{"id":5554,"date":"2020-03-28T11:44:42","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T11:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5554"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:16:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:16:26","slug":"10-senales-de-persona-insoportable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-persona-insoportable\/","title":{"rendered":"Unfuckwithable: 10 se\u00f1ales de que posees el estado mental m\u00e1s deseable"},"content":{"rendered":"

Unfuckwithable <\/i> \u2013 adj. \u2013 when you are a person who is truly at peace with yourself, and nothing anyone says or does bothers you, no negativity or drama can touch you. <\/i><\/p>\n

When you first hear the definition of the word unfuckwithable , you get the impression that the person described somebody who generally doesn\u2019t give a damn about anything or anyone.<\/p>\n

Pero lo cierto es que el significado real de la palabra dista mucho de serlo.<\/p>\n

To be unfuckwithable means to be a person who knows what he or she wants\u2014going out there and making it happen for yourself.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It means to be a person who doesn\u2019t apologize for being unconventional, making mistakes, having to ask one more time or for going after what he or she wants in the first place .<\/p>\n

It means making opportunities for yourself without expecting them to fall from the sky. And in today\u2019s world, you really need to be this kind of person\u2014you really do.<\/p>\n

You need to be this kind of person because there will be days and weeks and months that are going to be ugly and in which life is going to burden you with so much weight that you just won\u2019t be able to carry it.<\/p>\n

Once that happens, you have to know that the secret fix isn\u2019t in saying a la mierda o <\/i> en perder la cabeza y mandar a todo el mundo al infierno.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

El secreto est\u00e1 en volverse intocable en el sentido de que puedes superar cualquier situaci\u00f3n; que siempre eres la persona m\u00e1s grande.<\/p>\n

El nivel de tu autoestima debe ser m\u00e1s alto que tus inseguridades cuando otras personas te dicen que no eres suficiente.<\/p>\n

Cuando t\u00fa mismo tienes la certeza de que eres suficiente, nadie puede meterse contigo; nadie puede detenerte ni desviarte de tu camino.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re not quite sure if you belong to this badass crew, here are 10 signs that you have an unfuckhwithable state of mind:<\/p>\n

Sabes lo que vales<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Opinions other people have about you or your life choices are basically irrelevant. You don’t live to please others, at least not anymore.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t live to fit their rules, and they might not like you because of it. The great thing about it is that you couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

Tienen poca o ninguna influencia en lo que ocurre en tu vida, y les molesta. Lo has hecho t\u00fa solo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re free <\/a> of labels and unburdened by other people\u2019s expectations for you; you are totally free.<\/p>\n

The level of your self-love is getting bigger by the day. You know your own worth, and you and it aren\u2019t determined by other people’s opinions of you.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t stand encountering intrusive people, but you still don\u2019t allow yourself to stress about it too much<\/p>\n

The only thing that matters to you is that you know who you are, and if someone else doesn’t, well, it\u2019s their problem, not yours.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t stress about the things you can\u2019t control, and you focus on the things you can<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There are some things you have no power over, and no matter how much you stress about them, it doesn\u2019t change anything.<\/p>\n

Entiendes esta parte de la vida, as\u00ed que en lugar de estresarte, optas por dejarlo pasar.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control other people\u2019s behavior toward you, but you\u2019re perfectly in charge of giving people a place in your life.<\/p>\n

La forma en que se comportan contigo es lo que determina lo cerca que los tienes de tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

En lugar de perder la cabeza por las cosas que no est\u00e1n en tus manos, c\u00e9ntrate en las que s\u00ed puedes cambiar.<\/p>\n

En lugar de intentar corregir todos los errores, intenta que esos errores no se apoderen de tu mente y afecten a tu comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Stressing out over things you can\u2019t control is just a p\u00e9rdida de tiempo <\/a> para ti, y t\u00fa, en cambio, eliges emplear tu tiempo sabiamente.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t allow situations and circumstances to dictate your happiness.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, optas por afrontar el hecho de que no se puede hacer nada al respecto y te centras en mejorar las cosas que s\u00ed puedes.<\/p>\n

Usas el miedo como combustible<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u201cReplacing fear with courage is one of the key components of being unfuckwithable \u201d<\/p>\n

\u2015 Vishen Lakhiani , The Code of the Extraordinary Mind : 10 Unconventional Laws to Redefine Your Life and Succeed On Your Own Terms<\/p>\n

When it\u2019s scary to jump, that\u2019s exactly when you jump. You\u2019re one of those people who gets that a comfort zone won\u2019t stretch by itself.<\/p>\n

By just \u2018going for it\u2019, you continue to proactively stretch yours.<\/p>\n

When things get ugly in life, you don\u2019t run away and hide. You stand up to your fears, and you try to make the best out of every ugly situation.<\/p>\n

Conviertes todos tus miedos en combustible que te motiva a conseguir cosas mayores y m\u00e1s grandes.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t bow down before life\u2019s challenges\u2014you make those challenges eventually bow down to you. And you never stop fighting for the things you believe in.<\/p>\n

Nunca dejes de luchar por tus sue\u00f1os, por muy lejanos que te parezcan en ese momento.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t seek approval, but you go with your gut instead<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t wait for a green light in life for anything. When you see the opportunity, you simply grab it.<\/p>\n

Cuando veas que algo va a hacerte feliz <\/a> or something is going to make you grow, you don\u2019t wait for somebody to allow you to take it.<\/p>\n

