{"id":56630,"date":"2020-03-27T11:12:06","date_gmt":"2020-03-27T11:12:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56630"},"modified":"2021-11-11T16:14:58","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T16:14:58","slug":"cuanto-duran-las-relaciones-de-rebote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuanto-duran-las-relaciones-de-rebote\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1nto duran las relaciones de rebote? (\u00bfY funcionar\u00e1n?)"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’ve started a new relationship not long after a breakup, you’ve probably considered that age-old question: How long do rebound relationships last?<\/p>\n

Well, don’t worry because today you’ll learn everything you need to know about rebound relationships and the signs that indicate whether or not it will work!<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 son las relaciones de rebote?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Before diving deeper into the matters, let’s first define what being on the rebound means.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones de rebote son aquellas en las que se entra poco despu\u00e9s de una ruptura o un divorcio.<\/p>\n

In other words, these relationships quickly follow the ending of a previous one. And you’ve probably heard from other people who have been in such relationships themselves that they don\u2019t really last for long.<\/p>\n

There’s this assumption that every rebound relationship is doomed and this has become deeply ingrained in our society.<\/p>\n

But this doesn’t necessarily have to be so. In some cases, being with a new partner right after a past relationship has just ended can be a positive experience, and often leads to something serious.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, en algunos casos, terminar una relaci\u00f3n duradera y empezar una nueva poco tiempo despu\u00e9s puede ser negativo y, a menudo, conducir al desenga\u00f1o amoroso.<\/p>\n

The reason why this might happen is because rebounders often jump into a new relationship with a heavy burden of emotional instability and for the wrong reasons – of which the most popular one is the desire to distract themselves from their ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend.<\/p>\n

So, we could say that the success of a rebound relationship greatly depends on the person’s motives, emotional state, and the overall breakup situation regarding their previous relationship with their ex-partner!<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se producen las relaciones de rebote?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Las principales razones por las que alguien puede decidir buscar a otra persona y entrar en la zona de rebote justo despu\u00e9s de romper con su pareja son la soledad, la incapacidad para afrontar la ruptura y la b\u00fasqueda de estabilidad emocional.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, las relaciones de rebote se producen cuando una persona decide que tener una nueva pareja le ayudar\u00e1 a sanar o, al menos, a sentirse mejor con respecto a toda la situaci\u00f3n de ruptura, o que le ayudar\u00e1 a olvidar su relaci\u00f3n anterior y todo lo que ocurri\u00f3 en el pasado.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones rebote tambi\u00e9n se dan cuando una persona est\u00e1 desesperada por recuperar a su ex y cree que d\u00e1ndole celos con otra persona conseguir\u00e1 que vuelva a su vida.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n se producen cuando una persona se siente indigna de amor y afecto por haber sido abandonada por su pareja, por lo que opta por un rebote que le ayude a aumentar su autoestima y sentirse de nuevo querida.<\/p>\n

O se producen cuando una persona est\u00e1 decidida a vengarse de un ex que la ha tratado mal.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Rebound relationships are often a way of coping, running from old relationships and seeking a fresh life or love chapter with a new guy or girl even though the old chapter hasn’t officially finished yet.<\/em><\/p>\n

En estos casos, la relaci\u00f3n ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s a corto que a largo plazo.<\/p>\n

Yet again, sometimes being on the rebound has nothing to do with trying to forget exes, loneliness, seeking emotional stability, or starting a new life because some people don’t need much time to heal (especially if they were the one who ended their last relationship).<\/p>\n

En estos casos, una relaci\u00f3n de rebote tiene muchas posibilidades de convertirse en algo real.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 11 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s atrapado en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote poco saludable<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto duran las relaciones de rebote?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you’re thinking about jumping into a rebound relationship, or you’re already in one, it’s natural that you ask yourself: How long do rebound relationships last, or do they ever work?<\/p>\n

