{"id":57122,"date":"2020-04-04T07:20:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T07:20:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57122"},"modified":"2021-11-29T21:45:08","modified_gmt":"2021-11-29T21:45:08","slug":"como-invitar-a-salir-a-una-chica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-invitar-a-salir-a-una-chica\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo pedir una cita a una chica: 13 sencillos pasos para el \u00e9xito"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apuesto a que no existe ning\u00fan chico en este planeta que no se haya preguntado c\u00f3mo acercarse a una chica que le gusta. \u00bfC\u00f3mo conseguir el n\u00famero de una chica y c\u00f3mo invitarla a salir? C\u00f3mo conseguir novia<\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes tener toneladas de experiencia pero cuando te encuentres frente al <\/span>la chica de tus sue\u00f1os<\/span><\/a> que tiene <\/span>todo lo que necesitas<\/span>todo se desvanece y te vuelves completamente insensible y despistado.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Or maybe you\u2019re an insecure, shy guy who hasn\u2019t had much luck with the opposite sex so far and who sees <\/span>juegos de citas<\/span> como <\/span>ciencia espacial<\/span> \u00bfpero espera cambiar eso?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s intentando averiguar <\/span>c\u00f3mo invitar a salir a una chica por SMS<\/span> o con la ayuda de <\/span>citas en l\u00ednea<\/span> \u00bfo quieres hacerlo en persona? <\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, se trata, sin duda, de un <\/span>angustioso<\/span> proceso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019ve come to the right place to get rid of your anxiety and insecurities. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tiene una gu\u00eda paso a paso para <\/span>c\u00f3mo invitar a una chica a salir<\/span> para la <\/span>primera vez<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Averigua m\u00e1s sobre su vida amorosa<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Before you get the answer to the long-running question \u2018<\/span>C\u00f3mo pedir una cita a una chica<\/span>?\u2019 firstly, you have to know whether she\u2019s single or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want to make the situation uncomfortable for both of you and ask a married or taken girl out because she\u2019ll definitely reject you. <\/span><\/p>\n

And even if she doesn\u2019t, do you really want to be someone she cheats on her boyfriend or husband with?<\/span><\/p>\n

Si es una chica que conoces de antes, fisgonea a su alrededor <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> perfiles y busque rastros de una pareja rom\u00e1ntica o pregunte a sus amigos comunes por ella. <\/span>amar la vida<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerda que una chica puede estar oficialmente soltera pero seguir involucrada emocionalmente con su ex o estar atrapada en alg\u00fan tipo de casi relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can use your detective skills to find out whether she\u2019s <\/span>emocionalmente disponible<\/span><\/a> and if she\u2019s not, I suggest you give up on her in time unless you want to deal with loads of her emotional baggage. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

However, figuring out whether a girl you see at a bar and know literally nothing about is taken or not is a little bit harder, even though it\u2019s not impossible. <\/span><\/p>\n

En primer lugar, busca un anillo de boda y, en segundo lugar, presta atenci\u00f3n a su comportamiento. \u00bfSe fija en ti o en otros chicos o se muestra reservada y act\u00faa como si tuviera un muro a su alrededor?<\/span><\/p>\n

A fin de cuentas, si ninguna de estas estrategias funciona, no hay nada malo en preguntarle directamente si <\/span>she\u2019s single<\/span><\/a> y disponible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if a girl is taken, she\u2019ll admire the way you respect her before making a move and if not, better for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Trabaja tu confianza<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Todos <\/span>consejos sobre citas<\/span><\/a> will tell you one thing\u2014you could be the best-looking guy in the world, <\/span><\/p>\n

Have a smoking hot body and an amazing personality to go with it but if you get all nervous and shaky when you\u2019re about to approach a girl, <\/span><\/p>\n

The chances that you\u2019ll actually get her number or that she\u2019ll agree to going out with you are low. <\/span><\/p>\n

