{"id":5855,"date":"2020-09-29T13:57:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T13:57:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5855"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:50:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:50:10","slug":"5-senales-de-que-eres-madre-y-no-novia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-eres-madre-y-no-novia\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que eres su madre, no su novia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las mujeres tenemos ese instinto maternal natural que se supone que es bueno, pero a veces las cosas se nos van de las manos.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/91486-14-things-you-should-never-tolerate-in-a-relationship-because-you-deserve-someone-who-wants-you\" rel=\"noopener\">En cualquier relaci\u00f3n, la pareja debe cuidar de su pareja.<\/a>, but if instead of nurturing your relationship, you start nurturing your partner\u2014you have a problem! If you are not sure whether you\u2019re crossing the line already, read these certain signs:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Limpiar despu\u00e9s de \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113189\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en el sal\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Always running after him and picking up his shirts and socks all over the apartment will make the term \u201chot mama\u201d too literal.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, limpiar lo que ensucia cada vez que come o derrama la cerveza es malcriarlo.<\/p>\n<p>He is a grown man\u2014he can do all these things on his own!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dejas argumentos sin resolver<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113190\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer enfadada sentada junto a su novio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every relationship has fights but it\u2019s crucial to solve and not bury them. If you leave an argument unresolved, the only thing you\u2019re gonna feel is anger.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfRecuerdas c\u00f3mo nos pele\u00e1bamos con nuestros padres cuando \u00e9ramos ni\u00f1os? Ahora todo tiene sentido, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p>En las relaciones, resolver las peleas deber\u00eda ser lo contrario que cuando erais ni\u00f1os, porque ahora los papeles que jug\u00e1is son iguales.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le rega\u00f1as constantemente para que haga cualquier cosa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113191\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mujer enfadada hablando con un hombre en una cafeteria\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-at-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need to give him a list of chores to do like a child\u2014do the dishes, take out the garbage, clean up your stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Nagging him won\u2019t get him to do what you want him to do, it\u2019ll only make him feel more like he\u2019s back living with his mom.<\/p>\n<p>If he can&#8217;t do those things on his own, if he is so irresponsible, do yourself a favor\u2014dump him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Control absoluto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113192\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en conflicto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-conflict-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A algunas personas les encanta estar al mando.<\/p>\n<p>There are limits, but if your partner expects you to be in control of everything, or if you\u2019re doing that precisely because you don\u2019t trust him, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n<p>Para que la relaci\u00f3n sea duradera, ambos deb\u00e9is llevar las riendas a partes iguales.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You personally feel like he\u2019s more your child than your partner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en desacuerdo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/couple-having-disccusion-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Stop for a second, and ask yourself: Is this guy really someone to whom you\u2019re emotionally and passionately attached?<\/p>\n<p>Is he really someone who you want to be next to you when you need him the most? Or is he just a needy child who can\u2019t stand on his own feet?<\/p>\n<p>One day, you\u2019ll have your own child, and caring for two babies at once is something you have to think about very carefully.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-es-un-nino-emocionalmente-inmaduro\/\">5 se\u00f1ales de que es un ni\u00f1o de mam\u00e1 emocionalmente inmaduro<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113195\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Signs-Youre-His-Mother-Not-His-Girlfriend-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 se\u00f1ales de que eres su madre, no su novia\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Signs-Youre-His-Mother-Not-His-Girlfriend-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Signs-Youre-His-Mother-Not-His-Girlfriend-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Signs-Youre-His-Mother-Not-His-Girlfriend-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Signs-Youre-His-Mother-Not-His-Girlfriend-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Signs-Youre-His-Mother-Not-His-Girlfriend-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Woman have that natural maternal instinct which is supposed to be a good thing, but sometimes things get out of hand. In any relationship, partners should be taking care of their significant other, but if instead of nurturing your relationship, you start nurturing your partner\u2014you have a problem! If you are not sure whether you\u2019re&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":113194,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5855","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Signs-Youre-His-Mother-Not-His-Girlfriend-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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