I’m sorry to disappoint you, but no one can give you an easy answer to these two questions (not even relationship experts) because it all depends on the individual, their emotional state, and the circumstances they’re in.<\/p>\n

For example, let’s say that you just ended a five year relationship with your partner.<\/p>\n

You’re feeling sad, disappointed, and lonely because you had got used to their presence and you can’t stop thinking about texting them and stalking them on social media.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

The no contact rule is out of the question because it’s too painful for you to all of a sudden start pretending that you don’t care about them.
\nEntonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa si entras en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote estando en ese estado?<\/p>\n

Your rebound relationship is more likely to fail before it has even started because you haven’t given yourself enough time to heal and process all the negative emotions and everything that happened.<\/p>\n

Being in a five year relationship is no small thing and that’s why it requires a proper healing period.<\/p>\n

Now, let’s say that you just ended a six month – one year relationship because your partner treated you badly in one way or another. In that case, you probably won’t need much tiempo para curarse<\/a>pero seguir\u00e1 habiendo algo de rabia y decepci\u00f3n acumuladas en tu cuerpo.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa si entras en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote estando en ese estado?<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

The chances are that it will work and it will last for a great amount of time, but only if you’re not deeply attached to your ex-partner and only if you’re not entering a rebound relationship with revenge in mind.<\/p>\n

Como puedes ver, hay muchas variaciones y posibles detalles de fondo, as\u00ed que la mejor forma de responder a la pregunta \u00bfCu\u00e1nto duran las relaciones de rebote?<\/p>\n

Es reformulando la pregunta en \u00bfFuncionar\u00e1 o no? Y aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de se\u00f1ales que definen una relaci\u00f3n de rebote potencialmente exitosa y tambi\u00e9n una lista de se\u00f1ales a las que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de que una relaci\u00f3n de rebote funcionar\u00e1<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Si una persona que est\u00e1 de rebote se comporta de la siguiente manera o de una similar, entonces la relaci\u00f3n tiene muchas posibilidades de convertirse en duradera:<\/p>\n

1. Ser honesto sobre la situaci\u00f3n de ruptura<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

There’s nothing more harmful in a relationship than lies and deceit.<\/p>\n

It’s really hard (if not impossible) to build something meaningful when the very foundation is toxic.<\/p>\n

So, if someone is honest with their new partner about the breakup reasons and the whole situation, then it means that they’ve accepted everything that happened and they’re ready to move on.<\/p>\n

When a person is not ready to let go of their previous relationship, they will not be honest about the real reasons for their breakup because it’s either hard to accept or they have a twisted image in their head on what really happened.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It means that they still live in an illusion and that’s why they have a tendency to lie or keep some things for themselves.<\/p>\n

So, being honest about the whole breakup situation is a good sign that they’re ready for a new relationship and that it will last because it’s built on trust and honesty.<\/p>\n

2. Estar 100% seguro de que su relaci\u00f3n anterior ha terminado<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando una relaci\u00f3n se rompe, cada individuo tiene una perspectiva diferente al respecto.<\/p>\n

Algunos crean la ilusi\u00f3n y el falso consuelo de que las cosas podr\u00edan cambiar y que alg\u00fan d\u00eda volver\u00e1n a reunirse.<\/p>\n

Y algunas personas est\u00e1n instant\u00e1neamente seguras de que su relaci\u00f3n se ha acabado y no importa lo que hagan o digan, nada cambiar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

So, when someone is 100% certain that their past relationship is over, it means they have accepted it and don’t secretly hope to reunite with their ex.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

There’s nothing more harmful for both partners\u2019 mental health and well-being in a rebound relationship than having a partner who still has feelings for their ex and who still hopes that things will eventually change.<\/p>\n

Being totally certain about the fact that their previous relationship is over means being ready to be in a new one because that’s the only way to reciprocity! There are no shortcuts when it comes to this.<\/p>\n

3. Comprometerse plenamente con la nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When someone constantly thinks about their ex-partner, it’s hard to focus on the current relationship, let alone be committed or make a serious effort.<\/p>\n

