{"id":58249,"date":"2020-04-07T20:25:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T20:25:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58249"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:23:23","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:23:23","slug":"ex-want-you-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ex-want-you-back\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te quiera de nuevo: 10 m\u00e9todos que realmente funcionan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Since you&#8217;re here, I&#8217;m going to take a wild guess and assume you\u2019re eager to know how to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-poderosas-maneras-de-hacer-que-te-quiera-de-nuevo-en-poco-tiempo\/\">haz que tu ex te quiera de nuevo<\/a>. \u00bfTengo calor?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all been there. We&#8217;ve all tried so hard to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-arrepentira-de-perderme-7-senales-de-que-lo-hara-como-hacer-que-lo-haga\/\">recuperar a un ex<\/a>s\u00f3lo para fracasar.<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;m going to share with you some proven methods that actually did help me get my ex-boyfriend back!<\/p>\n<p>Buckle up because you&#8217;re going to want to hear this.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-door-staring-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer en el suelo apoyada en la puerta del balc\u00f3n mirando al exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-door-staring-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-door-staring-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-door-staring-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you&#8217;re struggling to cope with your ex-girlfriend dumping you?<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you&#8217;re stalking your ex-boyfriend on social media, hoping to see he&#8217;s miserable?<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you&#8217;re about to see the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, debes saber que nada que merezca la pena es f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>Now, if you&#8217;re ready to make an effort for a second chance, here&#8217;s how you become a success story in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-cosas-de-las-que-te-das-cuenta-cuando-vuelves-a-salir-con-tu-ex\/\">recuperar a tu ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/citas-sobre-gente-falsa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Una colecci\u00f3n de citas y refranes de gente falsa para recordar en la vida<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te eche de menos?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58928\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-and-Man-inverted-profile.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer y hombre mirando de perfil invertido\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-and-Man-inverted-profile.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-and-Man-inverted-profile-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-and-Man-inverted-profile-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>First off, it&#8217;s not going to be a piece of cake, which is a perfect opportunity to show them how much you truly miss spending time with them.<\/p>\n<p>You were clearly not ready to end things and now your goal is to have your ex contact you (texting or phone call \u2013 both work) without you having to take the first step.<\/p>\n<p>You want to respect the initial no contact period in order to let enough time go by and everyone&#8217;s feelings stabilize.<\/p>\n<p>Your ex needs to see that you&#8217;re respectful of the space they needed before you meet up for the first time since ending your long-term relationship.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00faltima vez que os visteis fue un torbellino de emociones, as\u00ed que esto tiene que ir como la seda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58929\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-man-silhouette.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer delante pensando silueta al fondo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-man-silhouette.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-man-silhouette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-man-silhouette-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>La regla del no contacto es crucial, ya que te permite ordenar tu propia vida y convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo \u00faltimo que quieres es cometer los mismos errores una y otra vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Independientemente de qui\u00e9n acabara con ella en primer lugar y de c\u00f3mo fuera, necesitas recuperar la confianza en ti misma y volver a gan\u00e1rtela con las peque\u00f1as cosas que significan el mundo para ella.<\/p>\n<p>When your mutual friends start telling them about your new, improved ways, you&#8217;ll see if your ex still has a soft spot for you.<\/p>\n<p>Along with the methods I&#8217;m about to show you and some newfound self-esteem, you&#8217;ll be getting your best friend back in no time. Here&#8217;s how you start.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-arreglar-una-relacion-rota\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">C\u00f3mo arreglar una relaci\u00f3n rota: 10 maneras de arreglar las cosas<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>10 pasos para recuperar a tu ex<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Consigue el espacio que tanto necesitas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58930\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-faces-upwards.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre mira hacia arriba ojos cerrados\" width=\"800\" height=\"537\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-faces-upwards.