{"id":55573,"date":"2020-03-23T09:14:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T09:14:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55573"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:58:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:58:10","slug":"amor-consumado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amor-consumado\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor consumado: Explicando la teor\u00eda triangular del amor de Sternberg"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos venimos a este mundo en busca de ese amor rom\u00e1ntico, perfecto e interminable.<\/p>\n

But what most people don’t have a full grasp of is the fact that there are many types of love out there and if you and your true love share physical attraction but aren’t compatible in all the components of love, trouble may ensue.<\/p>\n

La teor\u00eda triangular del amor es un marco desarrollado por el psic\u00f3logo Robert Sternberg para ayudar a arrojar algo de luz sobre este intrincado asunto de las distintas formas de amor y ayudar a diferenciar el no amor y la mera atracci\u00f3n sexual del tipo de amor que conlleva caracter\u00edsticas m\u00e1s profundas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Sternberg’s theory aims to pin down the basic elements of romantic love and bring us closer to understanding the type of relationship we’ve created with our best friend\/true love and lead us to a healthier loving relationship.<\/p>\n

El amor consumado es el n\u00facleo de esta importante investigaci\u00f3n de Sternberg y, junto con el amor de compa\u00f1\u00eda, el amor fatuo, el amor vac\u00edo, el enamoramiento y algunos otros tipos de amor, es una parte crucial de una teor\u00eda triangular del amor, que puedes encontrar detallada en su art\u00edculo de Psychological Review.<\/p>\n

Robert Sternberg’s research at Yale University aims to break the mold about the major differences between passionate love, which consists of a lack of commitment but thrives in sexual attraction, and other forms of love that lead to a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Aunque el amor consumado es el n\u00facleo de toda relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica sana, Robert J.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Sternberg brings us closer to the kind of love which consists of commitment components that don’t necessarily scream passion+intimacy and the types of relationships which can be described as love at first sight.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas combinaciones diferentes de amor verdadero y cada una de ellas tiene el potencial de conducir a un compromiso a largo plazo, siempre que ambos miembros de la pareja est\u00e9n en la misma longitud de onda en su relaci\u00f3n amorosa.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo ser una buena novia: Sube el list\u00f3n con estos 20 sencillos trucos.<\/a><\/p>\n

La esencia de la teor\u00eda triangular del amor<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Para conocer a fondo los elementos esenciales de las relaciones amorosas, Sternberg ha desarrollado un marco profundamente perspicaz en el que explica con gran detalle la base de sus descubrimientos sobre el amor consumado, junto con todas las dem\u00e1s formas de amor.<\/p>\n

En su teor\u00eda del tri\u00e1ngulo del amor, Sternberg explica que, de hecho, existen ocho tipos distintos de amor, todos ellos derivados de tres componentes clave: pasi\u00f3n, intimidad y decisi\u00f3n (tambi\u00e9n mencionada como compromiso).<\/p>\n

If your romantic love relationship consists of only one of the aforementioned components (let’s assume that there’s intimacy but you’re lacking in the passion and commitment departments), according to Sternberg, your love falls under the category of a more simple, basic form of love.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if your relationship has two of these components (for example, passion + intimacy but a lack of commitment), you’re on the right track but it’s still far from consummate love.<\/p>\n

\"adorable<\/p>\n

Y si tu relaci\u00f3n contiene estos tres componentes del amor, \u00a1enhorabuena!<\/p>\n

Eso significa que su forma de relaci\u00f3n se conoce como amor consumado.<\/p>\n

Sternberg’s triangular theory of love aims to open people’s eyes to the real nature of their romantic love and guide them toward the kind of love where they’ll exchange infatuation for true, meaningful romantic love and get to the same level of commitment.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: La lista definitiva de objetivos de pareja para las relaciones m\u00e1s felices<\/a><\/p>\n

Los tres componentes del amor<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

In order to help you better understand the triangular theory of love and explain all types of love, including consummate love, let’s delve deeper into the three key components of love and understand their roles in Sternberg’s triangular theory.<\/p>\n

Without them, there is no ultimate form of love, which is why you need to pay close attention and learn from Sternberg’s dedicated research into what makes love grow and evolve.<\/p>\n

