{"id":54961,"date":"2020-03-16T08:02:48","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T08:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54961"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:01:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:01:24","slug":"de-amigos-a-amantes-11-pasos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/de-amigos-a-amantes-11-pasos\/","title":{"rendered":"De amigos a amantes: 11 pasos para pasar al siguiente nivel"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas m\u00e1s hermosas son las que han pasado de amigos a amantes.<\/p>\n

En tu mejor amigo tienes esa roca y ese v\u00ednculo que no se parece a ning\u00fan otro. Los buenos amigos de verdad se entienden a niveles incomprensibles para los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Through your make-ups and breakups, you’ve truly gone through thick and thin together and you cannot imagine your life without your bestie.<\/p>\n

When you’re just friends with someone you feel a deeply close bond with, deep down, you always know that hay m\u00e1s niveles en tu amistad<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s daunting at first to believe that your best friend could be your true love but in reality, it happens quite often.<\/p>\n

\"j\u00f3venes<\/p>\n

La friendzone es el lugar donde muchas futuras almas gemelas se han encontrado por fin despu\u00e9s de haber estado demasiado tiempo.<\/p>\n

La gente tiende a asustarse de los sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos que les invaden porque se trata de su mejor amiga, su persona, su compa\u00f1era de fechor\u00edas.<\/p>\n

You feel so close to them…  How can you risk ever losing that? You just couldn’t live with yourself.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo imaginar que el primer beso con tu mejor amigo del instituto te da escalofr\u00edos pero, al mismo tiempo, te llena la mente de cosas malas que podr\u00edan acabar ocurriendo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSu historia de amor es realmente con su mejor amigo?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPod\u00e9is pasar de amigos a amantes sin comprometer la profundidad de vuestra conexi\u00f3n y perder lo que ten\u00e9is?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfConducir\u00e1 a una ruptura tras enamorarse por fin y permitirse experimentar esto por primera vez?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Todas estas son preguntas v\u00e1lidas que todos los amigos plat\u00f3nicos se har\u00e1n si intuyen que puede haber algo m\u00e1s en su amistad.<\/p>\n

Puede que al principio te sientas un poco inc\u00f3modo porque tu relaci\u00f3n se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en algo tan diferente que simplemente tienes que dejar que ocurra para ver ad\u00f3nde va.<\/p>\n

Pero de lo que estoy seguro es de que esto podr\u00eda acabar cambiando todo tu mundo a mejor.<\/p>\n

Pasar de amigos a amantes es lo m\u00e1s natural que les puede ocurrir a dos personas que est\u00e1n destinadas a estar juntas.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo saber si le gustas a un chico: \u00a112 se\u00f1ales de que le gustas!<\/a><\/p>\n

Transition From Friends To Lovers – The Signs<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s sorprendente es que puede que tengas una relaci\u00f3n sin saberlo.<\/p>\n

How crazy is that? It often happens that two best friends (or really good friends) are so close and in sync that they actually act like lovers but aren’t aware of it until someone else points it out.<\/p>\n

In my life, I’ve been lucky to experience this amazingly deep transition and I wouldn’t change it for the world.<\/p>\n

When you’ve been close to someone for so long, you are able to understand their body language better than anyone else.<\/p>\n

Conoces sus programas de televisi\u00f3n favoritos, sus equipos deportivos y sus mayores man\u00edas.<\/p>\n

You know exactly what they’re going to say at certain times and you know what they’re thinking just by looking them in the eye.<\/p>\n

You’re already so much more than just friends, you just don’t know it.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You know the movie When Harry met Sally and the scene where Billy Crystal\u2019s character explains about sex always getting in the way of male-female friendships? That’s basically you two.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Only with you, there’s also a deep emotional and intellectual connection on top of the crazy sexual attraction that is almost palpable at this point.<\/p>\n

If you’re still not sure that you’re transitioning from friends to lovers and you want me to play matchmaker, I’d be more than happy to!<\/p>\n

Stop everything that you’re doing and start reading the following signs.<\/p>\n

Once you start checking them all off, you’ll see that your BFF might just be your one true love.<\/p>\n

Congrats! Now let’s make sure these romantic feelings are truly there…<\/p>\n

1. Coqueteo interminable<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Uno de los signos sutiles de la transici\u00f3n de amigos a amantes es el flirteo amistoso constante.<\/p>\n

It may be perceived as totally innocent and devoid of any romantic feelings because you’re just friends, right?<\/p>\n

