{"id":58080,"date":"2020-03-31T16:19:39","date_gmt":"2020-03-31T16:19:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58080"},"modified":"2022-01-20T11:23:33","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T11:23:33","slug":"deja-de-arreglar-sus-sentimientos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-arreglar-sus-sentimientos\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de intentar arreglar sus sentimientos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo peor por lo que puede pasar una mujer es enamorarse del potencial de un hombre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Experiencing butterflies in your stomach is a wonderful feeling. Sometimes it\u2019s so good, you don\u2019t want to see warning signs that start showing up. Even if they\u2019re obvious.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s crazy how far we can go to rationalize someone\u2019s messed up emotions and behavior. Love makes us act so recklessly.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Al principio, todo es perfecto: dulces mensajes de buenas noches, emocionantes primeras citas y hablar todo el d\u00eda. Pero al cabo de un tiempo, poco a poco, empieza a actuar de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

His feelings start getting out of control. One day he showers you with attention and the next you don\u2019t hear from him.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

His mood swings become more prominent and sometimes you can\u2019t figure out why he\u2019s acting as he does. Does he even care for you?<\/p>\n

You feel like there\u2019s some untold story he doesn\u2019t want to share with you. Still, the first thing you think to yourself is: \u00bfQu\u00e9 he hecho mal?<\/em><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not sure why so many women first think of themselves as the problem, but I\u2019m telling you: You\u2019re not the problem<\/em>. It\u2019s not your fault.<\/p>\n

His unresolved emotions are not your fault. You\u2019re not to blame for his inability to face his problems. His indecisiveness and lack of honesty are not on you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he wants your relationship to work out, he would make sure to do something about it. When a man knows what he wants, he is determined to get it. If he\u2019s ready for something long term, he acts like it.<\/p>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

Deja de intentar arreglar a hombres rotos<\/a>. They are not things to be fixed. They are not passive in the process of change and healing \u2013 they need to be involved.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean giving up on him. His problems are not caused by you and it\u2019s not likely you can fix them. It\u2019s more likely that you will be the one who ends up even more hurt.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not ready for you, he should be honest about it. Broken people who don\u2019t want to admit they need help make more people broken.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t force the change. No amount of adjusting or understanding will help his inner problems. Only he can do that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t pay for someone else\u2019s mistakes. You shouldn\u2019t wake up uncertain whether or not your significant other cares for you or loves you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Life\u2019s too short for half-hearted love. Sometimes it\u2019s better to just walk away.<\/p>\n

Todos los hombres y mujeres deben responsabilizarse de sus sentimientos y acciones. Nadie puede hacerlo por ellos.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be someone\u2019s collateral damage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s a fine line between helping someone and suffering because of something you have no power to change.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a difference in helping the one who wants to improve and someone who isn\u2019t making any effort.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

After all, we are makers of our destiny. Happiness comes when we decide. Love isn\u2019t parasitic, it\u2019s reciprocal.<\/p>\n

That means love, energy, care, and understanding are mutual, not one-sided. If that\u2019s not the case, eventually one side will burn out and the other will still need more.<\/p>\n

Las palabras no significan nada sin acciones que las confirmen.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t compromise your values, boundaries, and energy because of someone else\u2019s unbalanced needs. Stop the myth of good mujeres<\/em> que cambian la vida de (emocionalmente inestables o no disponibles) chicos malos<\/em>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not how it happens in real life. He needs to grow up and fix his own feelings.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to feel lost and miserable over something that\u2019s not your fault.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no point in a relationship where one always cares more. It\u2019s an awful feeling. If he doesn\u2019t commit to healing himself, he will not commit to you either.<\/p>\n

If he can\u2019t learn from the example of your love, he won\u2019t listen to anything else you say \u2013 not really.<\/p>\n

Stop fixing others when it\u2019s hurting you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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