{"id":5770,"date":"2017-09-28T12:59:42","date_gmt":"2017-09-28T12:59:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5770"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:01:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:01:09","slug":"senorita-correcta-aunque-nunca-oficialmente-saliendo-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senorita-correcta-aunque-nunca-oficialmente-saliendo-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTengo derecho a echarle de menos aunque nunca hayamos sido novios oficialmente?"},"content":{"rendered":"

No dejo de preguntarme,<\/span> \u201cDo I have the right to be sad now that we are no longer together?\u201d <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

We were never exclusive. Barely anybody knew about us. People usually thought that we are just good friends that hang out together, go out, have the same friends. They would sometimes say something like, \u201cYou guys should be together\u2014you fit just perfectly!\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

Sol\u00edamos pelearnos tantas veces como un viejo matrimonio y vernos las caras igualmente. Ten\u00edamos muchos temas, ideas y sue\u00f1os en com\u00fan. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s what I miss the most. Us, dreaming and planning the future. We never said it was our future together. But we were both there. You never said I am your girlfriend. You never pictured me as your wife in those little fantasies of ours. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But, I was the one that was standing there right beside you every step of the way. What happened to that picture\u2014why am I standing here all alone???<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Cada vez que nos encontr\u00e1bamos con alguien que conoc\u00edas, me presentabas como un amigo. Eso me molestaba durante una fracci\u00f3n de segundo. Luego, en cuanto nos perd\u00edamos de vista, me acercabas y me besabas para quitarme todo lo que me molestaba. <\/span><\/p>\n

You used to say, \u201cWe know what we are., We don’t need to share everything with other people., <\/span>I like this secret love of ours.\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong>\u00a0Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que no quiere poner una etiqueta a su \"relaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

I agreed. I never thought that you need someone’s approval when you are in a relationship. All those couples displaying their love on Facebook and Instagram for everyone to see always seemed fake to me. It’s just not who I am. I like keeping things to myself. I liked keeping you for myself. <\/span>Eras mi secreto m\u00e1s dulce.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes, I think our love story was just in our minds. But, it wasn’t\u2014It was real. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Hab\u00eda sentimientos. Reales. Quiz\u00e1 nos quer\u00edamos m\u00e1s que la mayor\u00eda de la gente que tiene una relaci\u00f3n de manual. Al menos estoy seguro de que yo te quer\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now that I am overthinking everything, I come to think that maybe you were hiding me because you were so insecure about us\u2014cause you are the one that left me\u2014and I am still holding on to something. Still asking myself, <\/span>\u201cDo I have the right to cry about us even though you were never officially my boyfriend?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The truth is it doesn’t matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

I will cry anyway. I can\u2019t stop the tears from falling. You were mine. Someone and something of mine that cannot easily be replaced. <\/span>\u00a0I just don’t know what I should do with this love that you left behind?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Dejar\u00e9 que salga de m\u00ed a trav\u00e9s de las l\u00e1grimas. Tendr\u00e9 que dejar que duela. Luego dejar que sane. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I am going to go through the same process that I went through after a previous three-year relationship\u2014even though our thing lasted shorter. We shared so many common things. Not just physical stuff, even though I miss that, too. God, I miss that. But it felt like a real textbook relationship in every aspect and every segment. You leaving hurts even more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tengo la suerte de tener algunos amigos que sab\u00edan de ti. Es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil cuando comparto mis penas. Ellos tambi\u00e9n comparten las suyas conmigo. Aunque a menudo me preguntan,<\/span> \u201cHow can you miss somebody that was never yours?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

They don’t get it, I had you – you had me. You were mine – body, heart, and soul. Like no one before. My heart is broken and it doesn’t care whether we were labeled as a couple or not. It doesn’t care. It just grieves. And I have the right to grieve, too. \u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong>\u00a0No est\u00e1s loco por echar de menos a alguien que no es tuyo<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I just keep asking myself, \u201cDo I have the right to be sad now that we are no longer together?\u201d We were never exclusive. Barely anybody knew about us. People usually thought that we are just good friends that hang out together, go out, have the same friends. They would sometimes say something like, \u201cYou…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":5776,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5770","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thanh-alex-67732.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5770","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5770"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5770\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5776"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}