres es que tu pareja te perciba como una persona demasiado necesitada y desesperadamente enamorada de ella.<\/p>\n

Aunque \u00e9stas no son cualidades deseables para una novia, lo cierto es que hoy en d\u00eda muchas personas confunden el cari\u00f1o con un comportamiento pegajoso.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay algunas diferencias cruciales entre ambos, y he aqu\u00ed cinco de ellas.<\/p>\n

1. Demasiado apego inmediato frente a dejar que las cosas sigan su curso<\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

La primera diferencia entre ser demasiado pegajosa y cuidar a tu hombre radica en la cantidad de tu apego emocional<\/span><\/a> hacia \u00e9l y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, en el tiempo que tardas en encari\u00f1arte con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Even though you believe in romantic things such as love at first sight, it doesn\u2019t mean that it is okay to obsess over this guy from day one.<\/p>\n

And this is exactly a basic characteristic of a needy and clingy girlfriend\u2014she starts acting like she and her new boyfriend are in a long-term, committed relationship from the very beginning, which scares most men away.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not just that these girls want to make things official right away, they insist on seeing their boyfriend every day, on meeting one another\u2019s families and becoming a part of his life from the very start.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014these girls tend to plan too far ahead.<\/p>\n

They talk about marriage and their future together long before the guy they\u2019re dating even decides whether they\u2019re relationship material.<\/p>\n

\"familia<\/p>\n

You know who I\u2019m talking about\u2014the type of girls who have their kids\u2019 names all figured out after the first date. Scary, right?<\/p>\n

Well, clinginess is even more than this. You display clingy behavior if you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d too soon and if you behave like you can\u2019t imagine living without your boyfriend even though you two have just been dating a short while.<\/p>\n

To put things simply\u2014you can\u2019t act like his wife if you have been dating for a few weeks or even months.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, una novia cari\u00f1osa dejar\u00e1 que las cosas sigan su propio curso natural, por mucho que le guste un chico.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t push him into something he\u2019s not ready for just to heal your insecurities and you won\u2019t force him to take your relationship to a new level unless he wants to do so himself.<\/p>\n

Treating your boyfriend and your relationship like this doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t give a damn about him or it; it is actually a sign that you care for this guy enough to have enough respect for his boundaries.<\/p>\n

2. Tener tu propia vida frente a ser parte de la suya<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

When you are a part of a couple, it is natural for your and your boyfriend\u2019s lives to become intertwined to a certain extent.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should cease to exist as an individual person just because you\u2019re his girlfriend now.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s okay for you to completely disregard everyone and everything around you, including your career and daily habits, just to adjust to him and his needs.<\/p>\n

Este es precisamente uno de los ejemplos de comportamiento apegado<\/span><\/a>\u2014ditching your life and fully focusing on your boyfriend\u2019s.<\/p>\n

It is killing the person you were before you met your boyfriend; losing all of your friends and doing your best to become a part of his crowd, forgetting about all of your hobbies and interests and becoming a female clone of the man you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

No, he won\u2019t like you more if you start behaving like this. Instead, you\u2019ll annoy him and he\u2019ll start seeing you as a creep who is trying to take over his life and personality.<\/p>\n

La verdad podr\u00eda ser que las personas similares son las m\u00e1s compatibles.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean you should change the essence of who you are and pretend to be someone else just for this man to like you more.<\/p>\n

A pesar de la duraci\u00f3n y el nivel de compromiso de tu relaci\u00f3n, recuerda tener siempre una vida propia fuera de ella.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to blindly follow your boyfriend around because you\u2019re not his accessory, you\u2019re a human being on your own and you should never forget to act like one.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Your friends and family are all yours and you shouldn\u2019t even think about ditching them if, for example, your BF doesn\u2019t get along well with them.<\/p>\n

Keep your tastes in music, movies and other things and don\u2019t let this relationship change you all the way.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014keep your real self! Trust me\u2014every guy prefers being with a woman who stayed true to the person he fell in love with over a girl he can mold as he pleases.<\/p>\n