Les guste admitirlo o no y les guste o\u00edrlo o no a la mayor\u00eda de los hombres, lo cierto es que la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres se enganchan a los hombres que act\u00faan como si fueran los due\u00f1os de la habitaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why players get the most luck\u2014because they\u2019ve hit on girls a million times and they have the confidence that they\u2019ll succeed with one as well. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should jump from one girl to another to become more attractive to the opposite sex. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tiene que <\/span>trabaja tu autoestima<\/span><\/a> si quieres que m\u00e1s mujeres se enamoren de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Act like you know what and who you want and show her that you\u2019re not afraid to get it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t think of yourself as the perfect man, pretend that you do and I assure you that she\u2019ll believe you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember\u2014there are no such things as different leagues when it comes to dating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t devalue yourself by not wanting to approach a girl you think is better than you and trust me that you can knock any woman off her feet if you\u2019re just confident enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you think lowly of yourself, she will share your opinion. However, if you\u2019re convinced that you have a lot to offer, you\u2019ll send a positive <\/span>vibe<\/span> and she\u2019ll like you before she even gets to know you. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Esperar el momento oportuno<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you plan to <\/span>enviar un mensaje a una chica<\/span> invitarla a salir, si quieres hacerlo a trav\u00e9s de <\/span>Tinder<\/span> o alg\u00fan otro <\/span>aplicaci\u00f3n de citas<\/span> o quieres hacerlo en persona; <\/span><\/p>\n

En cada escenario posible, tienes que encontrar el momento perfecto para hacerlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

If this is a girl you\u2019ve been talking to for a while, you won\u2019t suggest your <\/span>primera cita<\/span><\/a> if you know that she\u2019s in the middle of a family emergency, if she\u2019s overloaded with work or if she has exams. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if we\u2019re talking about a girl you saw in public and know nothing about her, don\u2019t ask her out while she\u2019s in the middle of a conversation or while she\u2019s super busy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, there is a huge difference between someone you see on a regular basis and a girl you suppose you won\u2019t meet ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re talking about a woman you\u2019ll run into very soon, you have enough time to wait for the perfect moment and to observe the situation carefully before making a move. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you see this as your only chance and have no idea whether you\u2019ll see this girl who charmed you ever again, be brave and go for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ask her out even if she\u2019s in the middle of something or if she\u2019s surrounded by her <\/span>buenos amigos<\/span> o familia; al fin y al cabo, no tienes nada que perder.<\/span><\/p>\n

Another important thing is to pay more attention to this girl\u2019s mood. <\/span><\/p>\n

If she\u2019s angry, cranky or about to cry, maybe it would be best to leave her alone and wait for another opportunity. <\/span><\/p>\n

En este caso, es probable que te rechace sin siquiera mirarte. Est\u00e1 claro que tiene problemas y lo \u00faltimo que quiere es que alguien se le insin\u00fae. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, ser\u00eda perfecto si pudieras esperar a que est\u00e9 de buen humor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Observa si tiene una sonrisa en la cara y si parece feliz en general. As\u00ed tendr\u00e1s m\u00e1s posibilidades de que te diga que s\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Luzca lo mejor posible<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You see, girls are quite different from guys when it comes to physical appearance. They\u2019re not obsessed with abs the way men are with boobs or ass. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, you don\u2019t have to look like a fitness model to get a girl\u2019s attention (or conseguir novia<\/a>) porque tu cuerpo es probablemente lo \u00faltimo en lo que piensa. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, just because nobody is asking you to be perfect, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can let loose completely and disregard your appearance altogether. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even though most girls won\u2019t be fascinated by your abs or toned shoulders, the truth is that they\u2019re also human beings and can\u2019t help but notice whether you\u2019re attractive or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re just about to approach this girl and you still haven\u2019t had a chance to <\/span>impresionarla<\/span><\/a> con tu personalidad, as\u00ed que tu aspecto es lo \u00fanico que puede atraerla hacia ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, ir al gimnasio o realizar alg\u00fan tipo de actividad f\u00edsica es siempre una ventaja. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de ayudarte a conseguir m\u00e1s chicas, el ejercicio tambi\u00e9n te har\u00e1 sentir mejor y m\u00e1s seguro de ti mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Another thing is your clothes. You don\u2019t have to be dressed like you\u2019ve just gotten off a runway but you won\u2019t be wearing shorts or sweatpants in a crowded club on a Saturday night, will you now?<\/span><\/p>\n