Pero los amigos que bromean con frecuencia y coquetean en muchas ocasiones van camino de enamorarse.<\/p>\n

Puede que ahora no lo veas as\u00ed, pero echa la vista atr\u00e1s. \u00bfHas estado ligando descaradamente con todos tus buenos amigos o s\u00f3lo con ese en particular?<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

And there’s your answer. Flirting among friends is a common indication that there’s something much deeper there.<\/p>\n

If flirting makes you feel giddy and hopeful and gives you all of the feels, you already know where it’s headed.<\/p>\n

Esta es una se\u00f1al muy clara, s\u00f3lo tienes que abrir los ojos y estar dispuesto a verla y abrazarla.<\/p>\n

If it’s meant to be, let your friendship develop to the next level!<\/p>\n

2. Ojos s\u00f3lo para el otro<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ha pasado alguna vez que estabas en un grupo con tu mejor amiga y hab\u00eda mucha m\u00e1s gente, pero t\u00fa y tu mejor amiga s\u00f3lo ten\u00edais ojos la una para la otra?<\/p>\n

That’s what experts would call a dead giveaway of a clear friends-to-lovers transition.<\/p>\n

Group conversations normally include all of the people who are present but with you two, you just can’t stop talking to each other, which makes your group conversations a tad awkward and you’re totally oblivious to it.<\/p>\n

I bet everybody can see what’s going on except you two.<\/p>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Tus amigos y las personas cercanas suelen notar los signos de esta transici\u00f3n mucho m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo se necesita un tiempo para asumir ese riesgo, ser honestos con uno mismo y apostar fuerte.<\/p>\n

Los buenos amigos son dif\u00edciles de encontrar y, aunque vuestro profundo v\u00ednculo es m\u00e1s que evidente, \u00bfest\u00e1is preparados para arriesgaros y lanzaros de cabeza a una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica?<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo lo sabr\u00e1s si decides intentarlo y dejarte llevar.<\/p>\n

3. You’re willing to take the risk<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You’re aware that, sure, things might be a little weird and uncomfortable in your friend circle but you’re more than willing to take the risk.<\/p>\n

You haven’t had a full-blown conversation about it yet but you know that both of you are one hundred percent in.<\/p>\n

Things will settle down and your friends will get used to the idea of seeing you two kissing and when that all becomes the norm, you won’t be able to believe that you were once just friends.<\/p>\n

\u200bThe risk is more than worth every obstacle and any awkwardness if it means being truly happy with each other.<\/p>\n

Hace falta valor para pasar de amigos a amantes porque, aunque puede ser muy gratificante, tambi\u00e9n puede conducir a un intento fallido y a una amistad rota.<\/p>\n

But you two know your feelings better than anyone and you’re here to stay.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Amigos falsos frente a amigos de verdad: 12 maneras de detectar a los falsos<\/a><\/p>\n

4. You’re always texting and talking<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Una cantidad normal de interacciones diarias ha dejado de ser suficiente. Nunca te cansas de ellas.<\/p>\n

Siempre quieres escuchar su opini\u00f3n y sus ideas sobre todo.<\/p>\n

En cuanto vuelves a casa, te entran ganas de mandarles un mensaje, aunque no tengas mucho que decirles.<\/p>\n

There’s a palpable need for always being in communication with them.<\/p>\n

A menudo hablas a trav\u00e9s de muchas plataformas de medios sociales diferentes al mismo tiempo y mantienes tres conversaciones distintas.<\/p>\n

\"relaxin<\/p>\n

Your connection runs so much deeper than with the rest of your friends and for the first time ever, you feel like this person truly gets you and what you’re all about.<\/p>\n

That’s why talking to them is such a breeze!<\/p>\n

\u00bfPodr\u00eda ser tu \"felices para siempre\"? \u00bfEst\u00e1s preparada para decir las palabras en voz alta y ver qu\u00e9 pasa?<\/p>\n

La transici\u00f3n de amigos a amantes es algo natural que los que est\u00e1n hechos el uno para el otro siempre sabr\u00e1n apreciar.<\/p>\n

5. Ten\u00e9is apodos bonitos el uno para el otro<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, muchos amigos se ponen apodos, pero no as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Las vuestras son bonitas e \u00edntimas, y probablemente tienen su origen en una situaci\u00f3n personal que s\u00f3lo vosotros dos conoc\u00e9is.<\/p>\n