Te creas oportunidades sin esperar a que te las den los dem\u00e1s. Conf\u00edas m\u00e1s en ti mismo que en los dem\u00e1s porque tu instinto nunca te ha fallado hasta ahora.<\/p>\n

Y esa es una de las razones por las que la gente suele enfadarse contigo.<\/p>\n

They get frustrated because they can\u2019t influence you, no matter how hard they try.<\/p>\n

Tu determinaci\u00f3n y tu invencibilidad son sencillamente invencibles, y no hay fuerza en el universo que pueda impedirte hacer algo si tu instinto te dice que es lo correcto.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t let others use the best of you without giving back their best in return<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esta es la mejor parte de la unfuckwithability . No dejar que otros usen lo mejor de ti, se alimenten de tu amor o te den toxicidad.<\/p>\n

You believe only in the pure things in life, and you aren\u2019t satisfied with mediocrity.<\/p>\n

When you give someone all of yourself and they don\u2019t reciprocate, you just stop giving to them, deleting them from your life because they are not digno de ti <\/a> .<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t let other people\u2019s greediness influence your happiness because you have more important things to deal with.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re either in or you\u2019re out. There\u2019s no gray area here.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the same thing you expect from others as well. If they are unable to respect that, you simply say to yourself: \u201cFuck them\u201d and continue living your best life without them.<\/p>\n

Te mantienes feliz y saludable, sin permitir que la toxicidad de los dem\u00e1s te afecte.<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

Being unfuckwithable means believing you matter. You know you\u2019re not just another face in the crowd.<\/p>\n

You accept the fact that you\u2019re just human and that you\u2019re in charge of your happiness and your life.<\/p>\n

You know that you don\u2019t have to apologize for taking care of yourself and for fighting for your own happiness.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, nunca te disculpes por no dejar que la gente t\u00f3xica o cualquier tipo de toxicidad entre en tu refugio seguro.<\/p>\n

Te ocupas de tus sue\u00f1os, tus deseos y anhelos, y tambi\u00e9n de otras personas (las que merecen ese trato).<\/p>\n

Tu c\u00edrculo de amistades es peque\u00f1o, pero est\u00e1 formado por personas de la m\u00e1xima calidad en las que conf\u00edas con todo tu coraz\u00f3n y toda tu alma.<\/p>\n

Sabes perdonarte a ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re an unfuckwithable person, you know the importance of forgiving yourself.<\/p>\n

You understand that you\u2019re just a human being like everyone else and that it is okay to make mistakes from time to time.<\/p>\n

Nunca haces da\u00f1o a nadie a prop\u00f3sito. Nunca haces estupideces a prop\u00f3sito, pero cuando cometes alguna de ellas por accidente, sabes que s\u00f3lo fue un error, y la vida sigue.<\/p>\n

You forgive yourself because there\u2019s no point in dwelling on your past and torturing yourself with what ifs.<\/p>\n

You believe in the present and in what is happening now. You don\u2019t let yourself feel miserable for something that is irrelevant to your well-being and for something that isn\u2019t a big deal.<\/p>\n

En lugar de preocuparte constantemente por tu pasado, disfrutas de las peque\u00f1as cosas del presente porque son lo \u00fanico que te importa.<\/p>\n

Tienes una curiosidad desmedida<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Being unapologetically curious means not being afraid to ask people about something you\u2019re interested in, no matter how awkward it might be.<\/p>\n

En lugar de darle vueltas constantemente a las cosas, simplemente preguntas lo que quieres saber sin avergonzarte ni preocuparte de que lo encuentren ofensivo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t let other people\u2019s words entrap you. When something is fishy to you, you instantly ask them about it honestly, and you expect the same.<\/p>\n

And if they are not ready to \u2018cooperate\u2019, you just leave because la vida es demasiado corta para perder el tiempo en gilipolleces <\/a> y gente falsa.<\/p>\n

Juega con tus puntos fuertes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Eres consciente de todos tus puntos fuertes y los utilizas sabiamente en tu beneficio.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you are good at persuading other people or negotiating. Perhaps you\u2019re just good with words, and you don\u2019t let anyone impose their ideals on you.<\/p>\n

You always think twice before you say anything because you\u2019re aware of the fact that words are your most powerful tool.<\/p>\n

Jugar con tus puntos fuertes se ha convertido en parte de ti, y a veces los dem\u00e1s no pueden evitar sentir celos de ello.<\/p>\n

And your reply to them is one of the unfuckwithable sentences that you have as a backup for every \u2018special occasion\u2019.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always one step ahead of every game which makes it impossible for others to manipulate you.<\/p>\n

Cuando quieres algo, trabajas duro para conseguirlo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t just wait for everything to be served to you.<\/p>\n

Cuando quieres algo, siempre te aseguras de arremangarse <\/a> and do the work . And you never let anyone tell you that you can\u2019t do something before you\u2019ve even tried.<\/p>\n

Crees que puedes conseguir cualquier cosa si trabajas duro por ello y nunca te rindes pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

Y si alguien intenta joderte en tu camino hacia el logro, no tienes m\u00e1s que activar tu bot\u00f3n de no joder y borrar al instante su existencia.<\/p>\n

When you want something, you devote all of your time to it, and you aren\u2019t satisfied until it is completed.<\/p>\n

E incluso si fracasas en ello, simplemente vuelves a intentarlo, sin importar cu\u00e1ntas veces te hayan dicho que deber\u00edas cambiar a otra cosa.<\/p>\n

As an unfuckwithable person, you believe in the beauty of your dreams and in the beauty of turning a blind eye to those who don\u2019t understand it.<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>\n

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