{"id":55610,"date":"2020-03-23T10:46:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T10:46:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55610"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:49:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:49:42","slug":"un-hombre-no-puede-con-la-misma-realidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-hombre-no-puede-con-la-misma-realidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Un hombre no puede manejar la misma realidad que le da a una mujer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las mujeres no soportan la verdad. Romantizan demasiado. Ven demasiadas pel\u00edculas.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen la cabeza en las nubes y esperan lo imposible de hombres que simplemente intentan ser realistas.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1\u00bfO no es as\u00ed?!<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres hacen pasar por realidad sus pat\u00e9ticas intenciones hacia las mujeres.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55611 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre infeliz en pijama sobre la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The \u201cglass is neither half-full nor half-empty\u2019\u2019 side of life.<\/p>\n<p>In this story, a woman\u2019s need to be loved and cared for fully and honestly is a glass so full, it\u2019s overflowing.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00fanica forma razonable de que las cosas funcionen seg\u00fan los hombres es que ellos tengan todo el poder, hagan todo a su manera y nunca presten atenci\u00f3n a c\u00f3mo se siente una mujer.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s sick. You bring home cooked soup, rub his chest, and play his favorite shows for him while you gently massage his back.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re sick. He sends a message asking if you\u2019re okay.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55612 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando el tel\u00e9fono descontento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En el mejor de los casos env\u00eda a dos.<\/p>\n<p>You feel happy that he remembered to check how you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p>You cooked for him and he\u2019s late for dinner. He says he couldn\u2019t make it on time, you say it\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n<p>He cooked (like that ever happens, right?), and you\u2019re late for dinner (no way, you\u2019d be too grateful he\u2019s doing something for you).<\/p>\n<p>Tienes una gran explicaci\u00f3n y \u00e9l monta una escena.<\/p>\n<p>Haga lo que haga por ti, tienes que alabarle por ello, mientras que que t\u00fa cuides de \u00e9l es lo l\u00f3gico.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55613 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-man-cooking-and-talking-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"joven cocinando y hablando por tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-man-cooking-and-talking-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-man-cooking-and-talking-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-man-cooking-and-talking-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you really think about it, you\u2019ll see that you are the one considering his needs and wishes while he never actually thinks about yours.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que hay que preguntarse es: \u00bfseguir\u00eda funcionando su relaci\u00f3n si fuera al rev\u00e9s?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPodr\u00eda ser \u00e9l quien estuviera en segundo plano mientras t\u00fa eras el centro de atenci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPodr\u00eda soportar alguna vez llegar a casa del trabajo, querer hablar de algo molesto o malo que le ha pasado, y t\u00fa fingir que le escuchas mientras ves un partido?<\/p>\n<p>No.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPodr\u00eda soportar enviarte diez mensajes de texto y que t\u00fa no respondieras a ninguno y luego salir con una excusa poco convincente una vez que te confronta por ello?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55614 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-look-bored-while-waiting-for-dinner-from-wife.jpg\" alt=\"hombre parece aburrido mientras espera la cena de su esposa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-look-bored-while-waiting-for-dinner-from-wife.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-look-bored-while-waiting-for-dinner-from-wife-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-look-bored-while-waiting-for-dinner-from-wife-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No.<\/p>\n<p>Could he deal with not knowing where you are all night or who are you spending your time with, and you telling him that it\u2019s none of his business where, how, and with whom you spend your time?<\/p>\n<p>Ni de co\u00f1a.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que un hombre no puede manejar la misma realidad con la que tiene que lidiar una mujer.<\/p>\n<p>He pretends he\u2019s strong and dominant. He pretends he could never be needy or whiney.<\/p>\n<p>He makes sure he lets you know that you\u2019re overly emotional, overly controlling, and overly everything while he\u2019s just the right measure.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l nunca, nunca podr\u00eda comportarse como t\u00fa lo haces.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55615 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-couple-lying-on-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-couple-lying-on-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-couple-lying-on-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-couple-lying-on-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one expecting too much from him.<\/p>\n<p>The whole situation couldn\u2019t be more absurd if it tried.<\/p>\n<p>Sinceramente, si le trataras aunque fuera de forma parecida a como \u00e9l te trata a ti ser\u00eda mucho, mucho peor de lo que \u00e9l cree que eres.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks he\u2019s so perfect, while the truth is that with everything you do for him it\u2019s easy to be content.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019d feel much better about things if he was more kind, nurturing, and caring.<\/p>\n<p>If he respected what you say and do the way you respect everything he does, you\u2019d be blossoming and he\u2019d be the one broken.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55617 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-no-talking-3.jpg\" alt=\"pareja disgustada sentada en el sal\u00f3n sin hablar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-no-talking-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-no-talking-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-no-talking-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a generally accepted opinion that women can\u2019t deal with the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Me pregunto si la verdad que le dieras a un hombre fuera tan desagradable como la que \u00e9l te da a ti, \u00a1\u00bfcu\u00e1n capaz ser\u00eda de enfrentarse a ella?!<\/p>\n<p>I promise you, he\u2019d be so much worse at it than you are.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSeguir\u00edan aplic\u00e1ndose todas las normas si fingieras ser un hombre por un d\u00eda y le trataras como \u00e9l te trata a ti?<\/p>\n<p>I guarantee they wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55616 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-2.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre abraz\u00f3 a su novia triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I guess it\u2019s simple to deal with an easy truth, but dealing with the truths men serve women would be impossible for them.<\/p>\n<p>Tenlo en cuenta la pr\u00f3xima vez que te llame necesitado.<\/p>\n<p>Keep that in mind next time he doesn\u2019t even try to fulfill any of your needs.<\/p>\n<p>Keep that in mind and you\u2019ll finally realize that he can but he won\u2019t, ever be as strong as you are.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55619 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-MAN-CAN\u2019T-HANDLE-THE-SAME-REALITY-HE-GIVES-A-WOMAN-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Un hombre no puede manejar la misma realidad que le da a una mujer\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-MAN-CAN\u2019T-HANDLE-THE-SAME-REALITY-HE-GIVES-A-WOMAN-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-MAN-CAN\u2019T-HANDLE-THE-SAME-REALITY-HE-GIVES-A-WOMAN-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-MAN-CAN\u2019T-HANDLE-THE-SAME-REALITY-HE-GIVES-A-WOMAN-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-MAN-CAN\u2019T-HANDLE-THE-SAME-REALITY-HE-GIVES-A-WOMAN-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, 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They romanticize too much. Watch too many movies. They have their heads in the clouds and expect the impossible from men who simply try to be realistic. Or is that right?! Men portray their downright pathetic intentions towards women as reality. The \u201cglass is neither half-full nor half-empty\u2019\u2019 side of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":55618,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55610","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/A-Man-Can\u2019t-Handle-The-Same-Reality-He-Gives-A-Woman.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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