{"id":58809,"date":"2020-04-02T21:28:06","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T21:28:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58809"},"modified":"2022-01-28T00:02:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T00:02:23","slug":"11-maneras-de-perderse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-maneras-de-perderse\/","title":{"rendered":"11 maneras de perderse cuando se est\u00e1 enamorado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las relaciones pueden ser din\u00e1micas y cambiar a menudo. Por eso es normal que cambies algunas cosas por tu pareja.<\/p>\n

However, you shouldn\u2019t change everything about yourself for the sake of the relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s nice to change some little things that your partner doesn\u2019t like, but even those changes shouldn\u2019t be made too often.<\/p>\n

Change is part of our growth process but constant adjustment will make you into a whole new person, and that\u2019s not healthy for your relationship<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t force someone to be with you, but<\/strong> un hombre que te ama se quedar\u00e1 contigo<\/b><\/a> pase lo que pase.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si quieres averiguar si has cambiado negativamente en tu relaci\u00f3n, preg\u00fantate si te identificas con alguno de los siguientes aspectos:<\/p>\n

1. You ALWAYS put your partner\u2019s needs ahead of yours<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you want to show your man how much you appreciate him, of course you\u2019ll put him ahead of your own needs sometimes.<\/p>\n

You want to make him happy so you\u2019ll do something that he likes, even if you don\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n

But if you always do that, it means that you\u2019re not caring for yourself the way you used to.<\/p>\n

Your partner has become the center of your universe (that\u2019s nice, don\u2019t get me wrong) and you have forgotten about all your own needs and wishes.<\/p>\n

Ten cuidado, tu hombre podr\u00eda acostumbrarse a esto y tambi\u00e9n podr\u00eda gustarle. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If he realizes what\u2019s happening, he may appreciate you less because he\u2019ll see that you don\u2019t appreciate yourself enough to stay true to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Buscas la aprobaci\u00f3n de tu hombre para todo lo que quieres hacer<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You want to know your partner\u2019s opinion about everything you do, and you\u2019ll change your mind if he is not okay with it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll even ask him his opinion about what clothes to wear and if he says that your choice isn\u2019t the best, you\u2019ll immediately change your clothes.<\/p>\n

Esto podr\u00eda llegar a ser muy peligroso porque podr\u00eda acostumbrarse a aprobar<\/span><\/a> todas tus acciones y tu aspecto.<\/p>\n

Una situaci\u00f3n as\u00ed puede hacer que tu relaci\u00f3n se vuelva t\u00f3xica y que acabes culp\u00e1ndote por no ser lo suficientemente bueno.<\/p>\n

3. Traicionas tu moral por \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tu moral es lo que te define. \u00bfQu\u00e9 ser\u00edas sin ellas, o si est\u00e1n en constante cambio? \u00bfSer\u00edas realmente la misma persona?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You think it\u2019s okay to neglect and change your beliefs and morals because of the man you love.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll do everything necessary to be with him, even if it means that you have to change the most important thing about yourself.<\/p>\n

If you lose yourself this way, you won\u2019t be able to fully enjoy your relationship.<\/p>\n

A veces piensas en cambiar tu moral s\u00f3lo para evitar una pelea con \u00e9l. Tienes miedo de entrar en conflicto con \u00e9l en caso de que te deje.<\/p>\n

Bueno, si lo hace, significa quehe doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/span><\/a> because he thinks that your opinion doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

4. Te callas lo que sientes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve always talked about your feelings and you don\u2019t regret it. You\u2019ve even encouraged others to do the same.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s happened? Why are you keeping quiet now?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you what\u2019s happened: Your fear of losing the man you love. You are afraid that if you talk with him about what\u2019s bothering you, he won\u2019t understand or he\u2019ll be angry.<\/p>\n

Expresar los sentimientos es la parte m\u00e1s importante de toda relaci\u00f3n. Te ayuda a afrontar los problemas.<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019ve chosen to bury your feelings. Like that will make them go away.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t. You\u2019ll feel stressed and uncomfortable, but you\u2019ll deal with all the negative emotions because you think that opening up to your partner could be risky for your relationship.<\/p>\n

5. Ignoras tu intuici\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

De nuevo, esta es una de las cosas que haces porque you are afraid he\u2019ll leave<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a dudar de su lealtad. Incluso encuentras alguna peque\u00f1a prueba y tu instinto te dice que algo va mal.<\/p>\n