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-faces-upwards-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-faces-upwards-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-faces-upwards-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No me canso de repetirlo. La \u00fanica manera de conseguir que tu ex te quiera de vuelta es distanci\u00e1ndote y dej\u00e1ndole (y dej\u00e1ndote) suficiente espacio para respirar.<\/p>\n<p>Quieres averiguar qu\u00e9 sali\u00f3 mal, \u00bfverdad? Quieres que vean que fue un error terminar las cosas, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p>Entonces, separaos un poco. Esto tiene muchas ventajas, y estas son las principales:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 It&#8217;ll help you clear your mind<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58931\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-walkway-backpack.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie en la pasarela sosteniendo una mochila\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-walkway-backpack.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-walkway-backpack-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-walkway-backpack-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La \u00fanica forma de ver las cosas desde su perspectiva y averiguar qu\u00e9 ha fallado es retroceder para verlo con claridad.<\/p>\n<p>Enviarles un mont\u00f3n de mensajes de texto es contraproducente para este paso.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas tiempo para entenderlo todo, y ellos tambi\u00e9n. Esto no significa que no debas ser educado si alguna vez te cruzas con ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Be kind and gracious, but don&#8217;t overstep your boundaries. It&#8217;ll tickle their fancy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 You&#8217;ll be single once again<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58932\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girlfriends-backview.jpg\" alt=\"Girlfriends brazos en la cintura backview\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girlfriends-backview.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girlfriends-backview-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girlfriends-backview-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When&#8217;s the last time you were truly single and able to just get into a carefree rebound relationship without feeling guilty?<\/p>\n<p>You need this and \u2013 most importantly \u2013 you deserve this!<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 soltero. S\u00e9 impulsivo. Haz lo que te haga feliz.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s all about rediscovering yourself and being your own best friend.<\/p>\n<p>Go out with your girlfriends. It&#8217;s never a bad idea to put yourself first.<\/p>\n<p>Once you do, it&#8217;ll also make your ex start missing you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 You&#8217;ll find your own passion<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58933\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-couch-camera.jpg\" alt=\"mujer en el sof\u00e1 sosteniendo la c\u00e1mara\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-couch-camera.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-couch-camera-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-couch-camera-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Para conseguir que tu ex-novio\/ex-novia vuelva a quererte, primero tienes que quererte a ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitan ver que eres t\u00fa mismo y que eres independiente y capaz de cuidar de ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Use this time to find your passion and dedicate yourself to it! Every next day is going to be so much easier if you&#8217;re doing something that fulfills you.<\/p>\n<p>Let things develop organically and just follow your gut. If it&#8217;s meant to be, it will be!<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/how-to-stop-being-a-narcissist-a-12-step-process-to-break-your-behavior-patterns\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">C\u00f3mo Dejar de Ser Narcisista: Un Proceso De 12 Pasos Para Romper Sus Patrones De Conducta<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>2. Aprende a ser feliz<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smiling-hair-flip.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer sonriente vuelta el pelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smiling-hair-flip.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smiling-hair-flip-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smiling-hair-flip-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabes lo que atrae a la gente hacia ti? Tu felicidad y tu capacidad para encontrar algo positivo en cada situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>A la gente le gusta estar cerca de quienes siempre encuentran un motivo para estar alegres.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 esa persona para ti. No para tu ex y no para nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que encontrar tu propia felicidad si quieres encontrarla tambi\u00e9n con otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>So many times I&#8217;ve depended on others to make me happy and do you know what it got me?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58937\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-long-hair-winter.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre pelo largo mirada triste invierno al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-long-hair-winter.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-long-hair-winter-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-long-hair-winter-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pura miseria. Hasta que por fin me di cuenta de que todo empieza por m\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Tu ex se sorprender\u00e1 gratamente al ver que haces que las cosas funcionen en medio de vuestra dura ruptura.