{"id":54905,"date":"2020-03-15T09:01:39","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T09:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54905"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","slug":"algo-que-es-para-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/algo-que-es-para-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"No puedes estropear algo que est\u00e1 hecho para ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfAlguna vez piensas en tus relaciones pasadas y sientes que has desperdiciado tu preciosa vida con alguien que no la merec\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>Quiz\u00e1 pensar que estabas haciendo algo mal es lo que te impide tener lo que quieres ahora.<\/p>\n<p>If that one man didn\u2019t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you did something wrong, but perhaps that he simply wasn\u2019t someone you needed.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it means there&#8217;s a greater plan ahead.<\/p>\n<h2>If he criticizes you often, he\u2019s not the one<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54906\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre critica a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a man keeps telling you you\u2019re not doing something right or keeps downplaying your emotions, I\u2019m sorry, but that means he isn\u2019t the one.<\/p>\n<p>What he\u2019s doing is <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-senales-alarmantes-de-que-eres-victima-de-maltrato-emocional\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuso emocional<\/span><\/a>. Nadie merece ser tratado as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important you recognize the signs on time. Emotional abuse is a real thing that happens to many women who don\u2019t even realize it.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need your partner to put so much unneeded pressure on you.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que necesitas es un apoyo infinito. Un lugar seguro al que volver.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien que siempre te cubra las espaldas, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas que sea tu mayor apoyo. Cualquier cosa menos que eso es inaceptable.<\/p>\n<h2>He must accept you as you are \u2013 no more, no less<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54907\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la arena junto al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If the love is real, you can\u2019t really mess up. So-called mess ups are just an opportunity for more understanding and strengthening your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>And if your partner\u2019s the right one, he will know that better than anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Understanding your partner\u2019s flaws is the best way to show them you accept them fully.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo cuando sepas que te acepta como un todo podr\u00e1s sentirte segura y empezar a construir una vida con \u00e9l sin miedo a fracasar de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>If he constantly makes you feel like you need to be somehow better, he\u2019s got a problem, and that problem isn\u2019t you.<\/p>\n<h2>Tome el fracaso como un consuelo, no como una tragedia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54908\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz montando en bicicleta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead of believing your fears and thinking you\u2019re doing something wrong, try seeing failures as a sign telling you something\u2019s not good for you.<\/p>\n<p>O incluso mejor:<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A sign telling you there is something else waiting for you and when the time comes, you\u2019re going to know that\u2019s it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Every cloud has a silver lining. Nothing is lost. You\u2019re not there yet.<\/p>\n<p>But you\u2019re not late. There\u2019s time.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no plan you should follow. Nobody can control life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to have your own life\u2019s rhythm. And dance how you want to.<\/p>\n<h2>Crea en su intuici\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54909\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"bonita mujer en la puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is the thing most people seem to forget about or simply dismiss because they think somebody else knows better what&#8217;s good for them.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t make sense. How can someone else know what you\u2019ve been through and what you\u2019ve been feeling better than you?<\/p>\n<p>No one else can know it more intensely than yourself! That\u2019s the truth of life.<\/p>\n<p>The sooner you realize it, the sooner your life starts to change. Rapidly. You\u2019ll start trusting yourself more and more.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>S\u00f3lo tienes que tener fe en ti mismo y el resto vendr\u00e1 solo.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/10-razones-para-poner-siempre-lo-primero\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deja de anteponer todo lo dem\u00e1s a ti.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you needed a sign to tell you it\u2019s time to take your life into your own hands and start trusting your inner voice, this is it.<\/p>\n<p>Te animo a que cortes con todas tus dudas y des con valent\u00eda el primer paso hacia tu nueva vida.<\/p>\n<p>A new life where you\u2019re always sure your decisions are what leads you right there where you need to be.<\/p>\n<p>And remember:&nbsp; You can\u2019t mess up something that\u2019s meant for you. So, keep your head up and start being brave again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54911\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No puedes estropear algo que est\u00e1 hecho para ti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever think about your past relationships and feel like you\u2019ve been wasting your precious life on someone who didn\u2019t deserve it? Maybe thinking you were doing something wrong is what keeps you from having what you want now. If that one man didn\u2019t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":54910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54905\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}