Empieza a llegar tarde a casa y empiezas a dudar a\u00fan m\u00e1s de que no te est\u00e9 siendo leal.<\/p>\n

But somehow, you\u2019ll choose to ignore all of the signs and to mute your intuition because you don\u2019t want to argue with him. You want to believe that he loves you the same way you love him.<\/p>\n

6. Su confianza se tambalea<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Your self-esteem is compromised by everything you let your partner do for you. You don\u2019t see yourself the way you used to. Now, the feeling of not being good enough is always with you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve become totally dependent on your partner because you are not sure that you\u2019ll do anything well by yourself.<\/p>\n

Your self-love is also compromised by lots of new changes. You don\u2019t feel comfortable in your own skin anymore.<\/p>\n

Estos nuevos sentimientos son desagradables para ti y puede que tardes meses en volver a enamorarte de ti misma.<\/p>\n

7. Olvidas a tus viejos amigos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You are in a relationship, not in a prison. So, why don\u2019t you continue to hang out with your friends? Remember, they #were there for you before your boyfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n

People grow up and drift apart – that\u2019s normal. But if you are able to keep your friendships you really should.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas estar agradecido a tus amigos por todo lo que hab\u00e9is pasado juntos, por todos los bonitos recuerdos de la infancia que hab\u00e9is creado juntos.<\/p>\n

8. Dejas en suspenso tus sue\u00f1os y objetivos<\/h2>\n

\"linda<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas que estabas lleno de sue\u00f1os y pasiones para el futuro? Ahora que<\/p>\n

has all changed. You\u2019ve put it all on hold because you want him to succeed first. You can wait a few years.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantate a ti mismo, \u00bfestar\u00eda satisfecho contigo ahora el que ten\u00edas 16 a\u00f1os? Si la respuesta es NO, empieza a cambiar tu comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Tienes que trabajar para hacer realidad tus sue\u00f1os. Te lo debes a ti misma. Se lo debes a esa ni\u00f1a que estudi\u00f3 mucho porque quer\u00eda terminar la escuela y convertirse en una mujer de \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n

9. Dejas pasar oportunidades de trabajo por \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nYou\u2019ve finally gotten a good job offer but decided that you won\u2019t accept it because you\u2019ll be miles away from your significant other.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your choice but remember how long you have waited for a good opportunity like this. If it really is true love, a long-distance relationship shouldn\u2019t be a threat.<\/p>\n

El antiguo t\u00fa aceptar\u00eda encantado la incre\u00edble oportunidad, sin pens\u00e1rselo dos veces.<\/p>\n

10. You can\u2019t stand it when you argue with your man<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

As we\u2019ve already said, you\u2019ll do whatever you can to avoid conflict. Most of the time you just shut up and let him say what he wants.<\/p>\n

Every time you have an argument with your man, you immediately start crying. All you can think about is how he\u2019ll leave you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to argue with him because you are temiendo c\u00f3mo terminar\u00e1 la lucha<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

11. Siempre hablas de \u00e9l y de vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you are hanging out with your besties, don\u2019t talk about your man all the time. They\u2019ll think that you are too clingy and that you can\u2019t be without him for even a minute.<\/p>\n

It will seem like you don\u2019t have any other things in life except him. And that\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

You still have many interesting things in your life to talk about with your friends, you\u2019ve just forgotten about all of them because you\u2019ve put your SO at the center of your universe.<\/p>\n

Para terminar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nSi te identificas con alguna de estas se\u00f1ales, \u00e9sta es tu llamada de atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Perderse en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> s\u00f3lo har\u00e1 que sea disfuncional y poco saludable.<\/p>\n

Then, when it ends – and it will because your partner will become bored with you – you\u2019ll have nothing left to give to your next love. You\u2019ll feel empty inside.<\/p>\n

Prioriza. Tu relaci\u00f3n contigo mismo debe ser siempre lo primero.<\/p>\n

El amor propio es la base de cualquier otro amor. C\u00f3mo puedes amar a otra persona si no eres capaz de amarte a ti mismo?<\/p>\n

Nunca cambies por un hombre. Conoce qui\u00e9n eres y cu\u00e1nto vales. Mantente siempre fiel a ti misma.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Recuerde<\/strong>, si un hombre te ama de verdad,<\/b><\/a> he\u2019ll accept you for who you are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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