1. No veis futuro juntos<\/h2>\n
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One of the first bad signs that you ought to end your relationship is the fact that it isn\u2019t going anywhere, as much as you hate to admit it.<\/p>\n
You and your partner can\u2019t seem to agree about your life goals and this is not someone you see yourself growing old next to.<\/p>\n
This is especially the case if, for example, you want to start a family and have kids while they wouldn\u2019t mind dating for a couple more years and can\u2019t make you any promises regarding your future together.<\/p>\n
You’ll have to agree that these are some serious rompe tratos<\/a>s you won’t be able to surpass.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that every relationship has to last a lifetime but what\u2019s the point of being with someone you know you won\u2019t end up with?<\/p>\n Puede que las cosas vayan genial en este momento, pero si sabes que tu final es inevitable, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 perder m\u00e1s tiempo en una relaci\u00f3n que est\u00e1 condenada al fracaso?<\/p>\n Instead, end everything in time because you\u2019ll have to do it sooner or later.<\/p>\n \u00bfC\u00f3mo saber cu\u00e1ndo romper? Bueno, una de las respuestas es: cuando empiezas a pensar en otras personas.<\/p>\n There is absolutely nothing wrong if you see a girl or a guy you find objectively attractive even though you\u2019re in a happy relationship.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re not blind and you can\u2019t help but notice when someone is good-looking.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, cuando amas de verdad a tu pareja, nunca har\u00edas un movimiento hacia ella.<\/p>\n You may see the most beautiful woman or the most handsome man but you will forget all about them as soon as they\u2019re gone from your sight.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, this is not what\u2019s happening with you. In fact, you keep thinking about other people in a romantic way.<\/p>\n You continuously picture yourself next to someone who is not your partner and you can\u2019t help but imagine how your life would look next to another person.<\/p>\n Not only that\u2014there is probably someone specific you can\u2019t get out of your mind.<\/p>\n If this is something you can relate to, your relationship is already over; you\u2019re just still unaware of that fact.<\/p>\n Even though you haven\u2019t done anything just yet and you haven\u2019t physically cheated on your significant other, having someone else in your thoughts is a reason enough to break up with them.<\/p>\n A relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> debe hacerte avanzar y debe ser beneficioso para tu bienestar como persona.<\/p>\n Debe empujarte hacia adelante e inspirarte para convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo.<\/p>\n However, you feel like you can\u2019t move an inch next to your partner. You feel like they\u2019re holding you back and as if your romance leaves you no room for progress.<\/p>\n The same is happening with your entire relationship; it isn\u2019t going anywhere and you are both stuck in exactly the same places you were when you just started dating and there has been no improvement whatsoever.<\/p>\n Nothing is going on and you haven\u2019t evolved as a couple.<\/p>\n It is one thing if we\u2019re talking about a relationship that lasts only a few months because in that case, you should give it a little more time to see whether you and your partner will start moving forward.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you feel trapped in a long term relationship that hasn\u2019t moved forward in years, it is a good sign that nothing will change in the future either.<\/p>\n Entre otros factores, para que tu relaci\u00f3n tenga \u00e9xito es fundamental que seas compatible con tu otra mitad.<\/p>\n You two don\u2019t have to literally be the same people but you should definitely have similar desires, ambitions and goals.<\/p>\n After all, this is someone you\u2019re planning your life next to and you can expect a lot of fighting in the future unless you two have similar worldviews on the important things in life.<\/p>\n When you and your boyfriend want completely opposite things and have different attitudes in life but can\u2019t seem to find a middle ground, some serious problems will arise sooner or later.<\/p>\n En este escenario, a veces es mejor terminar las cosas a tiempo antes de que sea demasiado tarde. La cruda realidad es que ninguno de los dos vais a cambiar (ni deber\u00edais hacerlo) y es imposible vivir al lado de una persona que tiene poco en com\u00fan contigo.<\/p>\n Opposites do attract\u2014that is why you and your significant other started your relationship but they rarely last and that is why you two can\u2019t manage to make your trabajo de relaciones<\/a> ahora.<\/p>\n Por muy ardiente que sea vuestra acci\u00f3n bajo las s\u00e1banas, nunca es suficiente para que vuestra relaci\u00f3n tenga \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n Por otra parte, ir\u00f3nicamente, un mal vida sexual<\/a> (or when you can’t remember the last time you had sex) is more than a good reason for it to go downhill and eventually break down completely.<\/p>\n And that is exactly what\u2019s been going on with you and your partner lately.<\/p>\n Somehow, you two stopped having sex and even when you do sleep together, there is absolutely no passion involved and you feel like you\u2019re performing a task that needs to be done.