{"id":55776,"date":"2020-03-23T18:25:44","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T18:25:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55776"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:38:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:38:35","slug":"obtendras-tu-chispa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/obtendras-tu-chispa\/","title":{"rendered":"Te rompi\u00f3 pero recuperar\u00e1s tu chispa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando alguien que significaba el mundo para ti se aleja, todo el mundo piensa que lo que m\u00e1s duele es la rotura de tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time.<\/p>\n

Al principio, el shock inicial te adormece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re in denial and refuse to accept that something like this has happened.<\/p>\n

Te niegas a enfrentarte a las partes de tu coraz\u00f3n que necesitas reconstruir y asumes que reprimir tus emociones te har\u00e1 sentir mejor.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

However, after a little while, all the pain hits you and to put it mildly, it starts to feel like you\u2019ve been stabbed in the stomach.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost like you\u2019re going through physical pain that prevents you from breathing properly and which you can\u2019t explain.<\/p>\n

You know you\u2019re safe and sound but you feel dead on the inside.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, piensas que esta sensaci\u00f3n nunca desaparecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

You assume that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life walking around with this incredibly heavy rock in your gut and that every morning you wake up will be just a new agony.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tl dolor desaparece tarde o temprano. Pasas por diferentes etapas que terminan con la aceptaci\u00f3n y, tarde o temprano, el desamor deja de ser lo \u00fanico en lo que piensas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t happen overnight, since it is a process that takes a lot of effort and energy. Nevertheless, eventually, time does its magic and it stitches your broken heart.<\/p>\n

Das peque\u00f1os pasos y, al cabo de un tiempo, aprendes a respirar de nuevo. Te sorprendes a ti mismo sonriendo y surge la esperanza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You think that this is it\u2014you\u2019re officially saved. Your<\/strong> el coraz\u00f3n roto se cura<\/b><\/a> and you\u2019re good to go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, sadly, things don\u2019t work that way. Because what hurts more than a shattered heart is the consequences this awful experience leaves on you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That is exactly what happened to you. This man didn\u2019t just break your heart\u2014he broke you as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cambi\u00f3 la persona que eras antes de conocerle. Mat\u00f3 a la chica inocente e ingenua que cre\u00eda en la gente y que ten\u00eda fe en el amor.<\/p>\n

Hizo desaparecer a la verdadera t\u00fa y te sustituy\u00f3 por esta mujer amargada, negativa y c\u00ednica que no conf\u00eda en nadie.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He erased the girl who followed her heart\u2019s lead no matter what and instead, brought about a disappointed, guarded and overly careful woman who is trying her best to shut off her emotions because she is con miedo al amor<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014te quit\u00f3 la chispa. Mat\u00f3 tu esp\u00edritu y destruy\u00f3 tu optimismo y entusiasmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Este hombre te convirti\u00f3 en un muerto viviente.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento, dejaste de vivir y empezaste a existir, y hay una gran diferencia entre ambas cosas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014when was the last time you caught yourself being truly happy, without any specific reason?<\/p>\n

\u00bfLa \u00faltima vez que te emocionaron cosas tan sencillas como darte un chapuz\u00f3n en el mar o ver una incre\u00edble puesta de sol?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember, right? Well, that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No obstante, even though you accepted the new you, I\u2019m here to tell you that things won\u2019t always be like this.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te prometo que uno de estos d\u00edas, tu chispa volver\u00e1<\/strong>. Llegar\u00e1 inesperadamente, llamando a tu puerta, y nunca m\u00e1s te abandonar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push yourself too hard and give yourself enough time to completely heal but remember that this will pass, the same way your heartbreak did.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t<\/strong>  <\/b>pi\u00e9rdete<\/b><\/a> forever and you\u2019ll get the girl you used to be back. Just be patient and don\u2019t think about giving up just yet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014the scars on your soul will remain there forever.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te servir\u00e1n como recordatorio de las batallas que pasaste y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, como recuerdo de c\u00f3mo conseguiste sobrevivir.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, you\u2019ll manage to pick up the broken pieces of yourself and glue yourself back together. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll succeed in rebuilding yourself to make an even stronger, updated version of the girl you once were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes por qu\u00e9? Porque no matter what happens, what you go through or what some evil people do to you, you\u2019re never broken beyond repair.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Te<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When someone who meant the world to you walks away, everyone thinks that the shattering of your heart is what hurts the most. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time. At first, you are numbed by the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":55790,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/He-Broke-You-But-You-Will-Get-Your-Spark-Back.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55790"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}