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<\/p>\n\u00c9rase una vez una chica que sent\u00eda que ya no pod\u00eda luchar.<\/p>\n
Que sent\u00eda como si toda la energ\u00eda se hubiera drenado de ella. Se sent\u00eda cansada, enferma, indiferente.<\/p>\n
There was this boy. There\u2019s ALWAYS a boy. He made her sink deep down into the abyss. The great, black hole swallowed her.<\/p>\n
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Cuando ella quer\u00eda re\u00edr, \u00e9l la hac\u00eda llorar.<\/em><\/p>\n Cuando ella quer\u00eda cantar, \u00e9l la hac\u00eda callar.<\/em><\/p>\n Cuando ella estaba a punto de bailar, \u00e9l le pis\u00f3 los pies.<\/em><\/p>\n Nothing beautiful ever came from him. Inspiration, love, trust, romance – they were never a part of her life with him.<\/p>\n Nunca pudo confiar en que hiciera lo correcto, en que dijera las palabras adecuadas, en que le hiciera una promesa y la cumpliera.<\/p>\n Todo lo que recib\u00eda eran palabras insensibles y duras e ilusiones vac\u00edas de c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda su vida en el futuro, su futuro con \u00e9l. Se le revolv\u00eda el est\u00f3mago de pensarlo.<\/p>\n Su papel egoc\u00e9ntrico y carente de emociones en su vida lleg\u00f3 a ser tan abrumador, tan poderoso, que parec\u00eda que no hab\u00eda salida del ciclo t\u00f3xico en el que se encontraba con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Nada de lo que ella hac\u00eda era suficientemente bueno. Opinaba sobre todo lo que ella decid\u00eda hacer, sobre su comportamiento.<\/p>\n She didn\u2019t manage to see past the image he had created of her. <\/strong>Pero algo cambi\u00f3. Algo hizo clic.<\/p>\n She knows her story. She knows how far she has come. She won\u2019t let him dictate her life any longer.<\/em><\/p>\n Buscaba a una persona que cambiara su vida y, en cuanto se dio cuenta de que el mejor lugar para mirarse era el espejo, todo empez\u00f3 a ser mucho, mucho mejor. Ese fue el primer paso.<\/p>\n Step two – was getting rid of the maniac who was ruining her life second by second, day by day, pulling her deeper into his web of controlling behavior.<\/p>\n No hab\u00eda paso tres. Dos simples pasos para hacer florecer su vida. La hab\u00eda hecho pasar por un infierno, pero ahora estaba en el cielo.<\/p>\n Sab\u00eda que era suficiente. Lo suficientemente lista, lo suficientemente guapa, lo suficientemente cari\u00f1osa. Nunca hab\u00eda sido suficiente para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Sab\u00eda que necesitaba un buen hombre. Aprendi\u00f3 a alejarse de los chicos malos.<\/p>\n Era un chico malo que por poco tiempo hab\u00eda parecido una gran elecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Ahora sab\u00eda que se merec\u00eda a alguien que confiara en su amor por ella. <\/strong><\/p>\n Someone who wouldn\u2019t test her, someone who wouldn\u2019t give her a trial only position in their relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sab\u00eda que necesitaba a alguien que valorara su tiempo en lugar de malgastarlo.<\/p>\n Someone who wasn\u2019t too busy for her. A boy who missed her when she was gone – as simple as that.<\/p>\n Ya no quer\u00eda ser un plan de reserva. Su hombre ten\u00eda que estar seguro de que ella era la elegida, no la segunda mejor.<\/p>\n She wasn\u2019t someone he\u2019d settle for, she was his absolute best.<\/strong><\/p>\n She deserved someone who\u2019d fight for her, not someone who would throw in the towel like she was no longer an option.<\/p>\n Alguien a quien le importara. Quer\u00eda encontrar algo especial. Quer\u00eda volver a sentirse completa.<\/p>\n Necesitaba a alguien que apreciara todo lo que ella es. S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda ser ella misma.<\/p>\n Necesitaba sentir confianza. Necesitaba no preocuparse de que su chico la hiciera enfermar haciendo algo que nunca podr\u00eda olvidar.<\/p>\n Necesitaba la calma de confiar plenamente en alguien. Una vez recuperada de sus cenizas, se dio cuenta de lo que buscaba.<\/p>\n She was looking for someone who was the complete opposite of him. Someone who wasn\u2019t like him in any way, because everything he ever did was awful.<\/p>\n She was looking for love. Commitment. Healthy communication. And, let me tell you something – she sure found it.<\/p>\n Su alma gemela estaba a la vuelta de la esquina, esper\u00e1ndola, m\u00e1s cerca de lo que jam\u00e1s hubiera imaginado.<\/em><\/p>\n Si ella nunca hubiera tenido la fuerza de romper con su horrible pasado, \u00e9l habr\u00eda esperado en vano.<\/p>\n She realized that life doesn\u2019t get better by chance but by change. He sure put her through hell but now, now she was in heaven.<\/p>\n Una cosa era cierta:<\/p>\n De ninguna manera su glorioso futuro podr\u00eda haber sido predicho por su devastador pasado.<\/em><\/p>\n Once upon a time, there was a girl who felt like she could no longer fight. Who felt like all the energy had drained out of her. She felt tired, sick, indifferent. There was this boy. There\u2019s ALWAYS a boy. He made her sink deep down into the abyss. The great, black hole swallowed her….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":58593,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58592","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/He-Put-Her-Through-Hell-But-She-Managed-To-Find-Heaven-Without-Him-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58592","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=58592"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58592\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/58593"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=58592"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=58592"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=58592"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-hat-on-sunset.jpg\")
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