<\/p>\n Por supuesto, en este escenario, deber\u00edas intentar hablar con tu otra mitad antes de hacer ning\u00fan movimiento.<\/p>\n Quiz\u00e1 s\u00f3lo est\u00e9is pasando por una mala fase o podr\u00edais mejorar las cosas con un poco de imaginaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, if the situation continues in this manner after you\u2019ve tried everything, it is more than clear that your chemistry is long gone.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t find you attractive anymore (or vice versa) and this lack of sex will bring problems to other parts of your relationship sooner or later.<\/p>\n Les guste admitirlo o no, todas las parejas se pelean de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si usted y su pareja discuten por cualquier cosa y si toda su comunicaci\u00f3n se basa en alg\u00fan tipo de pelea, es una buena se\u00f1al de que algo no va bien en su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Another red flag that the question \u201cHow to know when to break up?\u201d is appearing in your head with a reason is the fact that your arguments are not productive.<\/p>\n Os pele\u00e1is sin ning\u00fan motivo concreto, s\u00f3lo para deshaceros de la energ\u00eda negativa acumulada que sent\u00eds el uno hacia el otro.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, os insult\u00e1is y humill\u00e1is cada vez que ten\u00e9is un desacuerdo.<\/p>\n It is like you\u2019re incapable of having a healthy discussion where your opinions oppose without turning it into a bigger issue.<\/p>\n The problem is also that you repeat your arguments. You don\u2019t learn from them and you never once resolve them.<\/p>\n So, why do you keep staying in this kind of unhealthy environment? Why do you keep ruining your mental health by remaining next to someone you clearly can\u2019t get along with?<\/p>\n Seg\u00fan los expertos en citas, la mayor\u00eda de las parejas rompen por algo que cre\u00edan haber olvidado hace tiempo.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you think you forgave and forgot about your significant other\u2019s infidelity, lying or abuse and you continue living with them for a certain period of time as if everything is behind you and in perfect order.<\/p>\n Luego, al cabo de unos a\u00f1os, de la nada, tus traumas del pasado empiezan a perseguirte.<\/p>\n Te das cuenta de que en realidad sigues guardando rencor y que el resentimiento te est\u00e1 comiendo vivo.<\/p>\n Odio tener que dec\u00edrtelo, pero nunca perdonaste ni olvidaste las cosas que viviste.<\/p>\n Y probablemente nunca lo har\u00e1s. Por lo tanto, la \u00fanica oportunidad que tienes es alejarte.<\/p>\n Sabes que hiciste todo lo posible para superar este problema y tener un coraz\u00f3n abierto, pero tu resentimiento es simplemente m\u00e1s fuerte que tu raz\u00f3n y no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n No se puede arreglar un relaci\u00f3n unilateral<\/a>. You\u2019re the only one trying, so what\u2019s the point of investing more of yourself in a relationship you\u2019re only interested in building?<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you and your partner have put exactly the same amount of effort into your romance.<\/p>\n There will be days when you\u2019ll be giving your entire self, while they won\u2019t try at all and vice versa. Nobody can measure or weigh the effort you\u2019re both putting in.<\/p>\n However, if you feel like you\u2019re alone in this relationship, why don\u2019t you change your status and become officially single?<\/p>\n Muchas parejas se mantienen unidas por su pasado com\u00fan.<\/p>\n This is especially the case when you\u2019re still involved with your high school or college sweetheart; you two have been together for a lot of time, you\u2019re part of each other\u2019s families, you have a lot of mutual friends and you\u2019ve grown up together.<\/p>\n Con el tiempo, esta persona se ha convertido en tu zona de confort. Sabes qu\u00e9 esperar de ella en cada momento y representa familiaridad y seguridad.<\/p>\n Even though this is all nice, it shouldn\u2019t be the only reason you stay next to someone.<\/p>\n If you feel like you\u2019ve superado esta persona<\/a> and like your history together is the only thing that connects you, maybe it\u2019s time to part ways.<\/p>\n Please, don\u2019t feel guilty for choosing your future and present over your past. Don\u2019t let your memories hold you back and prevent you from moving on with your life.<\/p>\n A common reason why people stay in a relationship that doesn\u2019t make them happy is guilt.<\/p>\n You have no doubt that you want out but you know that your decision would break your partner\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n So you stay right where you are because you don\u2019t want to destroy them emotionally or hurt their feelings.<\/p>\n Well, let me tell you that this is one of the worst things you can do. First and foremost, by doing this, you\u2019re torturing yourself.<\/p>\n No matter how much you owe this person, you don\u2019t have the duty to be in this relationship if that is not something you want.<\/p>\n Secondly, you\u2019re hurting your partner even more by staying next to them, despite your desire to leave.<\/p>\n How do you think they would feel if they ever found out that you wanted to break up with them but didn\u2019t have the courage to do so?<\/p>\n Al fin y al cabo, \u00bfquerr\u00edas que tu ser querido estuviera contigo por compasi\u00f3n? \u00bfO preferir\u00edas que te dejara?