{"id":55141,"date":"2020-03-17T22:38:15","date_gmt":"2020-03-17T22:38:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55141"},"modified":"2022-01-09T14:44:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T14:44:43","slug":"permanecer-soltero-hasta-que-este","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/permanecer-soltero-hasta-que-este\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9date soltero hasta que consigas estos 10 objetivos vitales"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es el momento perfecto para volver a salir con alguien? \u00bfQu\u00e9 cosas deber\u00edas conseguir antes de encontrar novio?<\/p>\n

These are the questions every woman asks herself at one point in her life, especially if she\u2019s been single for a long period of time.<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to give you all the answers you need.<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes 10 objetivos vitales cruciales que deber\u00edas esforzarte por cumplir antes de cambiar de situaci\u00f3n sentimental.<\/p>\n

1. Permanece soltero hasta que sepas lo que quieres<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Before entering a healthy relationship, first you have to know who and what you want. And I\u2019m not talking about romance here only.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important for you to realize the direction in which you want your life to be headed.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to necessarily achieve all of your life goals overnight but you should at least have a list of the things you would like to accomplish.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo vale para saber a qui\u00e9n quieres.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es el tipo de hombre que quieres a tu lado?<\/p>\n

\"estilosa<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de relaci\u00f3n aspiras a tener?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1les son sus mayores obst\u00e1culos y normas?<\/p>\n

Of course, I\u2019m not saying that you will ever find a man who will have everything from your list but it is important to know what you\u2019re looking for if you hope to ever find it.<\/p>\n

2. Permanece soltero hasta que llegues a ser t\u00fa mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Stay single until you know who you are and most importantly\u2014until you become okay with that.<\/p>\n

Build your own personality, stop comparing yourself to the rest of the world, be proud of your uniqueness and don\u2019t be a people pleaser who hides her real character to become more likable to others.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014you\u2019re not a child and the last thing you want is for your potential boyfriend to raise you and try to shape you the way he wants.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need any man changing the essence of who you are and turning you into a completely different person who fits his standards.<\/p>\n

Y eso es exactamente lo que ocurrir\u00e1 si entras en una relaci\u00f3n antes de convertirte plenamente en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what will happen if you don\u2019t finish your own blooming process and if you don\u2019t grow up completely.<\/p>\n

3. Qu\u00e9date soltero hasta que dejes atr\u00e1s el pasado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No tiene ning\u00fan sentido que te metas en un romance si a\u00fan tienes asuntos del pasado sin resolver.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n de rebote s\u00f3lo te har\u00e1 sentir peor.<\/p>\n

Therefore, I\u2019m begging you to qu\u00e9date soltero hasta que lo consigas todo<\/a> de tu carga emocional de la forma m\u00e1s sana posible.<\/p>\n

Yes, your past relationships are a part of you and they helped shape you into the woman you are today but that doesn\u2019t mean that you should enter a new romance carrying all of your traumas with you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Stay single if you still have feelings for your ex and if you\u2019re dealing with strong insecurities or fears.<\/p>\n

Stay single until you let go of the past and until you\u2019re truly ready to move on.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you are taking too long to recover and that you should have found someone new already.<\/p>\n

Remember that we all heal at a different pace so don\u2019t beat yourself up if you need some more time.<\/p>\n

4. Permanece soltero hasta que seas consciente de ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ser consciente de uno mismo significa ser capaz de verse de la forma m\u00e1s objetiva posible.<\/p>\n

Significa ser consciente de tus cualidades, defectos, deseos, esperanzas e imperfecciones.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 le gusta hacer? \u00bfC\u00f3mo te gusta pasar el tiempo?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene gustos definidos en m\u00fasica, cine, literatura y arte? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son sus preferencias en la vida?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQui\u00e9n es usted? Esta es la pregunta que deber\u00edas poder responder fuera de tu relaci\u00f3n, sin esperar a que un hombre te defina.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014it means knowing your self-value and not allowing anyone to question it.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Ser consciente de uno mismo tambi\u00e9n es importante cuando se trata de tu historial amoroso. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son tus rasgos t\u00f3xicos?<\/p>\n

What are the dating patterns you\u2019re not so proud of and you\u2019d like to change?<\/p>\n

What are the mistakes you keep on repeating but can\u2019t seem to get rid of? Stay single until you get answers to all of these questions.<\/p>\n

Haz un autoan\u00e1lisis y una autointrospecci\u00f3n y haz todo lo posible por observarte como un espectador realista.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014you\u2019ll learn a lot and you\u2019ll discover some parts of your character you didn\u2019t even know existed.<\/p>\n

5. Stay single until you\u2019re not afraid to be single<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you consider entering a new relationship just because you\u2019re tired of your single life\u2014don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

