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<\/p>\nA veces, las cosas malas que nos pasan nos cambian la vida para siempre y eso est\u00e1 bien porque aprendemos a vivirlas y a convertirlas en fortaleza.<\/p>\n
Still, from time to time, it\u2019s hard to be comfortable doing things like you did before, especially when it comes to close relationships\u2014especially with your significant other.<\/p>\n
You can feel out of place and insecure because you\u2019re left with triggers you didn\u2019t have before your trauma.<\/p>\n
You can feel like you\u2019re putting on a mask so you can feel protected.<\/p>\n
Podr\u00edas ser demasiado desconfiado o temeroso o carecer de confianza o incluso de motivaci\u00f3n para hacer las cosas que hac\u00edas antes.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m here to tell you that\u2019s okay and you shouldn\u2019t worry and here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n
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Te mereces a alguien que te entienda a ti y a tus sentimientos por completo.<\/p>\n
You deserve someone who will treat you like he gives a damn, who won\u2019t make fake promises or pretend to care for you and send you mixed signals.<\/p>\n
You shouldn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re a burden.<\/p>\n
Somebody who truly loves you will never make you feel like you\u2019re difficult to deal with.<\/p>\n
Por el contrario, se mostrar\u00e1n comprensivos y encontrar\u00e1n tiempo para escuchar y esforzarse de verdad para que te sientas seguro y comprendido.<\/p>\n
Una persona que te quiere de verdad te aceptar\u00e1 tal y como eres en ese momento.<\/p>\n
Love shouldn\u2019t be restrictive or make ultimatums.<\/p>\n
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It shouldn\u2019t bring you to tears. Love should feel free and make you happy.<\/p>\n
If it doesn\u2019t make you happy, it\u2019s not love.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s something else you already learned about and don\u2019t want to recall.<\/p>\n
When you\u2019re with the right person, life becomes easier.<\/p>\n
Sigue teniendo sus altibajos, pero nunca te hace sentir miserable.<\/p>\n
Dejas de esconderte detr\u00e1s de m\u00e1scaras que tuviste que poner porque ten\u00edas miedo de que te volvieran a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n
Dejas de vivir como una v\u00edctima y empiezas a crear tu propia vida.<\/p>\n
Everything is easier when you have a person you can be yourself with\u2014completely and utterly yourself.<\/p>\n
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Con toda tu tonter\u00eda o ansiedad, tristeza o emoci\u00f3n, alegr\u00eda o seriedad.<\/p>\n
De hecho, una persona que realmente est\u00e1 hecha para ti puede ver a trav\u00e9s de tus m\u00e1scaras y tu dolor.<\/p>\n
They can recognize when you\u2019re putting up a front and when you’re being yourself.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t underestimate the powerful sight of love.<\/p>\n
Te tratar\u00e1 con respeto en los buenos y en los malos momentos.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t need to agree on everything but you have to respect each other and that includes times when you find it difficult to let go of certain things, like fears.<\/p>\n
La persona que te destine sabr\u00e1 c\u00f3mo hacer que vuelvas a sentirte c\u00f3modo y feliz.<\/p>\n
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Se sentir\u00e1 como en casa.<\/p>\n
Siempre te pondr\u00e1 en primer lugar y te proteger\u00e1.<\/p>\n
Expresar\u00e1 sus sentimientos libremente y sin vacilar.<\/p>\n
Sus intenciones contigo siempre ser\u00e1n claras y se asegurar\u00e1 de que sepas lo especial que eres, a pesar de tu lado dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n
You won\u2019t be stressed about his perception of you because deep down, you know he sees you for who you are.<\/p>\n
Tu verdadera persona no tendr\u00e1 miedo a los retos.<\/p>\n
Reconocer\u00e1 tu potencial y esperar\u00e1 a que te abras sin presionarte.<\/p>\n
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That\u2019s when you are going to know you\u2019re loved like you deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n
When you\u2019re loved like you deserve to be loved, you will throw away your masks and heal your wounds.<\/p>\n
Todo lo que una vez te hizo esconderte a ti mismo y a tus sentimientos se disolver\u00e1 en la dicha del amor verdadero.<\/p>\n
You will learn that love isn\u2019t about making constant sacrifices just to maintain the peace or crying through sleepless nights because he didn\u2019t call and then pretending the next day that it\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n
El amor consiste en comprometerse a vivir la vida juntos y el uno para el otro.<\/p>\n
El amor consiste en ser lo mejor que uno puede ser y que la persona a la que amas anhele tu felicidad.<\/p>\n
Love is about feeling safe in his arms and falling asleep peacefully, knowing you\u2019re exactly where you need to be, the way that you are.<\/p>\n
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