<\/p>\n<p>A veces, la gente necesita espacio para encontrarse a s\u00ed misma antes de permitir que otra persona forme parte de su vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Perhaps this is how your story needs to unfold. You just need to find happiness on your own before you&#8217;re ready to let your partner add to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need a relationship coach and you don&#8217;t need anyone telling you that you&#8217;re not good enough.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58941\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-ricefields-white-top-jeans.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer en los arrozales con top blanco y vaqueros\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-ricefields-white-top-jeans.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-ricefields-white-top-jeans-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-ricefields-white-top-jeans-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pasar tiempo a solas te dar\u00e1 la oportunidad de encontrar la felicidad en tu interior antes de ped\u00edrsela a otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Haz todo aquello para lo que nunca tuviste tiempo cuando ten\u00edas pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t have second thoughts \u2013 just go for it!<\/p>\n<p>One day, you&#8217;ll wake up and realize that you&#8217;re perfectly happy spending time with just yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Y esa toma de conciencia te acercar\u00e1 un paso m\u00e1s a recuperar a tu amante.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Llega al fondo de tu ruptura<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58942\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-glasses-cap-hoodie.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre con capucha y gafas sujetando una gorra\" width=\"800\" height=\"526\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-glasses-cap-hoodie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-glasses-cap-hoodie-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-glasses-cap-hoodie-768x505.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante es averiguar por qu\u00e9 las cosas acabaron como acabaron.<\/p>\n<p>There is no going back if you don&#8217;t know what needs to be fixed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTen\u00edas problemas de intimidad? \u00bfEra incapaz de decir esas tres palabras m\u00e1gicas aunque las sintiera?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPasabais demasiado tiempo separados como para que eso acabara abriendo una brecha entre vosotros?<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que averiguar el problema exacto si quieres evitar que se repita.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re so curious to know how to make your ex-boyfriend want you back, show them you&#8217;re willing to work on the issues that drove you apart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58943\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-clasped-hands.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer rezando con las manos juntas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-clasped-hands.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-clasped-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-clasped-hands-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nadie quiere volver a un lugar roto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Respetando el periodo de no contacto, intenta reflexionar sobre vuestra relaci\u00f3n para obtener algunas pistas sobre lo que condujo a la ruptura.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Communication is a big deal. If you start seeing that you never found a common ground, that&#8217;s a good place to start getting them to see you becoming more aware of the reality of your situation.<\/p>\n<p>Show them you can adjust to their wishes and it&#8217;ll encourage them to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>Nadie es perfecto y la gente mete la pata. Pero cuando te quieres, tienes que ser capaz de llegar a un acuerdo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58944\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-arguing-silhouette.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja discutiendo dentro en silueta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-arguing-silhouette.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-arguing-silhouette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-arguing-silhouette-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tienes que ser capaz de dejar a un lado tu orgullo y hacer algo que tal vez no quieras hacer.<\/p>\n<p>Because guess what? Nobody can have it their way all the time. But when you love someone, you&#8217;re completely okay with that.<\/p>\n<p>Su felicidad es tu felicidad. Darles prioridad es m\u00e1s importante que salirte siempre con la tuya.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez s\u00f3lo necesit\u00e9is resolverlo para encontrar el camino de vuelta el uno al otro.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/mensajes-de-aniversario-para-el\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mensajes de aniversario para \u00e9l: 80+ Conmovedores Deseos de Novio<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>4. Establezca nuevos objetivos y c\u00famplalos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58945\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-touching-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer toc\u00e1ndose la frente tras una pared de cristal\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-touching-forehead.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-touching-forehead-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-touching-forehead-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando te plantees volver a tener una relaci\u00f3n con tu ex, debes hacerte algunas preguntas importantes.<\/p>\n<p>What is going to be different this time? How are you going to make sure that you don&#8217;t fall back into the same unhealthy patterns?