\u2022  Intimacy is the component of a relationship that lets you feel warmth and closeness with your true love.It’s the feeling that once felt can never go to oblivion. It’s difficult to describe it with words as it’s something that needs to be felt in order to be fully understood.<\/p>\n

\u2022  Passion is the essence of sexual attraction between two people. Passion is the driving force that creates sexual tension and deep physical attraction in a love relationship.<\/p>\n

\"encantadora<\/p>\n

\u2022  Commitment is the core of a long-term relationship. It’s a constant decision to put your best friend first and remain loyal to them no matter the obstacles. Consummate love doesn’t exist without this key component of love. Along with the other two, it creates what Sternberg would call jackpot love (consummate love).<\/p>\n

All of these components of love are vital in keeping a romantic love afloat and give it a chance of becoming the ultimate form of love\u2014consummate love.<\/p>\n

But in some cases, not all are present, although this doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with those relationships.<\/p>\n

Toda relaci\u00f3n duradera tiene el potencial de alcanzar la meta m\u00e1s alta.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan Sternberg, estos componentes pueden variar en funci\u00f3n del tipo de amor.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, una pareja casada puede carecer de pasi\u00f3n cuando trae un ni\u00f1o al mundo, pero sus niveles de intimidad y compromiso aumentar\u00e1n considerablemente.<\/p>\n

Todo depende en gran medida de la fase en la que se encuentre la relaci\u00f3n y de su objetivo final.<\/p>\n

Consummate love is what many aspire to but until you get there, you’ll first need to understand (and likely go through) the eight other types of love to be able to fully understand, appreciate and cherish consummate love.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfTe sientes derrotado y perdido? Estas 10 cosas te ayudar\u00e1n a sobrellevarlo<\/a><\/p>\n

Los 8 tipos principales de amor<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

La teor\u00eda triangular del amor ofrece una visi\u00f3n incre\u00edble de en qu\u00e9 consisten estos ocho tipos de amor y c\u00f3mo est\u00e1n todos interconectados a trav\u00e9s de los tres componentes clave del amor.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that your relationship may not fall straight into one of these categories but Sternberg’s framework will hopefully help you understand your current relationship (along with your past relationships) and see it in a whole new light.<\/p>\n

1. No amor<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

As the name itself suggests, when all three components of love are evidently missing from your romantic relationship, you’re dealing with a non-love type of relationship.<\/p>\n

These kinds of relationships are usually among two casual friends who haven’t gotten to know each other well yet.<\/p>\n

Puede caracterizarse por la falta de pasi\u00f3n, intimidad y compromiso.<\/p>\n

No hay fuego, no hay cercan\u00eda y no hay planes para llevar la relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel.<\/p>\n

The person you’re having this type of relationship with does not hold much merit in your life and you could easily live without them by your side.<\/p>\n

2. Me gusta<\/h2>\n

\"rom\u00e1ntica<\/p>\n

When you’re dealing with liking, you’re probably close to someone to an extent (which can be described as intimacy) but there’s a palpable lack of commitment and passion.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las parejas comienzan en esta etapa, con muchas posibilidades de que su relaci\u00f3n se transforme en amor consumado en alg\u00fan momento.<\/p>\n

As long as there’s will on both sides to move forward, there’s a chance of it becoming healthy romantic love.<\/p>\n

3. Encaprichamiento<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

An infatuation is a form of love characterized by a fiery sexual attraction that according to a triangular theory of love doesn’t amount to a complete type of love.<\/p>\n

While this relationship is passionate and physical, it’s lack of intimacy and commitment makes it far from consummate love.<\/p>\n

Las personas que mantienen este tipo de relaci\u00f3n a menudo no pueden mantener las manos alejadas el uno del otro, lo que suele dar lugar a las PDA.<\/p>\n

While infatuation is a vital aspect of a relationship, it’s necessary for it to evolve into a deeper connection in order to sustain itself on a long-term basis.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Lo Que Me Gusta De Ti: Una lista de 100 razones por las que te quiero<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Amor vac\u00edo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Durante el transcurso de este tipo de relaci\u00f3n, la pareja lucha por mantener viva la relaci\u00f3n debido a una grave falta de pasi\u00f3n + intimidad.<\/p>\n