The point is to be dressed for the occasion and not to look like you\u2019ve put on the first thing that you found in your closet. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si tienes dudas sobre qu\u00e9 ponerte, <\/span>simplificar<\/span>; wear jeans and neutral-colored shirts and you\u2019re good to go. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, presta atenci\u00f3n a tu higiene personal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Make sure you smell good at all times but don\u2019t use too much cologne because you don\u2019t want to make everyone around you noxious. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Env\u00edale se\u00f1ales de que te gusta<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Antes de tomar medidas concretas, ser\u00eda estupendo que pudiera <\/span>ligar<\/span> con la chica que te gusta. Tu <\/span>coqueto<\/span> behavior will prepare her for what\u2019s coming next and you\u2019ll help yourself relax more. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you send a girl you\u2019re into the right amount and type of signals, half of your job is already done. <\/span><\/p>\n

De este modo, te resultar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil acercarte a ella y es m\u00e1s probable que diga que s\u00ed a tu propuesta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hay algunas situaciones en la vida en las que <\/span>gestos no verbales<\/span><\/a> dicen m\u00e1s que las propias palabras y coquetear es una de ellas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Empieza por echarle un vistazo. Intenta profundizar <\/span>contacto visual<\/span> and stare directly at her as this is a universal sign that says. \u201cI like you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look away when she stares back at you. Instead, continue maintaining <\/span>contacto visual<\/span><\/a> y seguir seduci\u00e9ndola. <\/span><\/p>\n

Smile every time you see her and make sure she realizes she\u2019s the reason for your good mood. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si los dos ten\u00e9is alg\u00fan tipo de comunicaci\u00f3n o sal\u00eds en el mismo grupo de <\/span>buenos amigos<\/span>Iniciar contacto f\u00edsico. <\/span><\/p>\n

For example, \u2018accidentally\u2019 touch her every time you have the chance to; put your hand on her waist, <\/span><\/p>\n

Touch her shoulder when you\u2019re making a point or grab her hand when you\u2019re in the middle of a conversation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sit next to her every time you are together, whisper as close as possible to her ear while you\u2019re talking and never forget to hug her or kiss her on the cheek when you two greet or say goodbye. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Echa un vistazo a sus comentarios<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It would be great if you could accomplish what you want just by sending your non-verbal signals to the girl you\u2019re into. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, sadly, for most men, things don\u2019t actually work in that simple manner.<\/span><\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, you have to follow this girl\u2019s feedback and her <\/span>signos del lenguaje corporal<\/span><\/a> antes de proceder a cualquier acci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

The last thing you want is for her to think of you as a creep she can\u2019t get rid of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, it is crucial to respect everyone\u2019s boundaries and personal space. <\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, you won\u2019t continue \u2018accidentally\u2019 touching her if you see that she is moving away every time you approach.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo primero a lo que debe prestar atenci\u00f3n es <\/span>contacto visual<\/span>. \u00bfTe devuelve la mirada o mira hacia otro lado?<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be discouraged even if the latter happens; maybe she is just shy and doesn\u2019t want you to notice right away that she is interested. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es posible que te est\u00e9 tomando el pelo o que se est\u00e9 haciendo la dura, as\u00ed que no es el momento de rendirse. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfSonr\u00ede involuntariamente cuando entras en la habitaci\u00f3n? \u00bfSus amigos hablan contigo para saber m\u00e1s sobre tus intereses y tu relaci\u00f3n? <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Does she bite her lip when she\u2019s talking to you? Or does she roll her eyes every time she sees you nearby?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfSe r\u00ede de tus chistes tontos? \u00bfTe toca la mano o el hombro cuando dices algo gracioso?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 flirteando o se esfuerza por <\/span>ligar<\/span> \u00bfAtr\u00e1s? Todos estos son <\/span>buenas se\u00f1ales<\/span> that she likes you back and that it’s safe for you to make a move. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estas son todas las preguntas que debe hacerse antes de dar el paso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque la mayor\u00eda de tus respuestas sean negativas, no son autom\u00e1ticamente se\u00f1ales de que debas echarte atr\u00e1s; tal vez la chica que te interesa s\u00f3lo necesite m\u00e1s tiempo para relajarse antes de aceptar salir contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re getting <\/span>se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/span><\/a> and don\u2019t know what to think regarding this girl\u2019s feelings for you, just rely on your intuition. <\/span><\/p>\n

Try to be realistic but every time you\u2019re in doubt, follow your gut and I can assure you that you won\u2019t be mistaken. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Plan what you\u2019ll say<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