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 l\u00edmites pondr\u00e1s para asegurarte una segunda oportunidad m\u00e1s feliz?<\/p>\n<p>Sin las respuestas a estas preguntas, no est\u00e1s preparado para volver a adentrarte en ese territorio.<\/p>\n<p>Los dos ten\u00e9is que discutir los pormenores antes de volver el uno al otro.<\/p>\n<p>Mi consejo es que evites tener intimidad f\u00edsica antes de resolver el aspecto emocional de las cosas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58946\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hug-from-behind.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja mujer abrazada por detr\u00e1s\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hug-from-behind.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hug-from-behind-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hug-from-behind-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Making love won&#8217;t fix anything until you have solid ground to stand on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00f3mese las cosas con calma. S\u00e9 un frente unido.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Si tu ex ha empezado a aceptar la idea de volver a ser pareja, id paso a paso y trabajad en equipo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t want your ex to mistake this for some fling.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitan saber que esto va en serio. Y la mejor forma de conseguirlo es dedicar tiempo a conocerse de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58947\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-wearing-shades-outdoors-sunlight.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja paseando por la playa con gafas de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-wearing-shades-outdoors-sunlight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-wearing-shades-outdoors-sunlight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-wearing-shades-outdoors-sunlight-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After having discussed everything that went on, you&#8217;re ready to move on to the next step.<\/p>\n<p>And that is figuring out how to make sure you&#8217;ll be careful this time around.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you can decide that you&#8217;ll never dismiss their needs again, and your ex can promise that they&#8217;ll start being better at communicating.<\/p>\n<p>Una decisi\u00f3n tan sencilla puede afectarte de forma tan positiva.<\/p>\n<p>And before you know it, you&#8217;ll be a brand new couple who actually stands a chance to make it work.<\/p>\n<p>Todo es posible con un poco de esfuerzo y perseverancia.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Don&#8217;t go back to your old habits<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59243\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/broken-glass-reflection-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Reflejo de cristal roto del ojo de una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/broken-glass-reflection-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/broken-glass-reflection-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/broken-glass-reflection-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re what killed your flame, remember? Avoid this at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>This is why the whole figuring out what went wrong is so crucial. Without this, you don&#8217;t stand a chance.<\/p>\n<p>Si su problema era que nunca se dedicaban tiempo el uno al otro, prop\u00f3ngase reservar un tiempo s\u00f3lo para el otro, sin romperlo nunca.<\/p>\n<p>The moment you start making excuses as to why you can&#8217;t do it &#8221;just this one time&#8221; is the moment it all starts going to hell.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59252\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-window-glass-reflection.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer sentada junto a una ventana con reflejo en el cristal\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-window-glass-reflection.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-window-glass-reflection-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-window-glass-reflection-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sea una persona de palabra. Si les prometiste compromiso, ofr\u00e9celes exactamente eso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tu ex necesita saber que puede confiar en ti. \u00bfC\u00f3mo van a hacerlo si ven que vuelves a las andadas?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Making each other a priority is what it&#8217;s all about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you&#8217;re adamant to make your ex want you back, you need to show them there&#8217;s something worth coming back to!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve had so many experiences with exes who kept promising me mountains but when it came time to deliver, they were all talk. It&#8217;s hurtful and disappointing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-jeans-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja abraz\u00e1ndose con chaqueta vaquera\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-jeans-jacket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-jeans-jacket-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-jeans-jacket-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We all deserve to be cherished. We all deserve to be someone&#8217;s first choice.<\/p>\n<p>All you have to do is show your ex that they&#8217;re more important to you than getting that perfect Snapchat photo or texting your BFF when you&#8217;re supposed to have some quality time together.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re together, that&#8217;s what should matter. No social media, no phone calls, just you two getting your rhythm back.