{"id":55128,"date":"2020-03-17T17:36:53","date_gmt":"2020-03-17T17:36:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55128"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:19:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:19:03","slug":"mejor-estar-soltero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mejor-estar-soltero\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser soltero siempre es mejor que luchar por una relaci\u00f3n equivocada"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTienes miedo de<\/strong> volver a empezar<\/b><\/a>?<\/strong> \u00bfCrees que es in\u00fatil buscar a otra persona, cuando todos los hombres que hay son como tu ex?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ha hecho emocionalmente dependiente de \u00e9l?<\/strong> Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can\u2019t survive without his presence in your life?<\/p>\n

O \u00bfes vuestra historia juntos?<\/strong> \u00bfSe siente triste por el tiempo y el esfuerzo que ha dedicado a esta historia?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSigues aferrado a esta farsa de relaci\u00f3n por los a\u00f1os que invertiste en ella?<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019ll see it as a waste of time the moment you admit that your romance has failed?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Is it because you can\u2019t stand losing? Do you consider the breakdown of your relationship to be a personal defeat?<\/p>\n

\u00bfO tiene miedo de lo que pueda decir la gente?<\/strong> Are you afraid that you\u2019ll be seen as an outcast just because you don\u2019t have your plus one?<\/p>\n

Are you still in this relationship because it\u2019s become your comfort zone? Because you\u2019re terrified to step out of it, even though you\u2019re anything but happy.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 le asusta tanto de vida de soltero<\/span><\/a>? Why exactly do you think that you can\u2019t make it without a man by your side?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see yourself as whole? Do you think you need an emotional partner to complete you and to give your life meaning?<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the answers to these questions aren\u2019t important. What matters is that either way, you\u2019re fighting a battle you know you\u2019ll lose.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to admit that it\u2019s time for you and this guy to part ways.<\/p>\n

One of these days, you\u2019ll have to accept that the relationship isn\u2019t right for you and that it\u2019s time to say your final goodbye.<\/p>\n

\u00bfA qu\u00e9 espera?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Perm\u00edteme decirte que no hay absolutamente nada malo en estar soltero. De hecho, puede ser el mejor periodo de tu vida si decides vivirlo como es debido.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you – getting used to a new scenario in your life won\u2019t be easy at first. There will be times when you\u2019ll feel alone, abandoned, and heartbroken.<\/p>\n

Times when you\u2019ll regret your choice and moments when you\u2019ll feel like giving everything you have just to become a part of a couple once more.<\/p>\n

However, these crises will pass. And once they do, you\u2019ll be more than happy for making the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando ocurra, you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re much<\/strong> mejor soltero<\/b><\/a> que estabas en la relaci\u00f3n equivocada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that you\u2019re way happier laying in a cold, empty bed than spending the entire night looking at your boyfriend\u2019s back and wondering where things went wrong.<\/p>\n

That it\u2019s much better spending a Valentine\u2019s Day alone<\/a> que quedarte dormida toda vestida, esperando que aparezca, como acordasteis.<\/p>\n

After the initial trauma fades away, you\u2019ll realize it\u2019s much better having your phone silent all the time than spending the entire day arguing over a text, or desperately waiting for a phone call that should but will not come.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That you\u2019re way happier without anyone waiting for you to come home than you were with a possessive jealous psycho who tried to follow your every move.<\/p>\n

Most importantly – you\u2019ll understand that fighting for your own future beats luchando por algo que est\u00e1 condenado al fracaso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Que es mucho mejor invertir tu tiempo y energ\u00eda en tu propia vida que malgastarlos en batallas in\u00fatiles.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las cosas ser\u00e1n dif\u00edciles al principio, pero con el tiempo te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que no tener amor es mejor que tener que mendigarlo, y estar solo es mejor que sentirse solo en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you least expect it, you\u2019ll realize that it\u2019s way better to give yourself a chance to be happy on your own than to settle for being unhappy with to the wrong person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Are you afraid to start over? Do you think that it is pointless to look for someone else, when all the men out there are just like your ex? Has he made you emotionally dependent on him? Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can\u2019t survive without his presence in your…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":55135,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55128"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55128\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55135"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}