{"id":57650,"date":"2020-03-30T16:53:43","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T16:53:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57650"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:36:18","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:36:18","slug":"mantenerse-soltero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mantenerse-soltero\/","title":{"rendered":"8 maneras de mantenerte soltero inconscientemente"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe encuentras pensando: \u00bfEncontrar\u00e9 alguna vez el amor verdadero?<\/em><\/p>\n

El amor es algo que todo el mundo necesita. Todo el mundo quiere sentirse seguro y cuidado.<\/p>\n

When you have a significant other, it’s easier to face challenges and everyday life is happier and more comfortable overall.<\/p>\n

If you’re one of those people who is losing hope when it comes to their love life, ask yourself if these things are subconsciously keeping you solo<\/a>:<\/p>\n

1. You haven\u2019t really gotten over your ex<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nYou know he wasn’t the one but that doesn\u2019t keep you from feeling nostalgic over the time you spent together.<\/p>\n

It may look good in your mind, in your memories, but in reality, it’s probably better you’re not together.<\/p>\n

Be honest with yourself and think about this possibility; if that doesn\u2019t help, remember the reason why you broke up in the first place.<\/p>\n

2. Escuchas a tus amigos m\u00e1s que a ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"dos
\nOk, so you meet a guy and you like him; naturally, the first person you’re going to talk about it to is your friend and sometimes friends project their own experiences and worries onto us.<\/p>\n

Friends mean us no harm but that doesn’t mean they can\u2019t do any harm. Listen to your friend but listen to yourself first.<\/p>\n

If you like someone, go for it; you don’t need permission from anyone.<\/p>\n

3. Sus normas no son racionales<\/h2>\n

\"chica
\nMaybe it’s because you were hurt before or maybe you’re just stubborn but setting irrationally high standards doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

Every person is different and every person has their good and bad sides. We can’t think our perfect person into existence; that\u2019s not how it works.<\/p>\n

For love to be true, we need to accept the fact that everyone makes mistakes and the fact that what we think is best for us isn\u2019t always best for us.<\/p>\n

4. You don’t believe good men exist<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nObviamente, esta l\u00f3gica est\u00e1 causada por malas experiencias con su pareja anterior o con figuras masculinas de su vida.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to believe in the goodness of men once we experience terrible things. However, the reality is that good men do exist.<\/p>\n

Once you start believing in the existence of good men, they will appear in your life. Don’t judge all men based on one experience. Give them a chance.<\/p>\n

5. You’re afraid of being hurt again<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nSe trata de una reacci\u00f3n normal cuando se trata de sobrevivir a alg\u00fan tipo de trauma.<\/p>\n

Maybe you’re telling yourself you want to be alone but the truth is you’re just scared of being hurt.<\/p>\n

El miedo a que te hagan da\u00f1o puede perjudicar enormemente tu vida amorosa. Hay que curarse y seguir adelante. Cuando el verdadero amor llame a tu puerta, \u00a1prep\u00e1rate para abrirla!<\/p>\n

6. You’re too focused on your career and other things in life<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa
\nRelationships need effort to work out. When you’re busy with things like your career or some type of time-consuming business, you’re putting aside your love life.<\/p>\n

That’s okay\u2014if that’s what you want! If that’s not what you want, think about the priorities in your life.<\/p>\n

Nothing is set in stone, you’re free to change your life if you want to.<\/p>\n

7. Romantizas las relaciones y conf\u00edas en el destino<\/h2>\n

\"hombre
\nCreer en el destino y en el amor verdadero es algo positivo. En cambio, esperar que alguien o algo haga el trabajo por ti es delirante.<\/p>\n

Asume tu responsabilidad y emprende acciones que puedan conducirte a tu objetivo. Para que algo suceda, primero tienes que crear la posibilidad.<\/p>\n

8. Te quedas demasiado tiempo en casa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nI know there are introverts among us but that shouldn\u2019t stop you from finding the love of your life.<\/p>\n

Si te gusta quedarte en casa y pasar el tiempo leyendo un libro o viendo pel\u00edculas, puedes estar seguro de que en alg\u00fan lugar hay una persona a la que le gusta hacer lo mismo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo ten\u00e9is que encontraros.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like clubs or bars, try online options. List your interests and try your luck; why not?<\/p>\n

To sum this up, here\u2019s what I need to say: Don\u2019t deny yourself love.<\/p>\n

Be open and good things will come your way. Love takes courage so be brave and don\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n

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