<\/p>\n<p>Tell them &#8221;I love you&#8221; and prove it with your actions. As simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/la-gente-no-te-quiere-como-tu-los-quieres-a-ellos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">10 Subtle Signs People Don&#8217;t Like You As Much As You Like Them<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>6. \u00bfQui\u00e9n eres fuera de tu relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-yoga-sunrise.jpg\" alt=\"mujer postura de yoga meditando al amanecer\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-yoga-sunrise.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-yoga-sunrise-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-yoga-sunrise-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Self-care is vital. Your relationship doesn&#8217;t define you.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente aumenta tu felicidad, pero T\u00da eres quien decide qu\u00e9 tipo de persona eres por ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, incluso cuando por fin volv\u00e1is a estar juntos, no olvides nunca darte prioridad a ti tambi\u00e9n. A los dos.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas saber qui\u00e9n eres sin necesidad de que te definan.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando te ocupes de tu propia persona, tu autoestima aumentar\u00e1 y te sentir\u00e1s completo, tanto soltero como en pareja.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-piano-guitar.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tocando el piano guitarra estanterias fondo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-piano-guitar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-piano-guitar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-piano-guitar-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Haz cosas por tu cuenta. Invol\u00facrate en cualquier cosa que encienda un fuego en tu interior y ay\u00fadate a alcanzar la m\u00e1xima alegr\u00eda en la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Hacer cosas que te hacen feliz tambi\u00e9n mejora tu salud mental.<\/p>\n<p>Dedicar tiempo a descubrir las cosas que te aportan felicidad fuera de tu pareja da sentido a tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso te ayuda a ser mejor persona, adem\u00e1s de mejor compa\u00f1ero.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que lo m\u00e1s importante es lo siguiente: Pase lo que pase con tu ex, aseg\u00farate siempre de hacer las cosas por tu propio bienestar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-grey-sweater-coffee-book.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer con jersey gris sosteniendo una taza de caf\u00e9 y leyendo un libro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-grey-sweater-coffee-book.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-grey-sweater-coffee-book-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-grey-sweater-coffee-book-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Usted es su mayor inversi\u00f3n. Y mereces asegurarte una vida feliz, sana y plena, de la forma que te plazca.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas que dedican tiempo a escuchar lo que les dice su coraz\u00f3n acaban llevando una vida m\u00e1s feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner will be happy to see you thrive on your own, and you will feel like you&#8217;re on top of the world.<\/p>\n<p>Try it. I promise, it&#8217;s the best way to live life.<\/p>\n<p>Y te hace un mill\u00f3n de veces m\u00e1s atractiva. Ser feliz, satisfecho e independiente grita material para una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;d be a fool not to give you a second chance.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Dejarles siempre con ganas de m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59264\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-man-hat-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja junto al \u00e1rbol en flor hombre con sombrero y mujer sonriente\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-man-hat-woman-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-man-hat-woman-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-man-hat-woman-smiling-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the thing. On your way to getting your ex back, you want them to see you as this amazing girl who&#8217;s truly ready for a healthy relationship, right?<\/p>\n<p>Eso significa que tienes que hacer que quieran pasar tiempo contigo tanto como sea posible.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY c\u00f3mo lo haces? Dej\u00e1ndoles siempre con ganas de m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t put all the cards on the table at once. Don&#8217;t let them see how eager you are. Leave some mystery.<\/p>\n<p>Play hard to get. Be your best self and just when they&#8217;re hooked, decide you have somewhere you need to be.<\/p>\n<p>That is how you&#8217;ll get their attention. Even if you&#8217;ve successfully managed to get them back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59266\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-potted-plants-white-wall.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre sentado entre plantas delante de una pared blanca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-potted-plants-white-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-potted-plants-white-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-potted-plants-white-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s never okay to be too overbearing. Leave some space for them to miss you!<\/p>\n<p><strong>That way, every time your ex isn&#8217;t with you, they&#8217;ll be wondering what you&#8217;re doing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Y eso te pondr\u00e1 en su radar mejor que cualquier otra t\u00e9cnica.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>La gente necesita una raz\u00f3n para volver a quererte. Todo lo que tienes que hacer es d\u00e1rsela.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe this new you is a cool, adventurous person who&#8217;s totally fine with not being at each other&#8217;s beck and call all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Once your ex sees how easy it is to be around you and how much there still is to find out about you, they&#8217;ll be enchanted.