They become solely focused on the past and that’s why they can’t focus on the present and the new relationship they’re in.<\/p>\n

But, if they are fully devoted to the rebound relationship, it’s a sure sign that they’ve gotten over their ex-partner and they’re ready to devote all their time and attention to their new mate.<\/p>\n

It means they don’t think about too many \u201cwhat ifs\u201d and they don’t hope that they will be reunited with their ex again because if they did, they wouldn’t bother being fully committed to and engaged in their current relationship.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 4 comportamientos en las citas que demuestran que est\u00e1 recuper\u00e1ndose<\/a><\/p>\n

4. La relaci\u00f3n anterior termin\u00f3 en buenos t\u00e9rminos<\/h2>\n

\"bussines<\/p>\n

There’s a huge difference between a relationship that ends on bad terms and one that ends on good terms.<\/p>\n

Las que terminan en malos t\u00e9rminos hacen que las parejas est\u00e9n m\u00e1s angustiadas y, por tanto, sean m\u00e1s propensas a la influencia de las emociones negativas.<\/p>\n

Esto puede afectar negativamente a una nueva relaci\u00f3n porque estas personas entran en una relaci\u00f3n con una enorme carga de negatividad, emociones agotadoras y palabras no dichas.<\/p>\n

Pero, si la relaci\u00f3n anterior termin\u00f3 en buenos t\u00e9rminos, ambos miembros de la pareja estar\u00e1n m\u00e1s relajados y razonables en torno a toda la situaci\u00f3n de ruptura.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

No lo ver\u00e1n como algo necesariamente malo, sino como algo inevitable y esperado.<\/p>\n

Cuando dos personas deciden seguir en buenos t\u00e9rminos tras una ruptura y una de ellas decide iniciar una relaci\u00f3n de rebote, no habr\u00e1 cargas ni connotaciones negativas.<\/p>\n

Habr\u00e1 espacio para desarrollar una relaci\u00f3n sana y duradera.<\/p>\n

5. Terminaron la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

This one is pretty obvious. The person who ended the relationship won’t feel as distressed about it because it was their decision and the only possible outcome is relief. Rebounding in that situation will be 100% positive.<\/p>\n

Since they’re the one who initiated the breakup, there won’t be any confusing feelings, regrets, or similar and they won’t need much time to recover from the breakup.<\/p>\n

They know why they ended the relationship, so there’s not much space here for any type of negative emotions.<\/p>\n

This person will be ready to commit to someone else in a healthy way because there will be no burden from the past, and no \u201cwhat if’s\u201d or similar.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de que una relaci\u00f3n de rebote no funcionar\u00e1<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Como ya se ha mencionado, si alguien se ve impulsado a entrar en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote por razones equivocadas, como la b\u00fasqueda de estabilidad emocional, o porque se siente solo o algo similar, las probabilidades de que la relaci\u00f3n no funcione son altas.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas razones por las que un rebote puede acabar terriblemente:<\/p>\n

1. Buscan una alternativa para su anterior socio<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

One of the major signs that a rebound relationship will not work is if the person\u2019s motive is to find an alternative to their previous partner.<\/p>\n

In other words, if they’re looking for the same qualities of their ex-partner in a new person.<\/p>\n

Esto nunca es bueno y nunca tendr\u00e1 un resultado positivo.<\/p>\n

Buscar constantemente ex en otras personas significa no estar preparado para dejarlas ir.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It means being aware of the fact that it’s over and that things will never be as they used to, but still not being ready to move on and forget about them.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n de rebote fracasa oficialmente cuando se dan cuenta de que la nueva pareja nunca podr\u00e1 sustituir a su ex pareja.<\/p>\n

That’s why taking some time to heal is necessary and the only way to a future happy love life.<\/p>\n

