{"id":55229,"date":"2020-03-18T14:36:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T14:36:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55229"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:47:02","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:47:02","slug":"el-chico-adecuado-te-amara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-chico-adecuado-te-amara\/","title":{"rendered":"El chico adecuado amar\u00e1 todas las cosas de ti que el equivocado intent\u00f3 cambiar"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfRecuerdas que en tu anterior relaci\u00f3n sent\u00edas que nunca eras suficiente?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo sent\u00edas que nada de lo que hac\u00edas estaba bien y c\u00f3mo nunca encontrabas la forma de complacer a tu ex y hacerle feliz?<\/p>\n

How no matter how deeply you cared for him and how hard you tried to win over his heart, he couldn\u2019t love you the way you deserved?<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas c\u00f3mo nunca acept\u00f3 tu verdadero yo? \u00bfC\u00f3mo intent\u00f3 por todos los medios cambiar la esencia de tu personalidad?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo segu\u00eda se\u00f1alando tus defectos, rega\u00f1\u00e1ndote por las cosas que deber\u00edas hacer de otra manera?<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo trat\u00f3 de convencerte de que \u00e9l siempre sab\u00eda qu\u00e9 era lo mejor para ti?<\/p>\n

Remember how your ex spent your entire relationship trying to turn you into something you\u2019re not?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hizo todo lo posible por moldearte como \u00e9l quer\u00eda e intent\u00f3 encajarte en una especie de caja?<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas que a ese chico nunca le gust\u00f3 tu aspecto, tu forma de vestir, de hablar o de comportarte? \u00bfSiempre encontraba algo de lo que quejarse?<\/p>\n

Remember how he didn\u2019t like your friends, your taste in music, career choice? How he wasn\u2019t content with anything you did?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do you remember how this man kept on accusing you of being too loud, too emotional, too weak, too independent, too disobedient\u2026?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know how he ended up making you feel like you\u2019re no destinado a ser amado<\/span><\/a>?<\/p>\n

How he convinced you that it was you all along and that your relationship didn\u2019t work out because of your character faults?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes que te hizo pensar que todos los chicos que conozcas despu\u00e9s de \u00e9l ser\u00e1n iguales?<\/p>\n

How he convinced you that you are incapable of making a man happy and that you don\u2019t have the qualities of a  <\/span>buena novia<\/span><\/a>?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Of course, you didn\u2019t believe him at first. After all, before he came into your life, you were a girl who knew her value and who had loads of self-confidence.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, durante a\u00f1os, hizo todo lo posible por cambiar eso y por cambiarte a ti.<\/p>\n

Se esforz\u00f3 por matarte espiritualmente, por doblegarte, por cerrarte y por destruir tu esp\u00edritu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y lo peor es que casi lo consigue.<\/p>\n

Aunque no quieras admitirlo, este tipo consigui\u00f3 que te cuestionaras a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l provoc\u00f3 tus dudas y despert\u00f3 tus inseguridades.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t know is that he was doing all of it because deep down, he knew he was the one who wasn\u2019t enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He was aware that you\u2019re better, stronger, and more capable of him and the only way for him to stop feeling beneath you was to drag you down to his level.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9l era el que ten\u00eda problemas de confianza en s\u00ed mismo y por eso quer\u00eda destruir la tuya. \u00c9l era intimidado<\/span><\/a> por tu valor hasta el punto de tener que devaluarte.<\/p>\n

This guy couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you weren\u2019t too much\u2013he was just too weak to handle you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"triste<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t too loud-you just had an opinion of your own and he couldn\u2019t stand having a girlfriend with her own personal viewpoint.<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t too emocional<\/span><\/a>\u2013he was just a bastard who never treated you right and you had a completely natural reaction to his toxic behavior.<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t asking for the impossible\u2013he was the one who wasn\u2019t giving you enough.<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t a \u201clittle miss know it all\u201d, as he liked to call you-you were just more intelligent, ambitious, and educated than him.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

All of this time, this guy was threatened by you. He felt endangered by your greatness and the fact that he couldn\u2019t feel man enough next to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ese es su problema, no el tuyo. Y est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que claro que se equivoc\u00f3 contigo.<\/p>\n

Cuando llegue el hombre adecuado, le encantar\u00e1n todas las partes de ti que tu ex quer\u00eda cambiar tan desesperadamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este hombre estar\u00e1 m\u00e1s que feliz de tener a su lado a una mujer as\u00ed. Nunca intentar\u00e1 cerrarte el paso, ni le asustar\u00e1 tu fuerte personalidad.<\/p>\n

En lugar de menospreciarte, te empujar\u00e1 hacia delante con todas sus fuerzas. En lugar de frenarte, estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed para apoyar todas tus metas y sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

En lugar de sentirse amenazado por tu poder interior, se sentir\u00e1 orgulloso de \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se enamorar\u00e1 de tu tierno coraz\u00f3n y de tu feroz personalidad. Te amar\u00e1 con todo su ser, tal y como eres.<\/p>\n

This guy won\u2019t change any of you, even if he has the chance to. In fact, he will even love your imperfections as much as he loves your qualities.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, deje de conformarse con hombres que quieren cambiarte<\/a> because they don\u2019t have what it takes to handle you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop being with guys who don\u2019t have the capacity to keep up with you and who have to diminish your worth to confirm theirs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with guys who want to be above or below you,with those who act overly dominant, nor with the ones who want a mother instead of a girlfriend.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with someone who expects you to be submissive just because he is male, nor with an immature boy who needs your guidance through life.<\/p>\n

Instead, be patient enough to wait for a man who can be your equal partner and don\u2019t accept anything less.<\/p>\n

Even though you might think that this kind of man doesn\u2019t exist-trust me when I tell you: he will come along.<\/p>\n

Por \u00faltimo, recuerda: you\u2019re not wrong for being you. Your only sin is choosing men who are too weak to go shoulder to shoulder through life with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"El<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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