The number one mistake a lot of dudes make when they\u2019re trying to ask a girl on a date is that they get too nervous. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, this is something you can\u2019t control and as much as you try, you can\u2019t help but get tongue-tied, have sweaty palms and let your insecurities get the best of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, this is a girl you\u2019re into and the last thing you want is her rejecting you. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, even if you don\u2019t like her that much, you\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll get embarrassed and that she\u2019ll ruin your self-esteem. <\/span><\/p>\n

In order to avoid all of this from happening and for you to display more confident behavior, the trick is to plan ahead what you\u2019ll say. <\/span><\/p>\n

Naturally, you can never know what her responses will be so you can\u2019t memorize every line by heart, nor can you predict the outcome of the entire situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, puedes pensar en las cosas que quieres decir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 <\/span>l\u00edneas para ligar<\/span><\/a> \u00bfla felicitar\u00e1s? Cuando le hagas un cumplido, \u00bfte centrar\u00e1s en su aspecto o en su personalidad?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfLe pedir\u00e1s una cita enseguida o intentar\u00e1s comunicarte primero? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfSeguir\u00e1 un enfoque m\u00e1s serio o romper\u00e1 el hielo con algunas bromas?<\/span><\/p>\n

Elabore un plan de acci\u00f3n y, si es necesario, anote todos los pasos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puedes consultar a tus amigos sobre este asunto; pide consejo a tus amigos chicos y opiniones a tus amigas chicas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, si tienes poca experiencia a la hora de ligar, practica antes de ir a por todas. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not telling you to lead on some innocent girls and use them as your tools <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero no hay nada de malo en entablar una conversaci\u00f3n con alguien del sexo opuesto de vez en cuando, para relajarse. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Planificar una actividad<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re asking a girl out, you have to show initiative and decisiveness and the best way to accomplish that is to invite her to a specific activity rather than vaguely propose a <\/span>primera cita<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si se trata de una mujer con la que ya has tenido alg\u00fan tipo de contacto, pon algo de empe\u00f1o en investigar las cosas que esta <\/span>chica le gusta<\/span> haciendo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Llegar al fondo de sus intereses e idear una <\/span>idea para la primera cita<\/span><\/a> en consecuencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t tell her that you\u2019ve been stalking her. Instead, you\u2019ll make it all look like a coincidence.<\/span><\/p>\n

This way, she\u2019ll think that you like the same things she does and she\u2019ll be more than happy that she found someone so similar and compatible with her. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de preguntarle si quiere tener una cita, menci\u00f3nale casualmente que, por ejemplo, tienes entradas para un concierto de su grupo favorito y preg\u00fantale si quiere acompa\u00f1arte. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, make sure she realizes it\u2019s a date and not just a friendly get-together. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Otra cosa a tener en cuenta en su <\/span>primera cita<\/span> es evitar complicarlo demasiado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Que sea sencillo<\/span> y eso te dar\u00e1 m\u00e1s oportunidades de que diga que s\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Evita cosas como viajes por carretera (porque podr\u00eda sentirse inc\u00f3moda viajando con alguien a quien acaba de conocer), lugares demasiado aventureros (porque simplemente podr\u00eda no gustarle ese tipo de cosas), <\/span><\/p>\n

Ir a la piscina (probablemente no querr\u00e1 que la veas en ba\u00f1ador o sin maquillaje de inmediato). <\/span><\/p>\n

Or activities which include spending the night (she\u2019ll reject you because she\u2019ll think you expect her to sleep with you). <\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerda que el objetivo final de esta cita es que los dos <\/span>conocerse mejor<\/span><\/a> y tener la oportunidad de hablar, as\u00ed que invitarla a salir a un club ruidoso no es lo m\u00e1s adecuado. <\/span><\/p>\n

En cambio, un simple almuerzo, una cena o unas copas ser\u00e1n m\u00e1s que suficientes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make a plan but don\u2019t stick to it too firmly. The point is for her to like you for you, not because of an amazing, expensive date idea you have figured out. <\/span><\/p>\n