2. Entran en una nueva relaci\u00f3n con el temor de volver a salir heridos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si una pareja anterior les hizo da\u00f1o, lo m\u00e1s probable es que inicien una nueva relaci\u00f3n con el temor de que les vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Esto significa estar constantemente atento a cualquier posible amenaza e indicio de que su pareja est\u00e1 a punto de hacerle da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

It means constantly asking their new partner about their whereabouts, not trusting them (even when they’re telling the truth), thinking that they’re doing something behind their back, or thinking that they might eventually do it.<\/p>\n

All this is extremely toxic for both partners and it’s the main reason why such a rebound relationship will not last for long.<\/p>\n

3. Se precipitan en una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si alguien se siente poco querido o si todav\u00eda tiene sentimientos hacia su ex, puede redirigir estos sentimientos hacia su nueva pareja.<\/p>\n

Como consecuencia de prodigarles demasiado afecto, iniciar las cosas demasiado pronto o cosas similares, precipitar\u00e1n las cosas en una nueva relaci\u00f3n y su nueva pareja empezar\u00e1 a sentirse asfixiada.<\/p>\n

Every relationship needs some space and time to develop at its own pace and that’s why any type of rushing can be extremely harmful and can seriously hurt any potential chances of the rebound relationship being successful.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 4 Things You Shouldn’t Do If You Don’t Want Your Relationship To End Before It Even Starts<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Si inician una nueva relaci\u00f3n sin mucha introspecci\u00f3n previa.<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

When someone doesn’t take some time to heal and think about their behavior and the whole breakup situation, they enter a new relationship without much introspection beforehand.<\/p>\n

Como consecuencia, corren el riesgo de repetir los mismos errores, pero ahora en otra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

After a breakup, it’s essential to take some time to introspect and see what the critical things in your previous relationship were, and what can you do to improve things in the future.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way to establish healthy connections in future contactos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

5. Si no son su verdadero yo<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Otra cosa que podr\u00eda bloquear seriamente una relaci\u00f3n de rebote de alcanzar su potencial es alguien que ha perdido su verdadero yo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto? Significa entrar en una nueva relaci\u00f3n estando todav\u00eda herido o bajo la influencia de una ruptura de una forma u otra.<\/p>\n

The only time a partner will be genuine and their true self is when they have accepted what happened and don’t have any emotional baggage regarding their past.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo estar\u00e1n preparados para disfrutar de un futuro saludable cuando se ocupen del bagaje de su pasado.<\/p>\n

6. Cuando traen demasiado equipaje a una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Bringing too much baggage into a new relationship is a surefire way to make sure it doesn\u2019t last.<\/p>\n

Tener asuntos pendientes con una ex pareja puede afectar negativamente a la relaci\u00f3n con una nueva pareja.<\/p>\n

Los dramas, las cargas emocionales y otros aspectos negativos impedir\u00e1n que una nueva pareja alcance todo su potencial y una relaci\u00f3n de este tipo est\u00e1 abocada al fracaso antes incluso de haber empezado.<\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

A veces, las relaciones de rebote pueden ser muy dif\u00edciles de entender, por no hablar de determinar su curso.<\/p>\n

While there’s no real recipe for how to make rebound relationships last longer, one thing is sure:<\/p>\n

Ser honesto con tu nueva pareja y entrar en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote por todas las razones correctas sin duda ayudar\u00e1 a que sea duradera.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 8 etapas de una relaci\u00f3n de rebote y consejos sobre c\u00f3mo manejar cada una de ellas<\/a><\/p>\n

\"\u00bfCu\u00e1nto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you’ve started a new relationship not long after a breakup, you’ve probably considered that age-old question: How long do rebound relationships last? Well, don’t worry because today you’ll learn everything you need to know about rebound relationships and the signs that indicate whether or not it will work! What Are Rebound Relationships? Before diving…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":56631,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56630","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/How-Long-Do-Rebound-Relationships-Last-And-Will-It-Work.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56630","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56630"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56630\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56631"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56630"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56630"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56630"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}