More importantly, don\u2019t do so if you\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll end up forever alone and that you\u2019ll never find your forever person.<\/p>\n

Please, stay single until being single doesn\u2019t feel so scary.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go around looking for a potential boyfriend just because all your friends found their special man.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it because you\u2019re ashamed of never having a plus-one or because you feel it\u2019s about time for you to find a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

\"relaxin<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for less and lower your standards just because you\u2019re afraid that your biological clock is ticking or because you\u2019ve become obsessed with the thought that you won\u2019t find a man to grow old next to.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, antes de meterte en una relaci\u00f3n, aprende a disfrutar al m\u00e1ximo de tu solter\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Aprovecha todas sus ventajas y disfruta de la solter\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Stay single until you stop searching for love and until you realize that it will come to you when you least expect it and when it\u2019s meant to be.<\/p>\n

6. Mantente soltero hasta que seas econ\u00f3micamente autosuficiente<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Una de las peores cosas que una mujer puede hacerse a s\u00ed misma es depender econ\u00f3micamente de su novio o marido.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that every guy out there will use this against you the first time you have an argument but that\u2019s a risk you shouldn\u2019t be taking.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a mature, healthy adult who is perfectly capable of earning her own money and you don\u2019t need anyone providing for you.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to be filthy rich before entering a relationship. However, it would be great if you are financially self-sufficient first.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, no importa cu\u00e1nto ames a un chico y lo fuerte que pueda parecer vuestro romance al principio, la cruda verdad es que nunca sabes cu\u00e1nto durar\u00e1 y ni siquiera puedes estar segura de si las cosas acabar\u00e1n mal en alg\u00fan momento en el futuro.<\/p>\n

So, it\u2019s best to avoid a situation in which you\u2019re remaining in a toxic relationship just because you\u2019re financially dependent on your partner and have nowhere to go.<\/p>\n

7. Permanece soltero hasta que empieces a buscar una pareja igualitaria<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re looking for a boyfriend, don\u2019t expect to find a parent you\u2019ve been missing your whole life, an older brother you never had, a life coach or a savior.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, empieza a buscar un compa\u00f1ero igualitario que vaya por la vida a tu lado, hombro con hombro junto a ti.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go searching for a purpose or for someone to magically resolve all of your problems.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a guardian angel, nor a man who will snap his fingers and heal your broken heart just by appearing in your life.<\/p>\n

8. Mantente soltero hasta que seas feliz por ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

The most crucial thing every girl in the world needs to remember is that a relationship can\u2019t make you happy.<\/p>\n

Yes, it can make you feel better, it can improve your life but if you\u2019re not in a good place with yourself, it won\u2019t make a huge difference.<\/p>\n

You see, if you\u2019re not happy single, you won\u2019t be happy taken. So, please stay single until you become happy on your own.<\/p>\n

Stay single until you realize that there won\u2019t come a man with a magic wand into your life who will wipe away all of your tears and erase all of your problems, traumas or issues.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Un hombre que acabe con todas tus inseguridades m\u00e1s arraigadas o que haga que te quieras m\u00e1s a ti misma.<\/p>\n

Yes, the right guy will help you with all of this. However, you\u2019re the only creator of your own happiness and the key is in your hands.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re in charge and you can\u2019t expect anyone else to take the wheel.<\/p>\n

9. Qu\u00e9date soltero hasta que empieces a quererte a ti primero<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There is one thing you need to remember above everything else\u2014the relationship you have with yourself is more important than any other, including romantic ones.<\/p>\n

You can be crazy over a man, you can care for him from the depths of your heart but you\u2019ll never have a happy love life until you learn the importance of putting and loving yourself first.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t get yourself involved in any relationship until you build a healthy relationship with your inner self.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Stay single until you realize that you\u2019re more than enough, until you build your self-confidence, until you become sure about yourself and your abilities and until you become selfish enough to prioritize your own needs in front of everyone else’s.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, ning\u00fan hombre te apreciar\u00e1, respetar\u00e1 o amar\u00e1 como te mereces hasta que t\u00fa misma lo hagas.<\/p>\n

You need to show him that you\u2019re very much aware of your own worth and that nothing he says or does can impact your self-image.<\/p>\n

10. Stay single until you\u2019re ready for a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por \u00faltimo, permanece soltero hasta que te sientas preparado para compartir tu vida con otra persona.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go around chasing a relationship if you feel pressured by the people in your surroundings, if you\u2019re doing it because you think it\u2019s how things should be or if you simply prefer to not be alone now.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t listen to anyone or anything besides your gut and trust me\u2014things will work themselves out.<\/p>\n

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