{"id":55599,"date":"2020-03-23T09:39:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T09:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55599"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:57:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:57:33","slug":"con-la-persona-adecuada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/con-la-persona-adecuada\/","title":{"rendered":"Con la persona adecuada, no sentir\u00e1s que eres dif\u00edcil de querer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca describir\u00edas a tu pareja como ser dif\u00edcil de amar<\/em>\u00bflo har\u00edas?<\/p>\n

Still, that\u2019s what you believe to be true about yourself and what you think others think of you.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que pasa algo malo, lo primero que haces es culparte a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Tu mente se vuelve negativa y te sientes fracasado.<\/p>\n

Creer en esas cosas es gran parte del problema.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Having low self-esteem is a sign of distrusting your worth. It means you don\u2019t see anything valuable in you and that just isn\u2019t true.<\/p>\n

But first, let\u2019s see what led you to believe in that lie in the first place and how can we change that.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a sensitive person. Being a sensitive person makes you super aware of things other people don\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n significa que puedes agobiarte m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente y que te cuesta poner l\u00edmites y decir que no.<\/p>\n

You understand everything deeply and sometimes you feel like you\u2019re not doing everything you can.<\/p>\n

You can be harsh on yourself over things you can\u2019t control. You\u2019re an overthinker.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Las personas que piensan demasiado viven en su mente y pasan una cantidad de tiempo insana reviviendo sus supuestos errores y deseando poder cambiar algo que ya ha sucedido.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly what\u2019s stopping them from giving self-love a chance.<\/p>\n

Te cuesta aceptar las imperfecciones.<\/p>\n

Striving for perfection means constantly having to prove your self-worth. And that\u2019s exhausting.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s often mixed up with the fear of disapproval.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need approval to be who you are. You should be loved as you are.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Para dejar de deprimirte, tienes que cambiar tus creencias negativas sobre ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Para cambiar esta imagen distorsionada de ti mismo, necesitas saber c\u00f3mo es una relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/p>\n

Para recuperar la confianza en ti mismo con la ayuda de tu futura pareja, esto es a lo que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n y c\u00f3mo debe sentirse una relaci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n

La persona adecuada gestionar\u00e1 los conflictos con madurez.<\/p>\n

No habr\u00e1 comentarios mezquinos ni silencios inc\u00f3modos, llamadas perdidas o agresividad.<\/p>\n

Habr\u00e1 muchos dime c\u00f3mo te sientes y por qu\u00e9 y yo te dir\u00e9 lo mismo.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

No habr\u00e1 culpabilizaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing worse than manipulating a person who has been hurt before, especially if you use culpa<\/em> para controlarlos. Las relaciones felices se basan en la confianza y la honestidad.<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e1s que todo tiene soluci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Con la persona adecuada que entienda sus necesidades, siempre se sentir\u00e1 a gusto.<\/p>\n

Con la persona adecuada, te sentir\u00e1s como en casa.<\/p>\n

Como si por fin pudieras bajar la guardia y relajarte en paz sabiendo que alguien se preocupa por tus intereses a pesar de tus defectos.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t see your flaws as a reason to doubt you, but opportunity to understand you better.<\/p>\n

\"encantadora<\/p>\n

Los defectos s\u00f3lo nos recuerdan d\u00f3nde necesitamos m\u00e1s amor.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t use your flaws against you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn that real love can\u2019t be hard. There\u2019s no such thing as being hard to love.<\/p>\n

Se supone que el amor es ligero. Lleno de alegr\u00eda, comprensi\u00f3n y cari\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00eda animarte, no hundirte y hacerte cuestionar todo lo que haces.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t see your partner as someone to obey, someone you\u2019re not worthy of, or someone who makes you compare yourself with others to measure your worth.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Debe ser alguien que camine a tu lado cogi\u00e9ndote de la mano y se asegure de demostrarte su amor de todas las formas posibles.<\/p>\n

When you stop believing you\u2019re hard to love, you will suddenly start noticing love that has been shown to you, not only by your partner but your loved ones.<\/p>\n

Nunca debemos dar el amor por sentado. En los d\u00edas malos, cuando no te sientas querido, recu\u00e9rdalo.<\/p>\n

Remember all the people who\u2019ve loved you your whole life and all the things they\u2019ve done for you.<\/p>\n

Remember that regardless of your past, your courage, your fears, your confidence, your age, looks, or accomplishments \u2013 you are always worthy of love.<\/p>\n

\"Con<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You would never describe your significant other as being hard to love, would you? Still, that\u2019s what you believe to be true about yourself and what you think others think of you. Every time something bad happens, the first thing you do is blame yourself. Your mind goes into a negative place and you feel…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":55600,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/With-The-Right-Person-You-Won\u2019t-Feel-Like-You\u2019re-Hard-To-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55599\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}