{"id":55007,"date":"2020-03-16T11:33:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T11:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55007"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:59:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:59:48","slug":"estoy-mejor-sin-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estoy-mejor-sin-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tengo que apagar mi luz por ti, estoy mejor sin ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfHas sentido alguna vez que necesitas <em>baje el tono<\/em> to make sure your partner doesn\u2019t feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Vestir m\u00e1s <em>en consecuencia<\/em>\u00bfllevar menos maquillaje, no mencionar tus logros?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1\u00bfDiablos, ni siquiera mostrar lo feliz que eres?! Eso est\u00e1 muy mal.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 dice de ti y qu\u00e9 dice de \u00e9l?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55011 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en el salon y pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It certainly says you\u2019re holding back your true potential \u2013 and because of who?<\/p>\n<p>A man who\u2019s not ready to face his own BS. And that is the whole truth.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s sad, because there\u2019s a difference between being sympathetic and understanding someone is not feeling their best, and a man who is pulling you down because of his unresolved issues.<\/p>\n<p>So, I\u2019m here to tell you to<\/p>\n<h2>Si\u00e9ntete orgulloso de qui\u00e9n eres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55013 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia sonriente tumbada en un campo de cereales\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Never let anyone, let alone your significant other, decide how you\u2019re going to act, talk, dress, love, think.<\/p>\n<p>Deber\u00eda animarte a ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti misma y alentarte, no asfixiarte.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s 7.8 billion people on this planet and you happen to be one of them \u2013 completely unique, with your own set of skills, your own reasoning, aspirations, and all the little things that make you &#8211; you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tienes todo el derecho a ser t\u00fa misma en todo momento. Y \u00e9l deber\u00eda alegrarse de haberte encontrado entre todas las dem\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todo el mundo es diferente y todo el mundo es valioso. T\u00fa eres valioso. Y solo por eso deber\u00edas estar orgulloso.<\/p>\n<h2>T\u00fa eres la raz\u00f3n por la que \u00e9l debe mejorar su juego, no sentirse inseguro.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55014 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"joven sonriente con sombrero y gui\u00f1ando un ojo en la playa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why would a man feel&nbsp;threatened by you? Because he feels like he\u2019s not good enough on his own.<\/p>\n<p>He obviously doesn\u2019t appreciate himself in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s true that everyone has their insecurities, but the question is how willing is he to commute them into their strengths?<\/p>\n<p>Todo el mundo puede superarse si quiere, y para ello hace falta determinaci\u00f3n y valor. En lugar de sentirse paranoico podr\u00eda aprender de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Admitir el problema es el primer paso.<\/p>\n<h2>Te mereces estar con un hombre que te inspire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55015 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face.jpg\" alt=\"pareja romantica sentada en las escaleras cara a cara\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un hombre sano comprende sus propias capacidades y l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n<p>Y se siente bien con ellos porque sabe que cada uno tiene un prop\u00f3sito diferente en la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre inspirador en tu vida quiere verte feliz y con \u00e9xito, a la vez que se asegura de apoyarte a lo largo de tu trayectoria vital.<\/p>\n<p>He has his own ambitions and life goals that always include you. That&#8217;s the kind of man you want to spend your life with.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre comprensivo y cari\u00f1oso que te entienda y te ayude a crecer y a ser tu verdadero yo.<\/p>\n<h2>La confianza es silenciosa, las inseguridades son ruidosas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55017 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer descansando en su sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard this quote many times, but what does it really mean?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe has encontrado alguna vez con alguien que siempre tiene una historia mejor que contar? Si t\u00fa subiste la colina, ellos subieron la monta\u00f1a.<\/p>\n<p>Si conociste a Ariana, conocieron a Mariah. Y as\u00ed sucesivamente.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO alguien que constantemente tiene un comportamiento pasivo-agresivo contigo?<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a good chance those people and the people who are jealous of other people\u2019s achievements <em>son las mismas personas<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55021 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"joven feliz en los campos al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no need to boast if you\u2019re confident in what you know and do. Everything has its time and place.<\/p>\n<p>And there\u2019s no need to downplay other people\u2019s emotions and achievements.<\/p>\n<p>Eso incluye especialmente a tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo <em>debe<\/em> speak about the things you\u2019re proud of with confidence and he should make damn sure he\u2019s proud of you too.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t be afraid to say goodbye to a man who doesn\u2019t appreciate you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55016 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de negocios saliendo de casa y cerrando la puerta con llave\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s sad to think that anyone we feel close to, or even just an acquaintance, could feel threatened by us.<\/p>\n<p>And it hurts like hell when it\u2019s your partner.<\/p>\n<p>You can try to explain that you have no ill intentions, but sometimes that\u2019s just not enough. And when it\u2019s not enough \u2013 it\u2019s time to leave.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t put up with a man who&#8217;s not willing to work on himself because that means he will never change.<\/p>\n<p>La vida es demasiado corta para desperdiciarla jugando a ser peque\u00f1o cuando tienes tanto que dar.<\/p>\n<p>And if your light is bothering him \u2013 good. It\u2019s a reminder he has been in the dark for too long.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you can\u2019t tell the sun to stop shining.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY por qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda hacerlo si puede disfrutar de sus bendiciones?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55009 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Si tengo que apagar mi luz por ti, estoy mejor sin ti\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt like you need to tone yourself down to make sure your partner doesn\u2019t feel uncomfortable. Dress more accordingly, wear less makeup, not mention your accomplishments? Heck, not even show how happy you are?! That is seriously wrong. What does it say about you and what does it say about him? It&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":55008,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-I-Need-To-Dim-My-Light-Because-Of-You-I\u2019m-Better-Off-Without-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55007","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55007"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55007\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55008"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}