Besides, if you care for your boyfriend, you\u2019ll give him enough space to breathe. It doesn\u2019t mean that he doesn\u2019t love you enough just because he needs some time off or because he wants to hang out with his guy friends without you present.<\/p>\n

3. 3. Acosarle frente a vigilarle<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Aunque algunos no lo vean as\u00ed, hay una gran diferencia entre acosar a tu pareja rom\u00e1ntica y controlarla; una diferencia entre seguirla y cuidarla.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, muchas chicas confunden ambas cosas y a menudo ahuyentan a sus novios<\/span><\/a> respir\u00e1ndoles en la nuca todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantate por qu\u00e9 realmente llamas y env\u00edas mensajes de texto a este hombre la mayor parte del tiempo.<\/p>\n

Are you genuinely interested in whether he\u2019s tired and how he\u2019s been doing or are you using this as a pretext to check on who he is spending his time with?<\/p>\n

Do you care about whether he\u2019s eaten or slept well or do you just want to make sure he hasn\u2019t been hanging out with some girls after work?<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Are you concerned about your man\u2019s well-being or are you trying to keep up with his every move just to prevent him from walking too far away from you?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry\u2014no mature guy will accuse you of being too needy if you show true care for him.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t feel like you\u2019re suffocating him when you show that you worry about him and that you want him to be okay.<\/p>\n

However, if your intentions are different and if you couldn\u2019t care less about what\u2019s going on with him as long as he\u2019s not cheating, he\u2019ll see right through you and he will think of you as a possessive lunatic who is limiting his freedom.<\/p>\n

4. Amarle frente al miedo a perderle<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Otra diferencia crucial entre el comportamiento pegajoso y el cari\u00f1oso es la diferencia entre querer de verdad a tu pareja y tener miedo a perderla.<\/p>\n

At first glance, you might think these two concepts are the same thing but they\u2019re actually not.<\/p>\n

Yes, when you love someone with all of your heart and soul, it is completely natural that you don\u2019t want to live without them.<\/p>\n

However, when it comes to true love, the most important thing for you is this person\u2019s happiness.<\/p>\n

Therefore, when you deeply care for a guy, you just want him to be okay and satisfied with his life, even if that doesn\u2019t include you.<\/p>\n

Your emotions are completely selfless and you want what\u2019s best for this man, with or without you.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you\u2019re pegajoso<\/span><\/a>todos tus esfuerzos est\u00e1n dirigidos a mantenerlo cerca de ti.<\/p>\n

You are ready to do whatever it takes for him to never leave your side and you don\u2019t care whether that\u2019s what he truly wants.<\/p>\n

Tus inseguridades sacan lo mejor de ti y todo lo que haces por este chico es fruto de tus miedos.<\/p>\n

You hold on to him so tightly that you end up pushing him away from you, which is, ironically, what you\u2019ve been trying to avoid all along.<\/p>\n

5. Querer ser amable frente a ganar poder<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando te preocupas, s\u00f3lo quieres ser amable.<\/p>\n

Of course, you expect some kind of appreciation and respect for all of your sacrifices and you feel offended if the other party doesn\u2019t match your efforts but that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\n

However, clingy people don\u2019t do anything from the bottom of their hearts. Instead, they demand gratitude and do their partner favors just to gain power over them.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re clingy<\/a>, you\u2019ll always look for ways to help out your boyfriend, just so you could be superior over him.<\/p>\n

In this scenario, he is the one who needs to constantly thank you and the one who needs to pay you back for everything you\u2019ve given him.<\/p>\n

And to be honest, that is exactly what you wanted to achieve all along. You wanted a chance to rub your kindness in his face every time he doesn\u2019t behave the way you want him to.<\/p>\n

Moreover, you\u2019re using all of these favors as a form of chantaje emocional<\/span><\/a>. You play on this guy\u2019s conscience and you know that he won\u2019t leave you, due to everything you do for him.<\/p>\n

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