{"id":56375,"date":"2020-03-26T09:38:25","date_gmt":"2020-03-26T09:38:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56375"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:57:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:57:39","slug":"te-convertiste-en-un-extrano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-convertiste-en-un-extrano\/","title":{"rendered":"Est\u00e1bamos tan unidos pero de repente te convertiste en un extra\u00f1o y eso es lo que m\u00e1s duele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Al recordarlo ahora, no puedo evitar hacerme la pregunta: \u00bfhab\u00eda algo de verdad?<\/p>\n<p>Life went on as if nothing had happened and maybe it didn\u2019t. How else could I explain the fact that you became a stranger so easily?<\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t believe what they say about staying friends with your past lovers. Who on earth would be happy to see someone they once called theirs be with someone else?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Not many people, don\u2019t you agree? I\u2019d rather call you what you are, a <em>extra\u00f1o<\/em>No importa cu\u00e1nto duela.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que s\u00ed creo es cuando dicen que <em>el amor es extra\u00f1o<\/em>. Because it is. You never know when it\u2019s coming and worst of all, you never know how long it stays.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56376\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-blond-woman-looking-at-floor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia triste mirando al suelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-blond-woman-looking-at-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-blond-woman-looking-at-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-blond-woman-looking-at-floor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s a certain mystery when it comes to love and now, I realize we don\u2019t choose who we love and some relationships are not destined to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I wish to believe in happily ever afters but I\u2019m not a little girl anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I wish this life hadn\u2019t made me forget about a love that lasts forever but it did. It\u2019s just a happy thought in the back of my mind, carefully put away with the rest of my daydreams.<\/p>\n<p>El problema es cuando una persona pone patas arriba, como un tornado, todo lo que conoc\u00edas y, al final, te deja sin nada, confundido, herido y solo.<\/p>\n<p>They make you believe they\u2019re the one and that a fairy tale love is possible. What a cruel joke.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56377\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-laying-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-laying-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-laying-on-the-bed-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-laying-on-the-bed-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know for a fact that for something to work out, you need to put effort in and effort is a reflection of someone\u2019s love for you. If there\u2019s no effort, there\u2019s no love.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a simple truth with the most complicated feelings.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you love someone, you don\u2019t just give up. When you love someone, you care to understand them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando quieres a alguien, intentas acercarte.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s how I knew you had stopped loving me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56378\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-man-standing-outside-on-the-stairs.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste de pie fuera en las escaleras\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-man-standing-outside-on-the-stairs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-man-standing-outside-on-the-stairs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-man-standing-outside-on-the-stairs-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cada vez te alejabas m\u00e1s. Por mucho que intentara mantenernos cerca, siempre encontrabas la forma de distanciarnos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi mundo se derrumb\u00f3 en un momento. El hombre que una vez conoc\u00ed se hab\u00eda ido. Tuve que dejarte ir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Y lo hice. Dej\u00e9 ir al hombre que cre\u00eda conocer. El hombre que cre\u00ed que era el indicado para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><em>No \u00e9ramos m\u00e1s que extra\u00f1os con algunos recuerdos.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Pensar en ello me aterroriza incluso hoy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada junto al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Recuerdo la \u00e9poca en que yo era todo en lo que pensabas, cuando me escrib\u00edas sin parar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/romantic-love-messages-for-him-and-her\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mensajes de amor<\/span><\/a> and now, I\u2019m scared to catch your eye if we ever run into each other.<\/p>\n<p>Casi parece extra\u00f1o cuando miro las cosas que me regalaste sentadas en la estanter\u00eda y empiezo a recordar esos peque\u00f1os momentos que compartimos. Momentos en los que me conoc\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>Lo recuerdo demasiado bien. C\u00f3mo sol\u00edas decirme que yo era tu persona. C\u00f3mo cocinabas cenas horribles de las que nos re\u00edamos.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3mo hablamos toda la noche de nuestros miedos m\u00e1s profundos, vimos nuestras pel\u00edculas favoritas.<\/p>\n<p>Tus suaves abrazos en los momentos perfectos y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/beso-en-la-frente-los-significados-ocultos-de-este-bonito-gesto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">besos en la frente<\/span><\/a>todos los <em>Te quiero buenas noches<\/em> y <em>buenos d\u00edas amor<\/em>. Todo se ha ido ahora.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56380\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-a-woman-in-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"hombre besando a una mujer en la frente\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-a-woman-in-forehead.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-a-woman-in-forehead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-a-woman-in-forehead-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sometimes I wish I hadn\u2019t met you at all. You would be a stranger like you are now but I wouldn\u2019t be haunted with memories of love that had died.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not mad at you anymore. There\u2019s a part of me that believes one day I will be able to make sense of this. I hope that one day I will feel thankful for the fact that you happened to me.<\/p>\n<p>Until then, I wish you one last goodbye and pray that when we meet, you won\u2019t look away.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-So-Close-But-Suddenly-You-Became-A-Stranger-And-That-Hurts-The-Most-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Est\u00e1bamos tan unidos pero de repente te convertiste en un extra\u00f1o y eso es lo que m\u00e1s duele\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-So-Close-But-Suddenly-You-Became-A-Stranger-And-That-Hurts-The-Most-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-So-Close-But-Suddenly-You-Became-A-Stranger-And-That-Hurts-The-Most-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-So-Close-But-Suddenly-You-Became-A-Stranger-And-That-Hurts-The-Most-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-So-Close-But-Suddenly-You-Became-A-Stranger-And-That-Hurts-The-Most-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Looking back at it now I cannot help but ask myself the question\u2014was any of it real? Life went on as if nothing had happened and maybe it didn\u2019t. How else could I explain the fact that you became a stranger so easily? I don\u2019t believe what they say about staying friends with your past&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":56382,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-So-Close-But-Suddenly-You-Became-A-Stranger-And-That-Hurts-The-Most.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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