The same applies if we\u2019re talking about a girl you have no clue about. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, in this scenario, you can\u2019t surprise her by proposing something you know she\u2019ll like but keeping things as casual as possible is always the rule. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, when you\u2019re suggesting a date, don\u2019t ask her to go out with you late at night unless you want her to think she\u2019s nothing but a booty call. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todas las chicas te tomar\u00e1n mucho m\u00e1s en serio si les propones una cita a una hora razonable. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Muchos chicos cometen el error de invitar a una chica a una cita de la nada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Simplemente se acercan a una chica en un bar, se presentan y sin rodeos proceden a pedirle su n\u00famero e invitarla a salir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque este <\/span>enfoque fr\u00edo<\/span><\/a> es audaz, lamentablemente, es poco probable que funcione, por muy caliente que est\u00e9s y a pesar de la <\/span>l\u00ednea de recogida<\/span> que podr\u00edas utilizar. <\/span><\/p>\n

A las chicas se les insin\u00faan los t\u00edos todo el tiempo. Por eso, la mayor\u00eda de ellas han desarrollado una especie de mecanismo de defensa que les ayuda a defenderse de los diferentes tipos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Consequently, almost every girl\u2019s first reaction is to tell you no. <\/span><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll reject you before she even gives you a chance and before she even takes a good look at you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019re a stranger and it is completely natural for this girl to be scared of going out with someone she knows nothing about. <\/span><\/p>\n

This might sound silly to you but trust me\u2014women have different perspectives on these things since they have faced many uncomfortable situations.<\/span><\/p>\n

Knowing all of this, you should realize why it\u2019s important to find a way to start a conversation with this girl before asking her out. <\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014as soon as you approach her, she\u2019ll be aware of your intentions but she\u2019ll find your efforts cute and your conversation will help her relax. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Su <\/span>temas de conversaci\u00f3n<\/span> depender\u00e1 de la situaci\u00f3n; si se encuentra en un <\/span>cafeter\u00eda<\/span> o bar, puedes invitarla a una copa, <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are at a gym, you can compliment her workout routine and if you\u2019re at a club, you can ask her for a dance. <\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, lo m\u00e1s importante es usar tu encanto y <\/span>sentido del humor<\/span> en tu beneficio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Proceda con algunos  <\/span>charla trivial<\/span>Intenta presentarte a un nivel m\u00e1s profundo que decir tu nombre y tu edad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, when you\u2019re about to part ways, if you see that she is digging your story, ask for her <\/span>n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono<\/span> o simplemente proponer quedar al d\u00eda siguiente. <\/span><\/p>\n

 10. Tomar medidas<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Some girls need time before agreeing to date a guy, no matter how much they like him, Even though you shouldn\u2019t be too pushy, waiting for too long will get you nowhere either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat around the bush and as soon as you see that she is into you, go for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos <\/span>consejos de citas<\/span> le dir\u00e1 que <\/span>actuar<\/span>Sea directo e intr\u00e9pido, a menos que quiera acabar atrapado en el <\/span>friendzone<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante de este paso es que la chica se d\u00e9 cuenta de que le est\u00e1s pidiendo una cita de verdad.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going out with a bunch of other people, you\u2019re not using her to kill time and you\u2019re not about to hang out for the sake of hanging out or because you want to be friends\u2014<\/span><\/p>\n

you\u2019re asking her out because you like her and it is your job to make this clear. <\/span><\/p>\n

11. Don\u2019t make a big deal about it<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Okay, so you\u2019re super excited about going out with this girl. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat yourself up about this because that\u2019s cute and perfectly normal when it comes to someone you like.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, she shouldn\u2019t notice that this is <\/span>ciencia espacial<\/span> para ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, it\u2019s your job to make her think that you\u2019re just casually bringing this date up and that you haven\u2019t spent hours or day and night thinking things through and planning ahead your every move.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, aunque digan que quieren chicos que les presten toda la atenci\u00f3n del mundo, la verdad es que la situaci\u00f3n es bastante diferente cuando se trata de la mayor\u00eda de las chicas de hoy en d\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should ignore them or play mind games to become more desirable but being too needy or desperate is also not the way to go. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you show this girl that she is so important to you, you\u2019ll scare her off. She\u2019ll be afraid that she won\u2019t be able to meet your expectations and she\u2019ll back out before she even gives it a try. <\/span><\/p>\n

Olv\u00eddate de enviarle <\/span>cartas<\/span><\/a> o largos p\u00e1rrafos de mensajes de texto. Olv\u00eddate de docenas de rosas, globos u otros gestos rom\u00e1nticos. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that you want to leave a good impression and be a gentleman (after all, that is what all girls theoretically ask for, isn\u2019t it?) but trust me\u2014being too formal will only cause a counterproductive effect. <\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, haz todo lo posible por quitarle presi\u00f3n a tu posible cita y haz que tu propuesta suene lo m\u00e1s natural y relajada posible. <\/span><\/p>\n

