{"id":55359,"date":"2020-03-19T20:59:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T20:59:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55359"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:22:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:22:39","slug":"no-puedes-obligarte-a-dejar-de-preocuparte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-puedes-obligarte-a-dejar-de-preocuparte\/","title":{"rendered":"No puedes obligarte a dejar de preocuparte, pero puedes decirte a ti mismo que te mereces algo mejor."},"content":{"rendered":"

Dicen que las personas sabias conocen el secreto de una vida feliz: son capaces de controlar sus emociones.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t always blindly follow their heart\u2019s desires, nor do they listen to it when they know it\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n

According to this, you\u2019re anything but wise.<\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019re the world\u2019s biggest fool because you\u2019ve never managed to master the art of going against your feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, for as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve thought that love is the most important thing in the whole wide world.<\/p>\n

La consideras una fuerza todopoderosa que siempre est\u00e1 por encima de todo, incluso de tu raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"sonriente<\/p>\n

Para ti, el orgullo y el ego no existen cuando se trata del amor verdadero.<\/p>\n

Once you start caring for someone, you go all in, without considering the possible consequences of your actions and without wondering if you\u2019re doing the right thing.<\/p>\n

Cuando pones en una balanza el cerebro y el coraz\u00f3n, este \u00faltimo siempre gana, sin competencia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That is something you simply can\u2019t change about yourself, as much as you try.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And God knows you\u2019ve given your best.<\/p>\n

Tus emociones te han llevado directamente al infierno m\u00e1s de una vez y, b\u00e1sicamente, no te han tra\u00eddo nada bueno.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en primer lugar, te esforzaste en reprimirlos.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Intentaste ponerte en guardia, mantener a todo el mundo a una distancia prudencial y acallar todos tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

En realidad, estabas convencido de que la \u00fanica manera de protege tu coraz\u00f3n<\/a> from being broken again was to pretend that you don\u2019t have one.<\/p>\n

When that didn\u2019t work, you proceeded to accept your feelings, rationalize them and try to have the strength to overcome them.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you\u2019ve never succeeded.<\/p>\n

Yes, you play the role of this tough girl who can\u2019t be moved but the truth is quite different.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve never succeeded in emotionally walking away from someone you love, even if it was something you should have done.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve never managed to give your brain the chance to take over the steering wheel of your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m not here to tell you that this is something you must do, in order to be happy.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not here to force you into making any moves you\u2019re clearly not ready for.<\/p>\n

In fact, I\u2019m here to tell you I get you.<\/p>\n

I completely understand that you can\u2019t work against yourself, as much as you want to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019re a mujer fuerte<\/b><\/a> que puede vencer cualquier obst\u00e1culo que aparezca en su camino.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cuando intentas luchar con tu propio coraz\u00f3n, de alguna manera siempre acabas perdiendo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

So no, don\u2019t force yourself to stop caring because that is impossible and your efforts will be in vain.<\/p>\n

Work on kicking this man who doesn\u2019t deserve you out of your heart, but don\u2019t expect him to be wiped out of it overnight.<\/p>\n

You see, there is no way that you\u2019ll stop loving him the moment you order yourself to do so.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t forget all about him the moment you decide to close this chapter of your life.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should accept your fate.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should start thinking that you deserve this kind of treatment and that you should spend the rest of your life settling for less just because you\u2019re afraid to make some changes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Instead, tell yourself that you\u2019re entitled to much better.<\/p>\n

Be realistic about the situation you\u2019re in and face the truth: that you\u2019re currently too weak to deja de preocuparte<\/b><\/a> sobre este hombre, sino que as\u00ed no es como quieres que sea tu vida en el futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be honest enough to admit that he doesn\u2019t treat you right, that he doesn\u2019t give you what you need and ultimately, that he doesn\u2019t love you the way he should and the way you love him.<\/p>\n

Stop deceiving yourself by thinking that this is the furthest you can go and that he is the best man who\u2019ll ever lay his eyes on you.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Deja de aceptar esta relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica como una soluci\u00f3n permanente y consid\u00e9rala como algo temporal, que durar\u00e1 hasta que te hagas un poco m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly – stop devaluing yourself by thinking that you can\u2019t do any better.<\/p>\n

Because you can – and that better will come along when you least expect it.<\/p>\n

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They say that wise people know the secret to a happy life: they are able to control their emotions. They don\u2019t always blindly follow their heart\u2019s desires, nor do they listen to it when they know it\u2019s wrong. According to this, you\u2019re anything but wise. In fact, you\u2019re the world\u2019s biggest fool because you\u2019ve never…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":55446,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55359","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/you-cant-force-yourself-to-stop-caring-but-you-can-tell-yourself-that-you-deserve-better.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55359","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55359"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55359\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55446"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55359"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55359"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55359"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}