{"id":58852,"date":"2020-04-02T22:36:19","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T22:36:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58852"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:45:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:45:17","slug":"me-pregunto-si-las-cosas-serian-diferentes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-pregunto-si-las-cosas-serian-diferentes\/","title":{"rendered":"Me pregunto si las cosas ser\u00edan diferentes si nos volvi\u00e9ramos a encontrar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que nos separamos, he intentado por todos los medios no pensar en el potencial que ten\u00eda nuestra historia de amor.<\/p>\n

Hago todo lo que puedo para no pensar en todo lo que podr\u00edamos haber llegado a ser y en todos los \"podr\u00eda haber sido\", \"deber\u00eda haber sido\" y \"podr\u00eda haber sido\".<\/p>\n

However, I don\u2019t always succeed. There are moments when I can\u2019t help myself so I end up tripping on how happy we could be.<\/p>\n

Y no s\u00f3lo eso: A menudo me sorprendo pensando en qu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda si nuestros caminos se cruzaran una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si tuvi\u00e9ramos otra oportunidad de corregir nuestros errores y hacer las cosas bien?<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

\u00bfDesperdiciar\u00edamos la oportunidad? \u00bfO la aprovechar\u00edamos al m\u00e1ximo, agradecidos de que la vida nos hubiera dado otra oportunidad de ser felices el uno junto al otro?<\/p>\n

As much as I try to avoid having this meaningless conversation with myself, there are times when I can\u2019t help but wonder: \u00bfnos equivocamos nosotros o se equivoc\u00f3 el momento?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfAcaso \u00e9ramos demasiado inmaduros para manejar la magnitud del amor que se nos enviaba o \u00e9ramos simplemente no debe ser<\/a> \u00bfdesde el principio?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 lo habr\u00edamos conseguido si nos hubi\u00e9ramos conocido en circunstancias vitales diferentes.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 todo habr\u00eda sido diferente si el momento hubiera sido el adecuado: si hubi\u00e9ramos sido mayores y hubi\u00e9ramos tenido la experiencia que tenemos ahora.<\/p>\n

Tal vez todo ser\u00eda diferente si nos conoci\u00e9ramos ahora, despu\u00e9s de todo este tiempo<\/strong>. \u00bfCrees que tendr\u00edamos alguna posibilidad?<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

After all, we\u2019re wiser, smarter, and more mature than we used to be, so I assume that we wouldn\u2019t let each other go so easily.<\/p>\n

Back then, we didn\u2019t appreciate each other and were convinced that we would find another romance just like ours right around the corner.<\/p>\n

We didn\u2019t know that what we had was more than special\u2013that it was a once in a lifetime kind of love and that we\u2019d spend all our time afterward looking for each other in everyone we encountered.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e1bamos que el amor bastaba para que todo fuera perfecto.<\/p>\n

Supon\u00edamos que las mariposas durar\u00edan para siempre y que era el fin cuando desaparec\u00edan.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I guess we were too immature to be aware of real life: we didn\u2019t know that amor verdadero<\/a> needs fighting and building and that it\u2019s much more than being crazy about each other all the time.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 est\u00e1bamos destinados a seguir caminos separados antes de volver a encontrarnos. A crecer individualmente antes de poder crecer juntos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe we had to spend some time apart, to find ourselves before finding each other. Maybe we had to part ways in order to cross one another\u2019s paths as better and improved versions of the immature kids we once were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs posible que Dios nos separara durante un tiempo porque era la \u00fanica manera de unirnos para siempre en el futuro?<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

\u00bfQue nos hizo pasar por todas estas penurias para que aprendi\u00e9ramos a apreciarnos unos a otros como nunca antes lo hab\u00edamos hecho?<\/p>\n

Tal vez se supon\u00eda que \u00edbamos a conocer a todos esos personas equivocadas<\/a> s\u00f3lo para darnos cuenta de que \u00e9ramos los \u00fanicos adecuados el uno para el otro todo el tiempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tal vez deber\u00eda haber intentado amar a todos esos hombres s\u00f3lo para ver que t\u00fa eres el \u00fanico en mi coraz\u00f3n. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Tal vez deber\u00edas haberte acostado con todas esas mujeres s\u00f3lo para ver que yo no estaba en ninguna parte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe we should have felt each other\u2019s absence because it\u2019s the only way to appreciate our presence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

\u00bfO me lo estoy inventando todo? \u00bfMe lo estoy imaginando todo y estoy convirtiendo nuestra historia de amor en un cuento de hadas interminable, s\u00f3lo para consolarme?<\/p>\n

\u00bfMe estoy mintiendo a m\u00ed misma? \u00bfEstoy huyendo de la verdad y neg\u00e1ndome a aceptar que hemos terminado hace mucho tiempo, que nuestro momento ha pasado y que el pasado nunca volver\u00e1?<\/p>\n

Have I been delusional for all these years? Or I am holding on to all of this because deep down, something is telling me it\u2019s the real deal?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Either way, I do know one thing: whether this is just false hope or my intuition, it\u2019s the only thing keeping me sane and emotionally alive.<\/p>\n

\"Me<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ever since we parted ways, I\u2019ve really tried my hardest not to think about the potential our love story had. I do my best not to think of everything we could have become and all the could haves, should haves, and might haves. However, I don\u2019t always succeed. There are moments when I can\u2019t help…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":58856,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58852","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Wonder-If-Things-Would-Be-Different-If-We-Met-Again.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58852","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=58852"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58852\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/58856"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=58852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=58852"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=58852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}