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59267\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman-plants.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre y mujer abrazados rodeados de plantas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman-plants.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman-plants-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman-plants-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Think about it from your own perspective. Don&#8217;t you just love it when you have something to look forward to? Isn&#8217;t it so appealing to have some mystery?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hot, it&#8217;s necessary, and it&#8217;s what a long-term relationship needs.<\/p>\n<p>Falling into a rut is so easy\u2026 Avoid it by breathing some fresh air into your newfound relationship (take two).<\/p>\n<p>If they love you, they&#8217;ll love this new side of you. Desperation is SO last year.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s all about a cool, calm demeanor and taking it super easy.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/sternbergs-triangular-theory-of-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">El amor consumado: Explicando la teor\u00eda triangular del amor de Sternberg<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>8. Desencadenar los celos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59268\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-boxing-gloves.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando hacia abajo con guantes de boxeo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-boxing-gloves.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-boxing-gloves-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-boxing-gloves-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Descargo de responsabilidad: Algunas personas no son celosas, as\u00ed que hagas lo que hagas, puede que no respondan.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Don&#8217;t be alarmed by it. Every other method from the list can easily do the trick!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lo primero es encontrar a alguien con quien dar celos a tu ex.<\/p>\n<p>It should NOT be someone who&#8217;s in a relationship nor should you do it if you&#8217;re in one.<\/p>\n<p>But since you&#8217;re trying to get your ex back, I&#8217;m assuming you&#8217;re very much single.<\/p>\n<p>Bien, primero, encuentra a alguna persona atractiva en tu c\u00edrculo social que pueda ayudarte a conseguirlo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59269\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-festival-lights.jpg\" alt=\"pareja abrazada y cogida de la mano delante de las luces del festival\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-festival-lights.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-festival-lights-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-festival-lights-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Second, find out if your ex is attending any events or if you&#8217;ll be seeing them during your weekend night out with mutual friends.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you will \u2013 awesome! Bring that person and remain close.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hold their hand, smile like you mean it and give the impression that you&#8217;re truly happy (but don&#8217;t overdo it).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Seguro que tu ex se da cuenta. Y su reacci\u00f3n te dir\u00e1 todo lo que necesitas saber.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa que puedes intentar es publicar fotos con esta nueva persona en tus cuentas de redes sociales.<\/p>\n<p>Eso despertar\u00e1 sin duda algunos celos y quiz\u00e1 haga que se pongan en contacto contigo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59270\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-drinking-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja bebiendo caf\u00e9 mientras se miran\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-drinking-coffee-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-drinking-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-drinking-coffee-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll likely want to know what the nature of your relationship is (which is a sign that they&#8217;re definitely not over you!)<\/p>\n<p>This way, you can reassure them that you&#8217;re just really good friends and you&#8217;re very much single (much to their delight).<\/p>\n<p>Now that it&#8217;s obvious that there are still sparks there, you may even ask to meet up for coffee and talk in person. But don&#8217;t plan the conversation beforehand.<\/p>\n<p>Let things happen organically because that&#8217;s the only way you can actually start the relationship again. No forcing.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo dos personas encontrando el camino de vuelta el uno al otro.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Env\u00edales un texto bonito y nost\u00e1lgico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59271\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"Primer plano de una mujer sonriendo mientras env\u00eda un mensaje de texto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-woman-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-woman-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-woman-texting-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Contacting your ex after the breakup can be really challenging. You don&#8217;t want to sound needy but you want them to know how much you miss them.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes muchas ganas de enviarles un mensaje, pero tambi\u00e9n quieres que sean ellos los que inicien la conversaci\u00f3n. \u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer?<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, una forma de ver si te quieren de vuelta es envi\u00e1ndoles un texto casual de algo que te recuerde a ellos.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s cute and personal, but not overbearing. And they will surely be pleased to see something reminding you of them and immediately make them nostalgic.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it&#8217;s your song playing in the supermarket? Maybe you saw a cute labrador on the street that reminded you of their fur baby that you also miss so much?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59274\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/labrador-lying-down-on-grass.jpg\" alt=\"Perro labrador tumbado sobre hierba salvaje\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/labrador-lying-down-on-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/labrador-lying-down-on-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/labrador-lying-down-on-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Es una forma segura de captar su atenci\u00f3n a trav\u00e9s de un texto inocente, nost\u00e1lgico y profundamente personal.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Qui\u00e9n sabe, puede que esto sea lo que haga que te pidan salir de nuevo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After enough time has passed, a lot can change. They may realize that you&#8217;re still the one for them.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que ambos ve\u00e1is las cosas desde una perspectiva m\u00e1s clara.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, there may have been issues. But who doesn&#8217;t have them? Everyone struggles sometimes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59275\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Affection-beautiful-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa pareja abraz\u00e1ndose mientras se sientan en los campos de hierba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Affection-beautiful-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Affection-beautiful-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Affection-beautiful-couple-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s all about who&#8217;s worth the pain. And they may realize that you indeed are.<\/p>\n<p>Si esto funciona, intenta ser positivo, mant\u00e9n el ritmo y preoc\u00fapate de verdad por lo que tienen que decir.<\/p>\n<p>Mantente presente en el momento y act\u00faa como el compa\u00f1ero atento que sabes que necesitan.<\/p>\n<p>Deja que se den cuenta por s\u00ed mismos del error que fue romper.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/mi-novio-me-engano\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">My Boyfriend Cheated On Me: 21 Things You Should And Shouldn&#8217;t Do<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>10. Centrarse en el futuro, NO en el pasado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59277\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couples-hands-matching-rings.jpg\" alt=\"Manos de pareja con anillos a juego\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couples-hands-matching-rings.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couples-hands-matching-rings-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couples-hands-matching-rings-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vale, definitivamente ten\u00e9is que reconocer que durante el tiempo que estuvisteis separados, ambos llevasteis claramente vidas que pueden haber involucrado a otras personas.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s up to you how much you&#8217;re ready to divulge, but my advice is not a lot.<\/p>\n<p>Your ex doesn&#8217;t need to know that you slept with a random dude. And you don&#8217;t need to know about their hook-ups.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This will only bring feelings of uncertainty and anxiety. If you&#8217;re truly adamant to give this a real shot, be focused on the future, NOT the past.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>That&#8217;s the only way to make it work.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59278\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-woman-lying-on-grass.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre y mujer tumbados en la hierba abrazados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-woman-lying-on-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-woman-lying-on-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-woman-lying-on-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We all have a past. We&#8217;ve all done things while we were single that our partners are better off not knowing.<\/p>\n<p>Si est\u00e1s haciendo borr\u00f3n y cuenta nueva, \u00a1deja que sea as\u00ed! Decide establecer nuevas reglas.<\/p>\n<p>Discutid c\u00f3mo quer\u00e9is aseguraros de que esta vez ninguno de vosotros flaquee.<\/p>\n<p>Pero hagas lo que hagas, no les preguntes qu\u00e9 hac\u00edan cuando estabais separados. La curiosidad mat\u00f3 al gato, \u00bfrecuerdas?<\/p>\n<p>Trust them that they&#8217;ll be committed to you now and promise the same to them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59279\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-woman-hugging-man.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja mujer abrazando hombre besa la cabeza por detr\u00e1s\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-woman-hugging-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-woman-hugging-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-woman-hugging-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So many times in life I&#8217;ve realized that life is just too short to let a good thing go by.<\/p>\n<p>Si esta persona realmente significa tanto para ti, ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil asegurarte un borr\u00f3n y cuenta nueva sin promesas rotas.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t hurt yourself by not being able to forget the past and move forward.