Punto extra si os llam\u00e1is nena o beb\u00e9. \u00a1Pillados!<\/p>\n

Sabes que los amigos que se llaman cari\u00f1osamente con apodos cari\u00f1osos van camino de convertirse en algo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Los apodos que pongo a mis amigos son graciosos y, m\u00e1s com\u00fanmente, \u00a1vergonzosos!<\/p>\n

Pero llamar amigos \u00edntimos a algo que uno llamar\u00eda su pareja rom\u00e1ntica es un claro indicio de llevar su amistad al siguiente nivel.<\/p>\n

It usually feels very natural, intimate and beyond comfortable; almost as if you’re already taken that next step without ever actually uttering the words.<\/p>\n

6. Signos del lenguaje corporal<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Body language speaks when words fail and if you pay close attention to your friend’s body language (as well as your own), you’ll notice what’s already there.<\/p>\n

Los amigos que son en realidad mucho m\u00e1s tienden a mostrar sus sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos con sus cuerpos.<\/p>\n

For example, when you’re in a group setting, you two are much more likely to be facing each other as opposed to someone else from your group.<\/p>\n

De vez en cuando (o con frecuencia) se inclinan y mantienen un fuerte contacto visual, para que el otro se sienta visto, escuchado y comprendido.<\/p>\n

Your hands are always reaching out to them and vice versa and you’re much more physical with them than with any other group member.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Estos son algunos de los signos m\u00e1s sigilosos de la transici\u00f3n de amigos a amantes.<\/p>\n

Your body will show the real situation even if you still haven’t embraced it fully.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: La lista definitiva de objetivos de pareja para las relaciones m\u00e1s felices<\/a><\/p>\n

7. Sus necesidades son lo m\u00e1s importante<\/h2>\n

\"sonriente<\/p>\n

There are those people who you’ll always make time for but you know those people who you never need to check your calendar for?<\/p>\n

Those are the most special people in one’s life and this is a valid example of just that.<\/p>\n

Esta persona es alguien para quien siempre tienes tiempo.<\/p>\n

You’ll move your schedule, finish work later or meet at a time that isn\u2019t ideally convenient for you.<\/p>\n

If it’s them, you’re simply there! When they need you, there’s no looking at your schedule and trying to fit them in. They are a priority.<\/p>\n

And that’s the most indicative sign of changing from friends to lovers.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When you have that one person whose needs trump everyone else’s, there’s nothing to think about.<\/p>\n

Su papel en tu vida es de vital importancia y nada puede cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

If this is the situation you’re in, then your friendship is truly ready to take that next natural step.<\/p>\n

The thing is, you’re already a couple, you just don’t know it yet. And that is the most amazing thing of all.<\/p>\n

Once you finally become aware of the actual nature of your relationship, you will be surprised you hadn’t realized it sooner.<\/p>\n

8. Verlos con otros provoca celos<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Esta es LA se\u00f1al.<\/p>\n

There’s nothing subtle about it and if you can honestly say that seeing your best friend with someone else (in a romantic manner) sparks any jealous outbursts in you, then you know you’re already transitioning from friends to lovers.<\/p>\n

Incluso si una vez estuvieron en tu zona de amigos, ahora sabes que son mejores. Mucho mejor.<\/p>\n

En cuanto ves la posibilidad de que tenga una relaci\u00f3n sentimental con otra persona, te entran ganas de cortarla de ra\u00edz.<\/p>\n

There’s nothing wrong with that. All it means is that you two finally need to have the talk!<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You need to realize what’s becoming of your friendship and be delicate and careful about it.<\/p>\n

Probablemente se trate de uno de los mayores cambios de su vida, por lo que, naturalmente, debe ser muy consciente de su enfoque.<\/p>\n

Hablen entre ustedes. Dejad que afloren vuestros sentimientos enterrados.<\/p>\n

Vuestro v\u00ednculo ya es tan fuerte, \u00bfte imaginas lo irrompible que se volver\u00e1 cuando te des cuenta de su verdadera naturaleza?<\/p>\n

9. Te gustan<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Okay, so this one is on the kinky side but it’s still totally valid. Have you ever daydreamed about sleeping with your best friend?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHas pensado alguna vez en lo incre\u00edble que ser\u00eda estar en un lugar \u00edntimo con ellos y simplemente estar juntos, sin nadie m\u00e1s que vosotros dos?<\/p>\n

If you have, I think it’s time to come clean about how you truly feel. You don’t just have the hots for every person you encounter.<\/p>\n