12. Hable con ella en privado<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan la mayor\u00eda <\/span>consejos sobre citas<\/span><\/a>, one of the worst mistakes you could make when asking a girl out is doing so while you\u2019re both surrounded by people. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es inc\u00f3modo, provoca tensi\u00f3n y puede complicar a\u00fan m\u00e1s la situaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019ll make her feel uncomfortable. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never know whether she said yes because she didn\u2019t want to embarrass you in front of your friends or she rejected you because she wanted to appear cool in front of hers.<\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, as\u00ed es m\u00e1s probable que pierdas la concentraci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to perform well in front of her only but also in front of a bunch of other people, which will probably make you forget everything you planned ahead. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si te rechaza cuando est\u00e9is solos, las cosas ser\u00e1n menos inc\u00f3modas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si lo hace delante de los dem\u00e1s, puedes acabar sinti\u00e9ndote humillada y con la autoestima por los suelos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, another argument in favor of asking a girl out in private is your manners. It is rude to interrupt someone else\u2019s conversation. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is especially the case if she\u2019s out with her girlfriends.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Maybe they decided to have a night for themselves and agreed on ignoring every guy who approaches them, which means you don\u2019t stand a chance right from the start.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, invitar a salir a una chica en privado es, sin duda, lo que hay que hacer si quieres obtener una respuesta positiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, this is more easily done if she is someone you keep on running into but it can be done even if we\u2019re talking about a girl you are scared of never seeing again. <\/span><\/p>\n

En este caso, espera a que se dirija al ba\u00f1o o dile al camarero que le env\u00ede las bebidas y que le pregunte si le parece bien que te acerques. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t get your opportunity, wait for her to be headed home and make your move there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just tell her that you\u2019ve been looking at her all night, that she is gorgeous and that you would like to stay in touch. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes dejarle tu<\/span> n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono<\/span> o pregunte por la suya. <\/span><\/p>\n

13. Acepta su respuesta con dignidad<\/h2>\n

\"fotograf\u00eda<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you here\u2014when you\u2019re figuring out how to ask a girl out, you can go by the book, <\/span><\/p>\n

follow all the rules and steps but still don\u2019t get a chance with the girl of your interest. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is no perfect recipe for asking a girl out, nor can anyone guarantee with certainty that you\u2019ll succeed and that everything will go as planned. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, aunque te rechace, tienes que aceptarlo con dignidad.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that it\u2019s her right; maybe she is interested in so<\/span>meone else, maybe she still hasn\u2019t recovered from her past relationship or hopes to get her ex back,<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe she enjoys her single life and doesn\u2019t want to get into the <\/span>juego de citas<\/span><\/a>es<\/span><\/a> or maybe she simply doesn\u2019t like you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tough break, I know. Nevertheless, don\u2019t take it to<\/span>o personally and remember it\u2019s not the end of the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo que se te ocurrir\u00eda hacer es insultar a esa chica o tratar de menospreciarla, sobre todo si te ha rechazado educadamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if she was rude, it\u2019s your job to walk away because her b<\/span>l comportamiento dice algo de ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, at least you\u2019ll know you\u2019ve tried. You\u2019ve managed to win over your fear and insecurities and you\u2019ve put yourself out there. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve given your best and that is much better than not giving it a shot at all. She just decided not to give you a chance and that has nothing to do with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

De hecho, puedes verlo como una experiencia valiosa y el tipo de trabajo pr\u00e1ctico que te ser\u00e1 \u00fatil en el futuro, con otras chicas que seguramente te dar\u00e1n una respuesta positiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t lose hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we advised you to take this girl\u2019s answer with dignity, we meant you should do the same if she decides to go out with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas que dijimos que no <\/span>gran cosa<\/span> \u00bfSobre todo? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it is okay if you smile and show her that you\u2019re glad about getting a chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you shouldn\u2019t jump around and start acting like this is the only time you\u2019ve managed to persuade a girl to go out on a date with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si empieza a pensar que ha cumplido tus sue\u00f1os d\u00e1ndote un simple s\u00ed, le dar\u00e1 mucho poder sobre ti y eso no es lo que quieres desde el principio. <\/span><\/p>\n

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