<\/p>\n Cuando quieres a alguien, todo lo que hace es bonito. Pero cuando dejas de quererlo, cada peque\u00f1a cosa que hace empieza a molestarte.<\/p>\n This is exactly what\u2019s going on with your relationship; it seems that you\u2019re even bothered by the way your significant other inhales and exhales air.<\/p>\n You\u2019re irritated by the way they talk, eat and behave in every possible situation.<\/p>\n Most of all\u2014you\u2019re annoyed by their presence and touch. You can\u2019t stand this person hugging or kissing you, nor can you put up with them sleeping next to you anymore.<\/p>\n Sounds familiar, right? Well, it is a clear sign that it\u2019s time to consider a breakup.<\/p>\n Yes, there is a possibility of this being just a phase. Maybe you\u2019re easily agitated in general and involuntarily direct all of your negative energy toward the person you love the most.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you can\u2019t get rid of this feeling after some time has passed, it is a clear sign that it\u2019s time to consider breaking up.<\/p>\n Have you ever gotten yourself into a relationship with a person whose personality traits and habits you don\u2019t like?<\/p>\n Have you ever fallen in love with someone\u2019s potential instead of their true self? From day one, you expected them to change.<\/p>\n Esperabas que tu amor<\/a> les inspirar\u00eda para ser diferentes y mejores y para darse cuenta por fin de sus errores. Sin embargo, este cambio nunca lleg\u00f3.<\/p>\n You\u2019re both the same people you were at the beginning of your relationship and the truth is that those people are not compatible and can\u2019t function together.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t feel bad about this situation because it is one of the common reasons people part ways.<\/p>\n Instead, get to terms with the fact that your significant other will never change for real (because they don’t want to do so in the first place) and if you can\u2019t accept their true personality, stop trying to modify them and end things in a healthy way.<\/p>\n You\u2019re a mature adult who doesn\u2019t need anyone else\u2019s guidance through life.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need people telling you what to do or who to date. Despite all of this, you know very well that your best friends and family members wish you all the best.<\/p>\n Y la verdad es que, en muchos casos, pueden ver tu relaci\u00f3n sentimental de forma m\u00e1s clara y objetiva.<\/p>\n Al fin y al cabo, sus emociones no est\u00e1n invertidas en tu relaci\u00f3n y notan las se\u00f1ales de alarma antes que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n Por lo tanto, si tus allegados no dejan de aconsejarte que te hagas un nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a> and end this one, maybe they\u2019re right.<\/p>\n Of course, this shouldn\u2019t be the only reason for you to break things off. However, if you\u2019re in doubt and aren\u2019t sure whether there are enough warning signs that you should walk away, take their opinions into consideration.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t have a good relationship without healthy communication. You and your partner shouldn\u2019t be just lovers\u2014you should be best friends as well.<\/p>\n Debe ser la primera persona a la que quieras cont\u00e1rselo todo, tu confidente y consejero.<\/p>\n Alguien que sabes que siempre te dir\u00e1 la verdad, por dura que sea, pero que al mismo tiempo nunca te juzgar\u00e1.<\/p>\n Sadly, you and your partner stopped communicating in the healthiest ways. All you do is argue, you don\u2019t share secrets anymore and you would rather talk to anyone besides them.<\/p>\n De hecho, a veces parece que hab\u00e9is dejado de hablar por completo. S\u00ed, habl\u00e1is de cosas cotidianas sin importancia, pero no hay rastro de las conversaciones profundas y significativas que sol\u00edais tener.<\/p>\n El silencio que te rodea es cualquier cosa menos agradable o reconfortante; es inc\u00f3modo y lleno de tensi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Another warning sign that it\u2019s time to end your relationship is the lack of trust you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n Es probable que algo haya sucedido para que dejes de confiar en tu pareja o viceversa, pero lo cierto es que tu relaci\u00f3n actual no se acerca ni de lejos al romance que tuvisteis en el pasado.<\/p>\n You see, your partner should be someone who would never betray you, the person you know you can always rely on and someone you know wouldn\u2019t abandon you just because you\u2019re going through some rough patch.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, no es as\u00ed como te sientes \u00faltimamente. En lugar de eso, pierdes mucho tiempo y energ\u00eda en controlarles.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t get yourself to believe a word this person tells you and as much as you try, you don\u2019t consider them to be trustworthy.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s face it\u2014you would ditch your current relationship if it weren\u2019t for one thing\u2014your fear of being alone.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t stand your single life and you feel lonely and deserted when you\u2019re not a part of a couple and that is the only reason why you haven\u2019t gotten out of this romance.<\/p>\n Si este es el caso, es una se\u00f1al de advertencia de que una ruptura es lo mejor que puedes hacer en este instante.