El amor vac\u00edo tiene compromiso, pero la falta de los otros dos componentes hace que sea dif\u00edcil mantenerlo a flote.<\/p>\n

Esto suele ocurrir con una pareja mayor cuya relaci\u00f3n se ha estancado tristemente.<\/p>\n

5. Amor rom\u00e1ntico<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan Sternberg, cuando se combina pasi\u00f3n + intimidad, se obtiene el amor rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n

Now this may seem like the type of love one should aspire to but there’s something missing: commitment.<\/p>\n

This often occurs in romantic relationships where one partner wants to commit but the other one isn’t ready.<\/p>\n

There’s attraction and there’s a connection but it’s incomplete due to its one-sided nature.<\/p>\n

A love relationship of this kind can sustain itself for a little while but it’s more likely to fizzle out due to a severe lack of commitment.<\/p>\n

6. Amor de compa\u00f1\u00eda<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

El amor de compa\u00f1\u00eda es el tipo de amor en el que el compromiso y la intimidad est\u00e1n muy presentes, pero la pasi\u00f3n est\u00e1 ausente de esta ecuaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

For long-term commitment, a romantic couple needs to evolve from this kind of love and find that fire that’s missing.<\/p>\n

This is usually between two close friends who have forged a strong bond which became a relationship but unfortunately, it\u2019s one that lacks sexual attraction.<\/p>\n

En sus manos est\u00e1 decidir si su amor avanza y encuentra ese componente que le falta o deja que siga su curso, aceptando la realidad tal y como es.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Un Beso En La Mejilla: Significados y 12 tipos de besos<\/a><\/p>\n

7. Amor fatuo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

En este tipo de amor, hay pasi\u00f3n y hay compromiso, pero la intimidad est\u00e1 visiblemente ausente.<\/p>\n

While any type of relationship has a certain amount of potential to amount to something deeper, according to Sternberg’s triangular theory of love, this one is unlikely to last.<\/p>\n

Para forjar un v\u00ednculo lo bastante fuerte como para resistir el paso del tiempo, hace falta intimidad.<\/p>\n

Without it, there’s no trust and without trust, there’s no basis for a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Therefore, fatuous love is not one to aspire to as it won’t last very long.<\/p>\n

8. Amor consumado<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

And finally, we’ve come to the ultimate type of love that is the core of Robert Sternberg’s triangular theory.<\/p>\n

Amor consumado. El propio nombre te da una indicaci\u00f3n del amor completo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque contiene los tres componentes del amor.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan la teor\u00eda triangular del amor, todo el mundo deber\u00eda aspirar a tener este tipo de amor.<\/p>\n

But once you attain it, don’t think that your work is done.<\/p>\n

Incluso en esta relaci\u00f3n, siempre hay que asegurarse de trabajarla, cuidarla y esforzarse seriamente.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Para que una relaci\u00f3n florezca, hay que regarla constantemente.<\/p>\n

Wherever you find yourself on the journey of love right now, don’t try to rush into something you’re not ready for.<\/p>\n

Sternberg’s framework serves a unique purpose of helping you understand where you are so that you can see where you want to go.<\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

Whether you’re in a consummate relationship or still on your journey toward it, one thing needs to remain crystal clear; a relationship won’t grow unless you make it so.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de tener en cuenta los tres componentes del amor en tu relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica y nunca ignores ninguno de ellos.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Without passion, intimacy and commitment, you cannot expect to achieve what Sternberg’s research has explained as the complete type of love.<\/p>\n

Take this as a guide toward attaining what you’ve been yearning for, without skipping any steps in the process.<\/p>\n

La teor\u00eda triangular del amor es una visi\u00f3n profunda de los entresijos de todo tipo de relaciones rom\u00e1nticas y de lo importante que es esforzarse siempre por conseguir m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Consummate love is not unattainable; it\u2019s simply a deeply progressed form of love that only the most loyal and dedicated can hope to achieve.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Las 10 se\u00f1ales de que no est\u00e1s preparado para una relaci\u00f3n en este momento<\/a><\/p>\n

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