{"id":55856,"date":"2020-03-24T09:35:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T09:35:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55856"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:22:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:22:59","slug":"no-se-puede-cambiar-al-hombre-amando-mas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-se-puede-cambiar-al-hombre-amando-mas\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad es que no se puede cambiar a un hombre am\u00e1ndolo con m\u00e1s fuerza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dicen que el amor lo vence todo<\/em>. Pero, \u00bfes realmente cierto?<\/p>\n

Cuando nos enamoramos por primera vez, tendemos a ver el mundo y a la persona que amamos a trav\u00e9s de unas gafas de color de rosa.<\/p>\n

We do things we usually don\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s scientifically proven that a person in love literally feels like they\u2019re high (yes, drug high) and don\u2019t feel physical pain as strongly.<\/p>\n

So, basically, when we\u2019re in love, we\u2019re out of our mind. And that explains a lot.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Especialmente nuestra tendencia a ver a nuestra pareja de forma idealista.<\/p>\n

Cuando amamos a alguien, fingimos no ver sus defectos.<\/p>\n

This is partly because we are infatuated and partly because we consciously or subconsciously know we are investing our time and love and making an effort to be with that person and we don\u2019t want to admit to ourselves that maybe we made a mistake.<\/p>\n

We don\u2019t want to face reality because the truth is too painful for us.<\/p>\n

Tenemos miedo al cambio, a sufrir o a volver a ser solteros.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when we start making excuses for our partner and that\u2019s the moment our relationship becomes doomed.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re thinking: \u2018Est\u00e1n pasando por momentos dif\u00edciles<\/em>,\u2019 which in reality probably means they\u2019re not investing in the relationship as much as you do.<\/p>\n

The truth is that everyone is going through a tough time sometimes but it\u2019s no excuse to stop making an effort.<\/p>\n

Aparte de eso, hay excusas m\u00e1s comunes que hacemos en nuestra relaci\u00f3n por amor, como:<\/p>\n

Le creemos cuando dice que cambiar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Muchos de nosotros hemos ca\u00eddo por esta madriguera. Dar segundas oportunidades es lo que hacemos por amor.<\/p>\n

Realmente queremos creer que cambiar\u00e1 m\u00e1gicamente, a pesar de ver sus acciones que forman un patr\u00f3n inconfundible, una y otra vez.<\/p>\n

Abandona la creencia y empieza a ver patrones.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

En el fondo, sabes que las acciones significan mucho m\u00e1s que las palabras.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t practice what he says, he simply doesn\u2019t care enough.<\/p>\n

Tiene asuntos sin resolver de relaciones pasadas.<\/p>\n

This one is so easy to believe. We\u2019ve been there too.<\/p>\n

Someone has hurt us before and we need time to heal properly and that’s the obvious truth.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re not healed properly, maybe you shouldn\u2019t enter a new relationship because you\u2019re not ready to face your fears and pain.<\/p>\n

Not until you\u2019re ready to make decisions despite your previous experiences are you prepared to be in a healthy relationship and that goes for other types of relationships too, not only romantic ones\u2014relationships with parents, friends and even yourself.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

El problema no son los problemas, sino evitar afrontarlos.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t really mean what he says when he says something mean.<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las peores excusas que se le pueden poner a un hombre.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamiento no muestra m\u00e1s que pura falta de respeto.<\/p>\n

No one should tolerate insults, especially not from their loved one. It doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

If someone loves us, they care for our well-being, they don\u2019t make our life miserable.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not just something said in moments of rage or annoyance.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s a conscious decision to make us feel smaller. He\u2019s just a man<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Aceptar estereotipos como \u00e9ste s\u00f3lo hace que sus nefastas consecuencias sean mayores.<\/p>\n

Being a man isn’t an excuse and certainly not an excuse to be disrespectful.<\/p>\n

Tiene su propia personalidad, voluntad de cambiar o no cambiar, el poder de elegir entre opciones, etc.<\/p>\n

He is not programmed to behave a certain way as long as he has his free will\u2014and he does.<\/p>\n

Todo lo dem\u00e1s es pereza y no preocuparse lo suficiente.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not making an effort, you\u2019re not just a man, you\u2019re simply a jerk.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do yourself a favor and quit working harder at love if there\u2019s no mutual exchange.<\/p>\n

The fact is, you can\u2019t change a man by loving him harder.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t change anyone if they don\u2019t want to change in the first place. It\u2019s sad, but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

Cuanto antes dejemos de lado los \"y si...\", antes encontraremos a alguien a quien realmente le importe.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, quiz\u00e1 nuestra despedida sea exactamente lo que podr\u00eda abrirle por fin los ojos ante sus propios defectos.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s something that will teach him something you already know: self-awareness is the most powerful and profound way to end suffering.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

They say that love conquers all. But is it really true? When we first fall in love, we tend to see the world and the person we love through rose-colored glasses. We do things we usually don\u2019t do. It\u2019s scientifically proven that a person in love literally feels like they\u2019re high (yes, drug high) and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55856","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-You-Cannot-Change-A-Man-By-Loving-Him-Harder.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55856","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55856"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55856\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}