<\/p>\n Recuerde que ser soltero<\/a> in a healthy way beats being in a relationship that doesn\u2019t make you happy anytime.<\/p>\n After all, there is nothing wrong with not having a romantic partner and it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re alone in this world.<\/p>\n A\u00fan tienes tu trabajo, tus amigos, tu familia y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, a\u00fan te tienes a ti mismo.<\/p>\n Despite what you might think, you don\u2019t need someone to complete you or to give your life meaning. Trust me\u2014you\u2019ll be perfectly fine on your own.<\/p>\n A primera vista, las relaciones intermitentes parecen excitantes y emocionantes.<\/p>\n When you keep on breaking up and getting back together with someone, you see it as a clear sign that you two can\u2019t live without each other and that you\u2019re destinados a acabar juntos<\/a>.<\/p>\n Well, it\u2019s time to take off your rose-tinted glasses and see this practice as a red flag that this is not the person for you.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t care who is responsible for these behavior patterns\u2014tu relaci\u00f3n es t\u00f3xica<\/a> y est\u00e1 arruinando tu salud mental y emocional.<\/p>\n What exactly don\u2019t you understand? If you and your partner could function together and if you had the ability to build a good relationship, you wouldn\u2019t have been parting way every few weeks or months.<\/p>\n It is more than obvious that things aren\u2019t working, never did and, sadly, never will.<\/p>\n Break this relationship off once for all and give yourself space to find a new relationship that won\u2019t bring along all of this drama.<\/p>\n El amor no es un negocio. Sin embargo, hay veces en que hay que seguir la raz\u00f3n y no solo el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Hay momentos en los que no queda m\u00e1s remedio que sopesar las cosas y decidir cu\u00e1l es el paso correcto.<\/p>\n And that is exactly what you did\u2014you asked yourself how to know when to romper<\/a>escribiste en un papel todas las ventajas e inconvenientes de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Has enumerado todos los momentos felices y todos los tristes y has llegado a la conclusi\u00f3n de que hay muchos m\u00e1s contras que pros.<\/p>\n So, what more evidence do you need? Aren’t all those dealbreakers reason enough to leave your partner and to stop torturing yourself and ruining your emotional health?<\/p>\n Your romantic relationship should make you happy\u2014there is no arguing with that.<\/p>\n Of course, it shouldn\u2019t be the only source of your happiness but it should bring joy and satisfaction to your life.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the entire point of having a partner, right? To make your life a little bit better because you can be perfectly unhappy on your own.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that there should be rainbows and unicorns all the time and that healthy relationships don\u2019t have situations in which both of the people involved are sad or feel bad but if your relationship is making you miserable most of the time, it is not the real deal.<\/p>\n Deja de perder el tiempo con una persona y una relaci\u00f3n que te hacen sentir nervioso, negativo, pesimista o infeliz con tu vida amorosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n Aunque el amor no basta para que una relaci\u00f3n funcione, es una de las condiciones m\u00e1s importantes para que un romance tenga \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n You can have the best relationship ever on paper but if you and your partner stopped loving each other (or if one of you doesn\u2019t have any emotions left), I\u2019m sorry but there is probably nothing you can do.<\/p>\n2. Piensas en los dem\u00e1s<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. You aren\u2019t making any progress<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Quieres cosas diferentes<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. You\u2019ve stopped having sex<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Peleas todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-face-forward.jpg\")
<\/p>\n7. You can\u2019t forgive something from the past<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. You feel like you\u2019re alone in the relationship<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. You\u2019re only together because of your history<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10. You stay because you don\u2019t want to hurt your partner<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-her-head.jpg\")
<\/p>\n11. Empiezan a irritarte<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n12. Espera que cambien<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n13. Todo el mundo a tu alrededor apoya una ruptura<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n14. No tiene comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n15. Se ha roto la confianza<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n16. You\u2019re in a relationship out of fear of being alone<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n17. Segu\u00eds rompiendo y volviendo a estar juntos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n18. Hay m\u00e1s contras que pros<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n19. You aren\u2019t happy<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n20. You don\u2019t love each other anymore<\/h2>\n
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