If your bestie makes your imagination run wild (but you never acted inappropriately on it) it means you’re on the verge of finally coming clean about your feelings.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9n sabe, a lo mejor tu amigo est\u00e1 pensando exactamente lo mismo de ti.<\/p>\n

Piensa en todo lo que implicar\u00eda esta relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica y preg\u00fantate si es con \u00e9l con quien quieres hacerlo.<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, then go for it.  Tell them how you feel. You’re very likely to go from friends to lovers but one of you has to take the first step.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Lo Que Me Gusta De Ti: Una lista de 100 razones por las que te quiero<\/a><\/p>\n

10. You talk about them 24\/7 (even when they’re not around)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te encanta c\u00f3mo suena su nombre.<\/p>\n

Even when they’re not around, you’re always finding new ways to incorporate them into every conversation just so you can keep them with you in spirit.<\/p>\n

Trust me, this is such a clear sign, even if you don’t want to admit it. Chances are, the situation is the same on their part.<\/p>\n

You’ve caught the lovebug and you just don’t know it but you will soon enough. Good friends will surely point it out sooner or later; they always do.<\/p>\n

\"chicas<\/p>\n

It’s fun watching two people being so obsessed with each other (in a good way) without being aware of what it means.<\/p>\n

Pero tus amigos lo entienden, cr\u00e9eme.<\/p>\n

Everyone close to you sees that you\u2019re evolving from friends to lovers and when they have their fun with it, they’ll let you know.<\/p>\n

Until that happens, they’ll just smile and nod as you go on and on about this person without knowing the depth of what it all really means.<\/p>\n

11. Los amigos se burlan de ti<\/h2>\n

\"amigas<\/p>\n

Friends becoming romantically involved is one of the cutest things ever (don’t fight it).<\/p>\n

Y lo sepas o no, los primeros en darse cuenta de tu transici\u00f3n de amigos a amantes no son otros que tus amigos m\u00e1s \u00edntimos.<\/p>\n

Te enviar\u00e1n tan duro.<\/p>\n

They will make it a point to tease you about each other every chance they get but not in an annoying, overbearing way, more in a cute, adorable way that you’re totally on board with but have to pretend to be reluctant about because you don’t know if the other person shares the feelings.<\/p>\n

But the incessant teasing will be such a clear reminder of what’s really going on and at that point, it’s just a matter of time before you two realize that you are transitioning from friends to lovers.<\/p>\n

Promise me this: Next time you’re with your friend, pay attention to these signs.<\/p>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Si puede tachar la mayor\u00eda de estos puntos de la lista, ya sabe lo que tiene que hacer.<\/p>\n

Clearly, your friend means much more to you than you’re ready to admit so take your time figuring things out, though.<\/p>\n

But always remember, the transition from friends to lovers is one of the most meaningful things that can happen to you. The person you used to keep in the friend zone could end up becoming your one true love. Isn’t it amazing how life works sometimes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Taking The Risk… Is It Worth It?<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

A million times yes. What you don’t realize is that by transitioning from friends to lovers, you’re losing virtually nothing and gaining everything!<\/p>\n

This person is already your best friend, your rock, your partner in crime. And now they get the most coveted title of all\u2014your lover.<\/p>\n

Y al dejarte guiar por tus sentimientos y no dudar en dejarte sentir, haces sitio en tu coraz\u00f3n para un nivel adicional de cercan\u00eda que ya ha estado ah\u00ed durante demasiado tiempo, s\u00f3lo que lo has reprimido por miedo.<\/p>\n

But there is nothing to fear. You cannot lose this person if they’re your true love.<\/p>\n

Ser amigos primero significa que ya te conocen mejor que nadie.<\/p>\n

Saben que masticar ruidosamente te molesta y que ver a un lindo perrito por la calle te toca la fibra sensible.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Saben que te gusta el rock de la vieja escuela y que no soportas el sonido del jazz.<\/p>\n

They know your every thought before it has even formed and they’ll always get what you mean, even when everyone else fails to.<\/p>\n

They’re your person. They’re the missing puzzle piece.<\/p>\n

El paso de amigos a amantes es una de las cosas m\u00e1s org\u00e1nicas que les pueden ocurrir a dos personas destinadas a entrelazar sus vidas para siempre. Arri\u00e9sgate, habla y disfruta de tu \"felices para siempre\". A veces es as\u00ed de sencillo.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfEs mi novio? 15 se\u00f1ales leg\u00edtimas de que por fin sois novios<\/a><\/p>\n

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