{"id":5825,"date":"2019-09-29T12:17:26","date_gmt":"2019-09-29T12:17:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5825"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:54","slug":"el-hombre-adecuado-en-el-momento-equivocado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-hombre-adecuado-en-el-momento-equivocado\/","title":{"rendered":"Eras el tipo adecuado en el momento equivocado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Es un hecho bien conocido que el tiempo es algo que ninguno de nosotros puede afectar. Apuesto a que todos ustedes han tenido una situaci\u00f3n en sus vidas cuando conociste a un chico incre\u00edble, pero \u00e9l ya estaba ocupado. O os acercasteis a la persona que se convirti\u00f3 en vuestra amiga en muy poco tiempo, pero tuvo que mudarse.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cosas as\u00ed ocurren todo el tiempo y somos nosotros los que tenemos que decidir si merece la pena correr el riesgo.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am writing all this because I once fell for the wrong guy. I mean he was the right one but at the wrong time. Which means we didn\u2019t make our dreams come true.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Los dos est\u00e1bamos desesperados por la situaci\u00f3n en la que nos encontr\u00e1bamos. Quer\u00edamos estar juntos pero ambos est\u00e1bamos casados. \u00c9l viv\u00eda en un matrimonio infeliz igual que yo. <\/span><\/p>\n

When I think twice, now I finally understand that all those mysterious looks between the two of us were signs that we understood each other even if we didn\u2019t say anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> As\u00ed es como me cas\u00e9 con mi ex<\/a><\/p>\n

Era f\u00e1cil vernos todos los d\u00edas, ya que trabaj\u00e1bamos en la misma empresa. A\u00fan recuerdo c\u00f3mo me miraste aquel d\u00eda cuando te cont\u00e9 que mi marido me hab\u00eda pegado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todav\u00eda ten\u00eda el morat\u00f3n en la cara, pero me las arregl\u00e9 para cubrirlo con un poco de base de maquillaje. Pude ver la rabia en sus ojos porque alguien me hiciera sentir as\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you, I was a woman to love. And I must admit that I felt the same for you. But the circumstances weren\u2019t in our favor.<\/span><\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t leave my husband because I was feeling sorry for my kids and you felt the same way about yours. I always wanted my kids to have a good home and loving parents, and I knew that a divorce would ruin them.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s por qu\u00e9 segu\u00ed en una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a> like that. I wanted my kids to feel safe and good and I wasn\u2019t thinking about myself at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ahora, desear\u00eda haber podido escapar del hombre abusivo que era mi marido. Podr\u00eda haber tenido una vida incre\u00edble con el hombre que eleg\u00ed. Y lo estar\u00eda eligiendo cada vez. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero la vida escribi\u00f3 una historia diferente para los dos. T\u00fa seguiste con tu mujer y yo con mi marido. Y lo hicimos aunque nuestros mundos se desmoronaran. <\/span><\/p>\n

No es tan f\u00e1cil dejar a quien amas y saber que nunca estar\u00e1s con \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because that\u2019s what the two of us did. We stayed in unhappy relationships to make others happy while we were sad. We sacrificed our lives to make our kids feel good. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe we shouldn\u2019t have done that. Maybe our kids would have been happier in a different family. Maybe it would be better for them not to look their parents argue every single day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just maybe\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Pero elegimos un camino diferente. Y quiz\u00e1 las cosas ser\u00edan muy diferentes si ambos nos hubi\u00e9ramos esforzado. Porque cuando conoces al hombre adecuado, nunca es mal momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will do anything to make it work, right? Unfortunately, you and I weren\u2019t so brave and we went with the flow.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, this story is for all of you out there who think that they met the right guy at the wrong time. If you let go a person you love the most, you can\u2019t blame timing. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can only blame yourself because you weren\u2019t into them enough to make it work.<\/span><\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a magical time when all the things will fit into their places. But there is maybe a person in your life who will make timing unessential.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y cuando esa persona se convierta en parte de tu vida, encontrar\u00e1s la forma de apegarte a ella porque ese tipo de sincronizaci\u00f3n es <\/span>siempre <\/i><\/b>\u00a1Muy bien!<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It is a well-known fact that timing is something that none of us can affect. I bet all of you had a situation in your lives when you met an amazing guy but he was already taken. Or you got close to the person who became your friend in a very short time but he…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":5826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/StockSnap_EPF8FMHVS5.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5825"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}