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The future can be so bright\u2026 You just have to let the past stay where it belongs.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando recuper\u00e9 a mi ex, fue exactamente as\u00ed. Me negaba a saber lo que hac\u00eda cuando est\u00e1bamos separados porque sab\u00eda que me doler\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s si lo supiera.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59280\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-cement-floor-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja sentada en un suelo de cemento contemplando la puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-cement-floor-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-cement-floor-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-cement-floor-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What does it matter anyway? The only thing that really matters is that when two people are ready to give it another shot, it&#8217;s not about yesterday. It\u2019s all about now.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3mo decidas actuar ahora es c\u00f3mo se desarrollar\u00e1 todo al final.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s it going to be? Are you ready to see what your future has in store?<\/p>\n<p>Si es as\u00ed, desp\u00eddete del ayer, porque hoy es un nuevo d\u00eda para un nuevo comienzo.<\/p>\n<h2>Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59281\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-kissing-womans-nose.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja abraz\u00e1ndose con el hombre besando la nariz de la mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-kissing-womans-nose.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-kissing-womans-nose-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-kissing-womans-nose-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re getting back with your ex, you need to tread lightly.<\/p>\n<p>This is your second chance for happiness and you don&#8217;t want to blow it.<\/p>\n<p>These methods are proven ways that have helped me get back together with my current boyfriend and, honestly, I&#8217;ve never been happier.<\/p>\n<p>But you can&#8217;t force someone to love you if the feelings are gone.<\/p>\n<p>Recuperarlos va a requerir mucha autorreflexi\u00f3n y examen de conciencia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59282\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-blonde-hair-hands-chin.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer sujeta pelo rubio por la barbilla\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-blonde-hair-hands-chin.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-blonde-hair-hands-chin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-blonde-hair-hands-chin-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No hay varitas m\u00e1gicas que agitar. S\u00f3lo t\u00fa y tus sinceras verdades.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u00bfEst\u00e1s realmente preparado para hacer que funcione esta vez?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Can you say with certainty that you&#8217;re able to not make the same mistakes again? Only time will tell.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Estos pasos sobre c\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te quiera de vuelta est\u00e1n aqu\u00ed para guiarte en la direcci\u00f3n correcta.<\/p>\n<p>Algunas de ellas te dar\u00e1n resultados si la chispa sigue ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59291\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-mirror-reflection-camera.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer selfie c\u00e1mara tiro espejo reflexi\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-mirror-reflection-camera.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-mirror-reflection-camera-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-mirror-reflection-camera-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But at the end of the day, all you can do is give it your best shot. And if you fail, at least you&#8217;ll know you tried!<\/p>\n<p><em>Incluso si te das cuenta de que tu relaci\u00f3n no puede salvarse, todav\u00eda hay algo que esperar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>En el proceso, puede que vuelvas a encontrarte a ti mismo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>And isn&#8217;t that kind of worth any struggle?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/100-frases-que-me-hacen-feliz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Top 100 frases que me hacen feliz para \u00e9l y para ella<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59321\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-make-Your-Ex-Want-You-Back-10-Methods-That-Really-Work-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te quiera de vuelta 10 m\u00e9todos que realmente funcionan Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-make-Your-Ex-Want-You-Back-10-Methods-That-Really-Work-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-make-Your-Ex-Want-You-Back-10-Methods-That-Really-Work-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-make-Your-Ex-Want-You-Back-10-Methods-That-Really-Work-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-make-Your-Ex-Want-You-Back-10-Methods-That-Really-Work-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since you&#8217;re here, I&#8217;m going to take a wild guess and assume you\u2019re eager to know how to make your ex want you back. Am I warm? We&#8217;ve all been there. We&#8217;ve all tried so hard to get an ex back, only to fail. But I&#8217;m going to share with you some proven methods that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":58927,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58249","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Make-Your-Ex-Want-You-Back-10-Methods-That-Really-Work.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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