{"id":57564,"date":"2020-03-30T10:28:46","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T10:28:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57564"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:30:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:30:11","slug":"toma-la-decision-de-sanar-tu-alma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/toma-la-decision-de-sanar-tu-alma\/","title":{"rendered":"Tienes que tomar la decisi\u00f3n de sanar tu alma aunque te duela el coraz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pensaste que hab\u00edas encontrado a tu amor eterno. Era el \u00fanico hombre al que hab\u00edas amado.<\/p>\n<p>Tu amor por \u00e9l era puro y profundo como un oc\u00e9ano. Tus sentimientos eran sinceros y fuertes.<\/p>\n<p>You thought that your love was one of a kind and that you wouldn\u2019t love anyone as much as you loved him.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, you couldn&#8217;t see the other side of that love story. Your love made you blind.<\/p>\n<p>Hiciste la vista gorda a sus defectos fatales y al hecho de que no era el adecuado para ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57568 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven con el pelo oscuro de pie fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>En realidad, te enamoraste de la versi\u00f3n de \u00e9l que creaste en tu cabeza. La realidad era tan diferente, desordenada y mala.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After some time, you realized that your honest love didn&#8217;t let you see the real him, the man who took your love for granted.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cuando-tu-hombre-no-te-valora-se-merece-perder\/\">The man who didn&#8217;t deserve you<\/a>. The man who wouldn&#8217;t shed a single tear for you.&nbsp; The man who only used your naivety and your sincere love.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre encontrabas excusas para su comportamiento. Justificabas todo lo que te hac\u00eda porque pensabas que simplemente ten\u00eda un mal d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Ten\u00edas miedo de decir lo que te molestaba porque te hac\u00eda creer que tu opini\u00f3n era err\u00f3nea.<\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t want to stand up to his criticism or to ask him for things you needed because you were afraid of his rejection or that he\u2019d leave you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57569 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja abraz\u00e1ndose en la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You hoped that he\u2019d change. You prayed every day for that moment to happen. And it never did. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You should know that you can&#8217;t change a man who never wanted to change.<\/p>\n<p>Your soul was exhausted. The damage that his so-called \u2018love\u2019 left on your soul was almost irreparable.<\/p>\n<p>Inmediatamente supo que curarse de todo aquello ser\u00eda una de las tareas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles que tendr\u00eda que hacer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your only mistake was believing in love that didn&#8217;t exist.<\/strong> Oh, lo siento, exist\u00eda, pero s\u00f3lo en tu lado.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso lo hace a\u00fan peor. Un amor unilateral es el mayor dolor que una persona puede sentir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57570 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja junto al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>One day, you woke up and finally realized that he wasn&#8217;t worth it and it made you feel ready for everything that was coming.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/la-mujer-traicionada-tiene-que-seguir-adelante\/\">Su traici\u00f3n fue la gota que colm\u00f3 el vaso<\/a> the camel&#8217;s back. You decided that it was enough, you couldn&#8217;t put up with him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Arruin\u00f3 tu autoestima. Cuando lo dejaste, comprendiste que ya no hab\u00eda nadie que te estorbara.<\/p>\n<p>Quer\u00edas trabajar en ti mismo. Demostrar tu val\u00eda a ti mismo y al resto del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Has llegado a la conclusi\u00f3n de que el amor no basta, sobre todo si es unilateral. Una relaci\u00f3n sana necesita mucho m\u00e1s que amor.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas nutrirlo cada d\u00eda para que perdure.  Necesita todo lo que el hombre nunca fue capaz de darle.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57571 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven mirada pensativa y mirando al exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>In order to find true happiness, you had to make the right decision\u2014to let go. Let go of him and move the hell on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t lie to you. It always hurts. Your heart will now be broken into pieces.<\/p>\n<p>Pensar\u00e1s que nunca <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/curarse-plenamente-acogiendo-el-pensamiento-consciente-y-el-descanso\/\">sanar completamente<\/a> o ser capaz de encontrar un nuevo amor.<\/p>\n<p>Leaving him was one of the most courageous decisions you\u2019ll ever make. Believe me and don&#8217;t give up.<\/p>\n<p>You will collect all the broken pieces of your heart and glue them together again. You&#8217;ll gather the strength to move on.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll survive and it will all be just one bad dream for you. A dream you left where it belongs\u2014in the past.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57572 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada junto al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te marcar\u00e1s nuevos objetivos y sue\u00f1os. Y cada d\u00eda trabajar\u00e1s para hacerlos realidad y ser una mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Date tiempo para sanar. Conocer\u00e1s a la persona que te amar\u00e1 como te mereces. Ya sabes, de la forma en que lo amaste.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Intenta encontrar la fuerza en tu dolor. Intenta recomponerte y descubrir\u00e1s que eres m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que eras antes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He was meant to be a part of your journey but obviously, he wasn&#8217;t meant to stay until the end.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time for you to be happy again and that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/es-hora-de-que-finalmente-cierre-el-capitulo-de-ti-y-siga-adelante\/\">por qu\u00e9 debe seguir adelante<\/a>. Close that chapter.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t let one bad experience make you afraid to live your life.<\/p>\n<p>God sends us some people as a blessing to our life but he also sends us some people to teach us a lesson.&nbsp; He was your lesson BUT you&#8217;ll find your blessing one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57574 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Tienes que tomar la decisi\u00f3n de sanar tu alma aunque te duela el coraz\u00f3n\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You thought that you\u2019d found your forever love. He was the only man you ever loved. Your love for him was pure and deep like an ocean itself. Your feelings were sincere and strong. You thought that your love was one of a kind and that you wouldn\u2019t love anyone as much as you loved&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":57573,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-57564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Have-To-Make-A-Decision-To-Heal-Your-Soul-Even-If-It-Hurts-Your-Heart.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=57564"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57564\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/57573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=57564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=57564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=57564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}